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Think of how your missus would feel, she is pregnant with what i assume is your kid? Im sure you have had a million great times with her, and you've had the conversation about the future with a kid/kids and all the things you will do as a family etc etc?
Being the dick and fucking off now would be the most selfish, bastard thing to do, a kid will be born and you will have left your missus to bring it up herself or with another man who aint its father.
Stick it out, ignore the burd from work, have the kid with your current missus and watch how much the little one will being you all together, you will wonder why the fuck you were thinking about anyone else.
Appologies for the seriousness
Being the dick and fucking off now would be the most selfish, bastard thing to do, a kid will be born and you will have left your missus to bring it up herself or with another man who aint its father.
Stick it out, ignore the burd from work, have the kid with your current missus and watch how much the little one will being you all together, you will wonder why the fuck you were thinking about anyone else.
Appologies for the seriousness

Think of how your missus would feel, she is pregnant with what i assume is your kid? Im sure you have had a million great times with her, and you've had the conversation about the future with a kid/kids and all the things you will do as a family etc etc?
Being the dick and fucking off now would be the most selfish, bastard thing to do, a kid will be born and you will have left your missus to bring it up herself or with another man who aint its father.
Stick it out, ignore the burd from work, have the kid with your current missus and watch how much the little one will being you all together, you will wonder why the fuck you were thinking about anyone else.
Appologies for the seriousness

Being the dick and fucking off now would be the most selfish, bastard thing to do, a kid will be born and you will have left your missus to bring it up herself or with another man who aint its father.
Stick it out, ignore the burd from work, have the kid with your current missus and watch how much the little one will being you all together, you will wonder why the fuck you were thinking about anyone else.
Appologies for the seriousness

agree with all that.
in my eyes its not love its mans need to fuck,you know you will regret it at the exact moment you come.
i have a wife and two kids and the very thought of upsetting them would kill me.
what you do is make sure your lass doesn't read this post.
dont make that mistake mate honestly, stay with your wife and enjoy bringing a newborn into the world. the gift of life mate
when your child is born you'll be smug as fuck, you wont think about the bird from work, just hold out mate, you'll get there
How would you feel if your missus was looking elsewhere? For all you know she may be. Just think about how you would feel if she was lusting over another bloke and asking questions about whether she should shag him or not, then picture her shagging someone else, that should keep it in your trousers a bit longer!
Do what ever makes you happy and live with it.
You should never be with one woman because it is the right thing to do or for the fact that you have a child.
Everyone deserves the right to be happy and if you do not love your missus and want to be with another woman you should leave as your missus deserves the opportunity to be with someone who truly adores her.
Likewise you should never ever stay together for the sake of the kids, they can tell when you are miserable and it effects them, you can be a dad without being in a relationship with their mother.
The biggest question to ask yourself remains is this lust you are feeling or something more ?
You should never be with one woman because it is the right thing to do or for the fact that you have a child.
Everyone deserves the right to be happy and if you do not love your missus and want to be with another woman you should leave as your missus deserves the opportunity to be with someone who truly adores her.
Likewise you should never ever stay together for the sake of the kids, they can tell when you are miserable and it effects them, you can be a dad without being in a relationship with their mother.
The biggest question to ask yourself remains is this lust you are feeling or something more ?
If you've got a kid on the way, and you're thinking of cheating on the woman carrying your child then words can't really describe what a complete fucking cunt you really are in my opinion.


jesus, you're in the mire. things happen for a reason and you aint with her so it wasnt to be, you will have to ACCEPT this.
Be happy & grateful for what you already have, you have alot going for you, don't take it for granted. Look at your mrs with a baby on the way and thank your lucky stars cos you could have nothing tomorrow.
Good luck dude.
I'm sure your wife would be over the moon if she found out you were asking complete strangers on the internet for advice on wether to potentially end your marriage or not for a bit on the side......
Nice guy!! Sounds like she would be better off without you. Have you considered being honest and frank with your wife? Surely that's the first place to start?
Nice guy!! Sounds like she would be better off without you. Have you considered being honest and frank with your wife? Surely that's the first place to start?
Haha well said! Why would you bring a baby into the world if you dont want to spend your life with its mother. Leave that to the chav scum with about 20 kids they never wanted and dont give a fuck about. Then the kids grow up and people are surprised when they stick a knife in some fucker.
Last edited by Alan_D; Jul 26, 2008 at 11:18 AM.
Thats fucking wrong sorry Radders your sick in the head mate lol
space-docking
The act of using your faeces to penetrate your significant other. Faeces may be frozen and/or inserted into a condom prior to insertion.
"What the hell is this in the freezer?! You must be bloody crazy if you think we're going to try space-docking tonight - You know my book club is on a Wednesday."
Mike
space-docking
The act of using your faeces to penetrate your significant other. Faeces may be frozen and/or inserted into a condom prior to insertion.
"What the hell is this in the freezer?! You must be bloody crazy if you think we're going to try space-docking tonight - You know my book club is on a Wednesday."
Mike
Thats fucking wrong sorry Radders your sick in the head mate lol
space-docking
The act of using your faeces to penetrate your significant other. Faeces may be frozen and/or inserted into a condom prior to insertion.
"What the hell is this in the freezer?! You must be bloody crazy if you think we're going to try space-docking tonight - You know my book club is on a Wednesday."
Mike
space-docking
The act of using your faeces to penetrate your significant other. Faeces may be frozen and/or inserted into a condom prior to insertion.
"What the hell is this in the freezer?! You must be bloody crazy if you think we're going to try space-docking tonight - You know my book club is on a Wednesday."
Mike



