Sorry to hear this. Just keep busy for a while mate. Try to take your mind off it as much as you can to start with. Then slowly think about where things went wrong in small chunks. Don't try to disect everything in one go as it never makes sense and it just get you thinking crap and makes the situation worse and as a result becomes really depressing.

I too was like yoiu where i though she was the one. I obviously did something wrong, well thats what i thought anyway. I used to beat myself up everynite that i was unless in life. when i then shut it out for a few days and went back to what she had said, it all seem to make sense that we just weren't meant to be, just another experience i life.

who knows the break may do you both the world of good and may get back together, but don't believe you will as you won't get over the situation you're in. Just don't pressure her to get back together as that will make things worse. Take every day in your stride and you'll soon see sense.

All seems difficult, but everyday gets easier. I'm now happier than i was with her. Live 9 months of single fun and have met someone else now. Just enjoying the beginnings of new company. might work, might not but hey enjoy life as you only have one!