Well devistated is a word I have never used b4! but its the only word I can think of that even come sclose to how I am feelin right now!

As some of ya know me & the mrs have been havin a few prob recently! I hought we could worj through them & get things sorted! but she didnt!

I cabt say i tryely understand y it has happened or what caused it! A mixture of things I expect from both sides but she never really sapoke to me about any probs & just sort of bottled everythin up!

When I met her I thought this was it I have found “The 1” those of u that have ever met her know she was a top lass & I thought was perfect for me! Now commitment was never a word in my vocabulary before this girl & like a idiot I was even goin to purpose this xmas!

Can honestly say this has totally fooked me up inside & really dunno how I am gonna manage without her! But I know I have to move on!

This is not a sympathy p[ost just needed to talk about it I suppose & mayb c if any1 had some words of wisdom or whatever!

Just proper messed up!

 

sorry to hear that mate
go out with a shiteload of mates and have a good drink

 

Shit, unlucky m8. There's nothing worse. I once got the heave ho by phone when I was on a ship on the worng side of the world....

But, keep yer chin up m8, you can always find another girl, the pain passes..

And you'll have more cash to spend on your car

 

Keep your head up mate.

 

Sorry to hear that Mate...... At least you still got the Monkey

Al........

 

Women & cars dont mix

Sorry to hear that!

 

Sorry to hear that Lewis

Seriously Dude, you should come to the party at the weekend. If nothing else have a good drink and surround yourself with likeminded people. We'll look after you and make sure you have a good time!

If your still having transport issues, get yourself on a train as close as you can get and i'll come pick you up dude. its no trouble at all.

Chin up, i know it's bleak right now, but time is a good healer. Let your mates try and help you through it.

 

I know how ya feel m8, been there, done that.. Couple of weeks/months it's pretty fooked up, but then it gets better.

Go out with ya friends is the best thing to do..

Then again, maybe after couple of weeks she wants to have a good conversation about all, after she realised that she miss you or something..

Keep ya chin up m8

 

let things cool down for a few days then ask her to meet up and chat, after a few days of not seeing you and after having time to think she may want to get back together also that spark that made you get together may return, i know how you are feeling i split up with my missus of 8 years but three days later once things cooled down we talked and sorted loads out and got back together, i hope the same can happen to you, i know it feels like you heart has been ripped out but keep you chin up matey, some goos will come of this

 

sorry to hear mate. You'll get through it. Large session out with your mates has got to be on the cards.

 

aaawwwwhhhh huni,,,,HUGE HUGGLES coming straight ay ya

We all have to move on at some stage,,,,its a shame But your a tough guy ain't ya and maybe although you thought she was the one,,,,,there could also be another Mrs Monkey Motorsport out there somewhere,,,ya just not met her yet

Boy your only young also, so rushing into anything,,,,well you may regret it later in life!!
I've been single a year next month now,,,,fooking hard at 1st I'll tell ya, its all the little things ya miss also, just you don't relise them until they are gone, not just a point of having someone there.

Stupid really but I used to love watching top gear etc with my other half,,,,we used to have such a laugh and piss take ya know,,,,seems silly,,,,but these are the sort of little things I mean.

However being single has also made me a hell of alot more independent which I love, its nice also being able to do what I want, when I want, with whom I want and not having to either check with the other person just to see if its ok with them, not in a way of having to answer to them (well sometimes it was,,,,,fpmsl ) I mean just out of courtesy you know what I mean!

Huni your be fine,,,,,as I keep telling you, its hard at 1st,,,,,totally agree, but as long as you keep yaself busy,,,,just go out and enjoy yourself babes




x x x

 

MMS boys are going solo

Know how you feel mate, was there a few month back

 

bummer mate. i dunno what id do if my missus told me to do one

all i can really say is chin up, and try to get over it i spose, i know it aint easy cos i live with my bro whos bitch left him after 3 or 4 years, they were engaged aswell, he is still not over it. the cock.

 

i know how ur feeling lewis, physically sick! u really need ur mates around u to help! u dont want to be sitting round the house so keep urself busy, socialize and try doing some of the things u couldnt do with the misses. there is no easy way to get over it, it is a long haul unfortunately! so get your ass over to dublin with the lads and we will begin phase 1 of your new life

 

sorry huni totally disagree with this comment,,,,and I hate it!!

they can mix,,,,and DO mix



x x x

 

been there lewis last december me and the ex split up after 7 years, took me months to sort myself out and its made a big dent in my confidence to say the least but things do get better mate

as everyone said to me plenty more fish in the sea, just a shitter that you had found your fish but you just gotta get on with it i spose

chin up mate if you wanna natter you know where i am

 

if ya need someone to breath heavy down the phone to call me

 

i agree with nikki, i love having my missus at the shows even if she is bored shitless coz cars ain't her thing it is nce just to get a cuddle at a show ( plus she lets me buy bits if she's there, sssshhhhhhhh keep that under your hat lol)

 

Sorry to hear this. Just keep busy for a while mate. Try to take your mind off it as much as you can to start with. Then slowly think about where things went wrong in small chunks. Don't try to disect everything in one go as it never makes sense and it just get you thinking crap and makes the situation worse and as a result becomes really depressing.

I too was like yoiu where i though she was the one. I obviously did something wrong, well thats what i thought anyway. I used to beat myself up everynite that i was unless in life. when i then shut it out for a few days and went back to what she had said, it all seem to make sense that we just weren't meant to be, just another experience i life.

who knows the break may do you both the world of good and may get back together, but don't believe you will as you won't get over the situation you're in. Just don't pressure her to get back together as that will make things worse. Take every day in your stride and you'll soon see sense.