you end up ruining your marriage because your wife will eventaully see there is something bugging you and it will tear the 2 of you apart. Get rid of this other woman out of your head or get a divorce
My boss's Mrs has been playing away at Arsenal vs Tottenham. He's 30, got 3 kids, and found out via facebook that his Mrs has been getting cock off the local villiage idiot. So he's devorcing her. No if's no but's, no chance to apolagise. Straight out of it. He now sleeps on a sofa bed in his extension whilst his mrs goes out nearly every night and comes home at 6am in the morning, It's fucking destroying him day by day and I generally feel sorry for the bloke.
So, you tosspeice of a cretin, if you are to venture down the path of smashing this birds back door in, most of the male population will give you a strong pat on the back and a round of applause, meanwhile the heart of your wife and son / daughter will be ripped wide open. So you have to ask yourself, is what I am giving up worth it ? If it is then sit your wife down and explain the situation. Expect to get hit, expect to get your clothes ripped up, and anything you generally care about in the house smashed up. If I told my mrs this she'd smash my playstation to bits and probably key the fuck out of my car
So, you tosspeice of a cretin, if you are to venture down the path of smashing this birds back door in, most of the male population will give you a strong pat on the back and a round of applause, meanwhile the heart of your wife and son / daughter will be ripped wide open. So you have to ask yourself, is what I am giving up worth it ? If it is then sit your wife down and explain the situation. Expect to get hit, expect to get your clothes ripped up, and anything you generally care about in the house smashed up. If I told my mrs this she'd smash my playstation to bits and probably key the fuck out of my car
My boss's Mrs has been playing away at Arsenal vs Tottenham. He's 30, got 3 kids, and found out via facebook that his Mrs has been getting cock off the local villiage idiot. So he's devorcing her. No if's no but's, no chance to apolagise. Straight out of it. He now sleeps on a sofa bed in his extension whilst his mrs goes out nearly every night and comes home at 6am in the morning, It's fucking destroying him day by day and I generally feel sorry for the bloke.
So, you tosspeice of a cretin, if you are to venture down the path of smashing this birds back door in, most of the male population will give you a strong pat on the back and a round of applause, meanwhile the heart of your wife and son / daughter will be ripped wide open. So you have to ask yourself, is what I am giving up worth it ? If it is then sit your wife down and explain the situation. Expect to get hit, expect to get your clothes ripped up, and anything you generally care about in the house smashed up. If I told my mrs this she'd smash my playstation to bits and probably key the fuck out of my car
So, you tosspeice of a cretin, if you are to venture down the path of smashing this birds back door in, most of the male population will give you a strong pat on the back and a round of applause, meanwhile the heart of your wife and son / daughter will be ripped wide open. So you have to ask yourself, is what I am giving up worth it ? If it is then sit your wife down and explain the situation. Expect to get hit, expect to get your clothes ripped up, and anything you generally care about in the house smashed up. If I told my mrs this she'd smash my playstation to bits and probably key the fuck out of my car

Hurting somebody you love for your own selfish desires is not really that manly, l have hurt somebody and been forgiven and when l think of the pain l caused it is fucking horrible, l would think you would be so happy that your wife is having your child that the thought would not enter your head, but hey we are all different
Mike
Infact, yeah shag her... why not see if you can get her pregnant too, then come back on here and ask us for more advice........
Fact is, if you were a decent human being with thought and regard for other people this thread wouldn't exist!!
Fact is, if you were a decent human being with thought and regard for other people this thread wouldn't exist!!
Last edited by Nicole; Jul 26, 2008 at 03:37 PM.
Do not have anything to do with her mate. The grass is never greener. I work with a lot of people who have been in your position and they all say exactly the same thing. Apparently the thrill wears off soon enough and you're back to square one.
Use your brain and distance yourself from this bird or you'll have nothing but trouble.
Use your brain and distance yourself from this bird or you'll have nothing but trouble.
been there a couple of times mate,you'll start seeing more bad in your wife on purpose just so the new woman looks better for you, you'll probably start arguing just for the hell of it,again so the new woman will look better in your eyes.
All this will happen and you wont even know that you're are causing the hassle.
My advice, stay away from her,if you want to chat pm me,although im off out soon so will read it later.
Best of luck mate, i know its hard ans awkward.
All this will happen and you wont even know that you're are causing the hassle.
My advice, stay away from her,if you want to chat pm me,although im off out soon so will read it later.
Best of luck mate, i know its hard ans awkward.






