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Old 21-07-2012, 06:07 PM
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A supposed friend who I have helped rise through the ranks o a company has recently spread lies and bullshit about me in the company to new and nearly new people to the point where one person working closely with me resigned for no reason, when I met her a few days later she told me what this guy had said an has since given me a statement

This guy I promoted thru the ranks and is now on 60k a year and in an audi purely on my recommendation an has enjoyed many overseas trips

He is good at what he does but was deffo lifted by me and our supposed friendship

I'm looking for a sneaky yet effective way of fucking him over without him knowing or with him knowing and not being able to prove it

Any ideas?
Old 21-07-2012, 06:15 PM
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if it was me i would just confront him face to face, dont stoop to his level.
Old 21-07-2012, 06:17 PM
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Have done and he has this cocky denial attached to him
Old 21-07-2012, 06:17 PM
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id just stab the cunt
Old 21-07-2012, 06:21 PM
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Plus he threatened me with physical violence that morning an was in a ferocious rage because he got caught out fucking up on his job and I just stood there looking at him calm as fuck with a bemused look on my face and didn't react at all, I think he carried this rage around with him that day and in the afternoon spewed some hateful lies which is why the new girl I hired resigned

He's now hiding behind H.R shit denying everything
Old 21-07-2012, 06:22 PM
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First of all, Why is he back stabbing you for your help in making him climb the ladder?

Whats he actually saying about you?
Old 21-07-2012, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by D-Sport
Plus he threatened me with physical violence that morning an was in a ferocious rage because he got caught out fucking up on his job and I just stood there looking at him calm as fuck with a bemused look on my face and didn't react at all, I think he carried this rage around with him that day and in the afternoon spewed some hateful lies which is why the new girl I hired resigned

He's now hiding behind H.R shit denying everything
Try and get a statement from the girl that resigned saying exactly what he said and when..? Then confront him or H.R department etc and ask him to explain it.

Whens hes stumped he will look ridiculous.

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Old 21-07-2012, 06:24 PM
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I wouldn't mind but we were really good friends fucking about with cars, went to le mans , and he sat at my table eating food, I just feel like I've been used these past two years by a two faced back stabbing cunt who used my good nature to his advantage
Old 21-07-2012, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted by James B
First of all, Why is he back stabbing you for your help in making him climb the ladder?

Whats he actually saying about you?
I was second in command in the company for 5 years up until last sept where I took on a self employed role selling having set up my own company so I fall outside the realm of two employees to him still an employee and me a contractor of sorts so this is where the HR thing gets messy

He said to the girl that I was the most hated person in the company, that I was fired last sept instead of me leaving to set up my own company supplying them with sales to fullfill, that I fucked up a telesales dept and made everyone leave an to watch my back with him that he will do you over and not pay you for your work

She has since agreed to rejoin me and met with the director of the company I was second in command with previously and she has provided a full statement to me
Old 21-07-2012, 06:32 PM
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We met Friday with the director and a HR person and he sat there denying everything and looking totally cocky and smirking an writing everything I said down on a notepad
I called the meeting to a halt and have asked for a full investigation to take place but with me being self employed to them the HR stuff might not be so straight forward

The director totally believes our side of the story and has had several runs in with this guy over his work of late
Old 21-07-2012, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by D-Sport
I wouldn't mind but we were really good friends fucking about with cars, went to le mans , and he sat at my table eating food, I just feel like I've been used these past two years by a two faced back stabbing cunt who used my good nature to his advantage
Sorry mate but there is no such thing as mates at work especially were money is concerned. I work with wankers that would shop their own mothers to get up the bullshit ladder.

Bide your time and wait till his guard is down. Food is a brilliant tool for revenge, unbelievable feeling when some dumb cunt doesn't know what they are eating but you do
Old 21-07-2012, 06:36 PM
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Gathering evidence statements is the only way to go.

Did someone witness his aggressive outbursts? if so more people to back your cause.