All seems difficult, but everyday gets easier. I'm now happier than i was with her. Live 9 months of single fun and have met someone else now. Just enjoying the beginnings of new company. might work, might not but hey enjoy life as you only have one!

 

cheers adam dublin does sound good!

need to keep bust perhaps the call of a new car will do this for me!

 

goin through troubles meself right now and i cant see the light at the end of the tunnel

 

i split up after 5 years of being with a lass, and i thought she was the one. I was gutted and wouldnt let her go. Took me about a year of going out with the lads and seeing other girls to get over her properly! Then i realised it was never meant to be and was more of habit then 'love'! At the time it didnt seem that though!
Then in 2002 i met Lindsay, and proposed to her after 2 months!!!!! Because, when you really DO know its the one, you DO know We are married on our 2nd house and have only just passed our 2 years of being together and are as happy as fook!

Lewis, its hard but you will come through it. Just remember relationships work naturally. You cant make them happen, so with what you have said id say its time to move on. Im not saying you dont have to work at relationships, but but its a 2 way thing!

All the best mate

 

she used to spend loads of time wiht me & the car & buyin bits for it!

she used to love goin to the shows etc!

 

Lewis,

Give it a week or 2 and see what happens been there done that mate and we got back togheter as i trueley know she is the one for me!

Only thing that can sort it between u2 is TALK! the both of you and i do mean talk as what i understand from sarah as well that u didnt really talked to each other.

Go to some friends as i did when i was in the same shit they really help
Get a good nite sleep and each day you wake up you will be feeling better somehow (its strange but its true)

If you want to talk are text or what ever i am here for you mate!

 

Oh bless you Darlin. I did get your PM yesterday but was waiting til I had the time to make a decent reply. Am SO sorry Darlin and I know it’s no consolation right now but we have all been there. Last year I thought I was with The One and I too was DEVASTATED when it ended. Snot ran from my nose on a minutely (not that that’s a word) basis for several months. My life was over and at age 27 I may as well have got myself a troop of cats and have become a Herbert, but Treacle things do change for the better. Plus is it not better to know now than in twenty years time when there’s not only you two to worry about but possibly some kids and a mortgage too.

You’re a diamond and the perfect (not that there’s just the one) will realise that and hold on with both hands. I tell ya, I aint letting go of Dave for love, money or a GT40 (well o9kay, maybe the last one )

And Darlin, this is not a tactic to get you down here this weekend but distractions DO work. Sitting home being sad all on your lonesome does you NO favours. At least if you get out you’ll be distracted a little bit. Come down this weekend, we’ll pick ya up, drop you off, get you smashed and make sure you’re fed. Once you’ve had Benn chase you round the garden ten times full of dodgy intentions you WILL forget for a good twenty minutes!

It will get better Lewis x

 

I am sure i can talk to Benn and convince him to run after you for an hour

 

Dry your eyes mate
I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up
There's plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you've got to walk away now
It's over

 

ok ok,,,,,,,lets have like a Blind Date thingy PF stylie,,,,!!

ok,,,,,,HIM
his tall,,,,,(no shit )
kinda tanned (in places,,lol)
Thinks his funny,,,,,so bad even laughs at his own jokes
Loves clubbing
slight interest in cars
also Monkeys for some reason
Has to wear jeans below wait level so boxer shorts showing

Lady must have interests in the following;
Cars
Monkeys
Tall Guys
Boxer Shorts Showing
Going out in Dirty Car
Rude & cheeky comments (lots of)

So who would like to take Lewis out and show him a good time then,,,come on girlies,,,,,,,his one lovely bloke
Bristol area applies please as,,,,,well we all know long distance relationships are just pants



Keep smiling babes

x x x

 

Lewis, I think we have all been thru it and know exactly what you are going thru. It really depends on what she is like as to how you go about it.

Blatent persistance, flowers, stalking, begging, pleading and a 4ft teddy worked out for me.

I hope you get sorted mate. You got my number if you wanna chat

 

Chin up Lewis

 

Cheers Cola! always good for a laugh aint ya!

Rene she dont wanna talk m8! there is nothin I can do! just got the feeling that is it!

Will c what I can do about the partay!

 

Benn can we still negotiate over nikki? so i can get Lewis a Nikki and he might be happy

 

Ok mate just give it some time and you will be feeling better don't worry .. shame me house aint finished yet otherwise i would have bought you a ticket!

GO to the party Lewis it will keep your mind off it ... trust me been there done that

 

REALLY Rene I thought you two had forgotton about this one

 

pmsl @ Nik! cheers babes!

but they dont make jeans thin & long enough for me!

 

no shit babes

& Rene,,,,,he winds my baby Ben up to much when Im trying to sleep,,,wit that fooking welly

x x x

 

my misses hates the shows BIG TIME she was bored shit less at the essex day hated rallycross and only slightly impressed by totb infact she sat in the car all afternoon reading her book just not her thing i guess

 

[quote="McPikie"]
Blatent persistance, flowers, stalking, begging, pleading and a 4ft teddy worked out for me.

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With all due repsect Mcpikie, you dhouldnt have to beg for anything except forgivness when youve hurt her!
Shouldnt beg her to be with you, she should want to be there anyway!

 

Sorry to hear this mate

You need anything, wanna go out for a few beers or owt giz a shout

 

thats really sad mate.

dont get down. get some time to yourself and try to re-generate.

sorry to hear that.