He could probably at least get a warning for spreading shit, the aggressive outburst might be enough to get another one.

however you need more people to witness it otherwise its 1 on 1 and your word versus his.
Old 21-07-2012, 06:36 PM
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I ran a sales team of 40 for 5 years and saw all sorts of cunts so I'm with you there but never saw this sucker punch coming, the stuff I covered this cunt for I amazing, he wasn't 4 weeks in the job an his then manager wanted shot of him and I saved his ass
Old 21-07-2012, 06:45 PM
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surely the whole point in revenge is that they know what happened and who did it but cant prove it otherwise whats the point doing anything if theyre unaware?
Old 21-07-2012, 06:57 PM
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The one person in the same room as him and the girl workin for me was brand new in to cover maternity leave and is suddenly deaf an cant hear properly

It's a situation of he said she said but the stuff the girl put on her statement is so descriptive with specific info she couldn't have made it up or be telling porkies

I sent him an email asking was it true adding the HR person and the director

If he was innocent surely like u or I would have been on the phone going " Jesus what the fuck is going on, I've just seen your email and I swear to go I never said anything like that "

Instead what he did was ring the girl he said it to and that had resigned and threatened her down the phone and said " we never had that conversation and lose my number"

I gave him until the following Friday at 5pm to come clean and apologise and put everyone right and I gave my word that that would have been the end of it, instead he ignored my emails and replied to the HR person and director denying it and didn't copy me on the email reply

Sounds like an innocent man eh??????

Hence trying to sort it "legally" is not going to work and the need for a "baldrick cunning type plan"
Old 21-07-2012, 07:18 PM
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Offer to make him a cup of coffee, then do a small blob of turd in the bottom.. When he tips his cup up to finish it off it will roll into his un expecting shit filled mouth.

Perfect.
Old 21-07-2012, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by 7sean7m7
Offer to make him a cup of coffee, then do a small blob of turd in the bottom.. When he tips his cup up to finish it off it will roll into his un expecting shit filled mouth.

Perfect.

Work remotely so don't be in the office too much and don't ever want to see the cunt again plus him taking coffee or food is never going to be happening, I'm looking for something evil that will fuck up his life for a period of time
Old 21-07-2012, 07:22 PM
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Havent you got any heavy handed mates?

Nothing that can be relevant to you but very much so to him That way nothing comes back on you.
Old 21-07-2012, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by D-Sport
Work remotely so don't be in the office too much and don't ever want to see the cunt again plus him taking coffee or food is never going to be happening, I'm looking for something evil that will fuck up his life for a period of time
What, like a cup full of acid to the face?

You really are angry arent you lol.
Old 21-07-2012, 07:31 PM
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Does he have a missus?
Is he a cheater?
If so,set him up with an escort and put it up all over facebook etc!!!!
If he's a cunt he deserves it anyway.
Old 21-07-2012, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by James B
What, like a cup full of acid to the face?

You really are angry arent you lol.

U have no idea how angry, I've actually thought of going back to his house and burning it to the ground,
Two problems
His family
And he would get the insurance and build a better one

I really want to do something that will have this guy fucked over, thought about sending the boys around but handing something like that over to a second party can have its comebacks and problems

I have so much dirt on the cunt re him riding women begin his wife's back its not funny, don't want to end up hurting her
Old 21-07-2012, 07:40 PM
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I'm in the same kind of situation
But when I see he cunt who was meant to be a good mate he will soon regret his actions

Just smack him in the gob and be done with it
Old 21-07-2012, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Psycho Warren
Gathering evidence statements is the only way to go.

Did someone witness his aggressive outbursts? if so more people to back your cause.

He could probably at least get a warning for spreading shit, the aggressive outburst might be enough to get another one.

however you need more people to witness it otherwise its 1 on 1 and your word versus his.

Warren seems to be good at this sort of thing............there are questions we will not ask him................for fear of our own safety...............generally, what he says, goes..............there are rumours of his methods...............which no one should speak of.

I have already said far too much

I must leave.....
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Originally Posted by v man
I'm in the same kind of situation
But when I see he cunt who was meant to be a good mate he will soon regret his actions

Just smack him in the gob and be done with it
Don't want the cunt to have his day in court taking assault action against me and getting money, I really want to take the waiting in the long grass approach and be able to look at the cunt and have him know I fucked him over and also have him know that I know he knows I did it but he can do fuckall
Old 21-07-2012, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted by D-Sport
I have so much dirt on the cunt re him riding women begin his wife's back its not funny, don't want to end up hurting her
Are you mental? Hes tried fucking with you and your career when you saved/made his career..

You would be doing her a favour.. I'm sure the courts would make sure shes compensated for having a tool of a husband that cant keep it zipped up!

Hes fucked with you now its your turn!!
Old 21-07-2012, 07:54 PM
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Glad there is another person out there as mental as me

So what's the best approach
Old 21-07-2012, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Psycho Warren
Gathering evidence statements is the only way to go.

Did someone witness his aggressive outbursts? if so more people to back your cause.

He could probably at least get a warning for spreading shit, the aggressive outburst might be enough to get another one.

however you need more people to witness it otherwise its 1 on 1 and your word versus his.
There is this girl and her statement, court for slander or defamation?
Old 21-07-2012, 08:00 PM
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stick his head in a vice then, and ram a "fist of fury" up his arse and leave to boil for 48 hrs lol
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You really need to separate your emotions.

If there is no money involved and your livelihood has not been put in jeopardy leave it.


I don't believe in karma but I do believe in don't get mad get even and you will have your chance I am sure.

Be the bigger man!
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Originally Posted by Shings
You really need to separate your emotions.

If there is no money involved and your livelihood has not been put in jeopardy leave it.


I don't believe in karma but I do believe in don't get mad get even and you will have your chance I am sure.

Be the bigger man!
I need to give it a few days maybe?

What I do know is since I left my previous position the sales have dropped from 100 a mth to 40 and I'm producing 25 of that 40 on my own and they have 6 other salespeople doing the balance so his position has actually been called into question because he now has 40% of what he had to do previously and his 60k salary is now way out o whack

Redundancy is facing him I'm certain and the boss who I really get on with and we see eye to eye on everything has assured me it won't be long before redundancy gets rid of him

I've withdrawn my services and sales until its sorted and this will have a huge impact financially to them with me accounting for 50% of their turnover an profits

I still want to fuck him over though
Old 21-07-2012, 08:40 PM
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Just shag him and be done with it.

I feel that a bit of VBRJ is called for here
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Originally Posted by D-Sport
I need to give it a few days maybe?

What I do know is since I left my previous position the sales have dropped from 100 a mth to 40 and I'm producing 25 of that 40 on my own and they have 6 other salespeople doing the balance so his position has actually been called into question because he now has 40% of what he had to do previously and his 60k salary is now way out o whack

Redundancy is facing him I'm certain and the boss who I really get on with and we see eye to eye on everything has assured me it won't be long before redundancy gets rid of him

I've withdrawn my services and sales until its sorted and this will have a huge impact financially to them with me accounting for 50% of their turnover an profits

I still want to fuck him over though
Personally I think you've done the best thing here this will hit the business hard and they'll soon realise how much they need you and not him he'll be gone and you'll be back on board and sat back laughing. Give it a month or two for the cunt to be out if work and things to get tight then go see his mrs and tell all job jobbed.

Usually I'd say kick the fuck out of him bla bla bla but I've been there and done that several times but sadly it's you and me that get on the wrong side of the law and cunts like that that get the last laugh after there broken bones have healed. Lesson learnt stay calm simmer instead of boil and take time to think about your revenge carefully without violence or comebacks.

I wish you the best of look just reading this has me annoyed he reminds me of someone
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Originally Posted by Shings
You really need to separate your emotions.

If there is no money involved and your livelihood has not been put in jeopardy leave it.


I don't believe in karma but I do believe in don't get mad get even and you will have your chance I am sure.

Be the bigger man!
Agree 100% with this. It's not like you've lost out in anyway, apart from a fake friendship, but it's not worth the hassle.

At the most, I'd curl one out on his windscreen.
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Originally Posted by CrOwSoN15
Agree 100% with this. It's not like you've lost out in anyway, apart from a fake friendship, but it's not worth the hassle.

At the most, I'd curl one out on his windscreen.
Company car which I got the cunt so this wouldn't affect him, he would simply send it in to be fixed,
If I could only find out if he was drink driving and call the cops on him
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I meant take a shit on it
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Originally Posted by CrOwSoN15
I meant take a shit on it
Oh lol

Actually now u have me thinking

Drop shit on the drivers door handle
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Now you're thinking! Little niggly things, nothing personal, just things that'll piss him off.

Anti-vandal paint on the inside of the handle would be good.
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These types are everywhere, and you can spend your life stressing and getting bent out of shape over them whilst they carry on regardless, or, you can ignore the pr*ck, put it down as a lesson learnt and carry in, safe in the knowledge that you wont worry yourself into an early grave over them, and know that eventually they will come a cropper.
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Originally Posted by matts1
These types are everywhere, and you can spend your life stressing and getting bent out of shape over them whilst they carry on regardless, or, you can ignore the pr*ck, put it down as a lesson learnt and carry in, safe in the knowledge that you wont worry yourself into an early grave over them, and know that eventually they will come a cropper.
I agree to a certain extent but Ireland is a small place and lies spread quickly and it's not on to have your character tainted
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Originally Posted by CrOwSoN15
Now you're thinking! Little niggly things, nothing personal, just things that'll piss him off.

Anti-vandal paint on the inside of the handle would be good.

What's anti vandal paint



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