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25-07-2008, 08:14 PM
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what do you do when......
what do you do when your married but you cant get another woman out of your head? feel like a right cunt a the moment cause i cant stop thinking bout a woman at work, worst thing is she feels the same! completely fuct up!!!!!
25-07-2008, 08:15 PM
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Chances are the new blood will have twice as many bad points as your wife and if she doesn't you don't know her well enough!
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25-07-2008, 08:26 PM
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I have had this happen but the other woman thought i was an ugly pig,so it all ended ok.
25-07-2008, 08:26 PM
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Not good at all matey, Im in a situation slightly similar. But its an ex who is in my mind all the time, shes wanting me back and Im bloody tempted. Been to see her a couple of times and it just feels really right again. 
25-07-2008, 08:28 PM
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25-07-2008, 08:40 PM
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25-07-2008, 08:59 PM
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25-07-2008, 09:12 PM
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in reality if your thinking this then MAYBE you aint with the right bird anyway,,,, it happens honestly
OR could just be the usual itch that people go through,,, wont go till you find another angle,,,, personally i would set your mate up to screw her that way you wont be able to go there,,,, well think of her that way AND she may even hate you for it and avoid you
the grass can SOMETIMES be greener,,,,,, people who say this are people who settle for second best,,,,,, or make do with what they got
its your life,,,,, IMO if your thinking it then in 10 years time you or the missus will either split up of have a relationship where you never talk and start hiding money from each other/ gain trust issues and mess you future kids up
good luck in the divorce
OR could just be the usual itch that people go through,,, wont go till you find another angle,,,, personally i would set your mate up to screw her that way you wont be able to go there,,,, well think of her that way AND she may even hate you for it and avoid you
the grass can SOMETIMES be greener,,,,,, people who say this are people who settle for second best,,,,,, or make do with what they got
its your life,,,,, IMO if your thinking it then in 10 years time you or the missus will either split up of have a relationship where you never talk and start hiding money from each other/ gain trust issues and mess you future kids up
good luck in the divorce
25-07-2008, 09:20 PM
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its a HONEST answer though
telling you what you wanna hear wont actually help you,,,, and most people on here,, single looking for a bird tht WILL reply on this post will just give the " go and fuck it " reply
if your thinking it then TBH,, its a BAD thing,,,, as when your happy you aint got time to notice or think of it
in staying that some blokes feel trapped during when the missus is up the duff,,, wont like nobbing her so the blokes hormones play up,,, which COULD be the reason,,,, i promise after a few nights of sleeplessnes you will forget all about her,,,,, dont screw her though as you may feel guilty when you see your child.... but then again i dont know you
telling you what you wanna hear wont actually help you,,,, and most people on here,, single looking for a bird tht WILL reply on this post will just give the " go and fuck it " reply
if your thinking it then TBH,, its a BAD thing,,,, as when your happy you aint got time to notice or think of it
in staying that some blokes feel trapped during when the missus is up the duff,,, wont like nobbing her so the blokes hormones play up,,, which COULD be the reason,,,, i promise after a few nights of sleeplessnes you will forget all about her,,,,, dont screw her though as you may feel guilty when you see your child.... but then again i dont know you
25-07-2008, 09:24 PM
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As Ginge says - if you're thinking this then maybe your not with the right woman.
But...is there not a chance this could just be a phase due to not getting enough attention from your wife because she is pregnant? Think about what you stand to lose here, and how F*cking terrible this will make your wife(who probably loves your more than anything) feel. And what about all the happy times and things you have been through with your wife...and the way she has made you feel.
Just have a good think about it mate, before you rush into anything.
sorry for my very serious reply, but i've been on the recieving end when its been the other way around(girlfriend betrayed me big time).
But...is there not a chance this could just be a phase due to not getting enough attention from your wife because she is pregnant? Think about what you stand to lose here, and how F*cking terrible this will make your wife(who probably loves your more than anything) feel. And what about all the happy times and things you have been through with your wife...and the way she has made you feel.
Just have a good think about it mate, before you rush into anything.
sorry for my very serious reply, but i've been on the recieving end when its been the other way around(girlfriend betrayed me big time).
25-07-2008, 09:30 PM
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As Ginge says - if you're thinking this then maybe your not with the right woman.
But...is there not a chance this could just be a phase due to not getting enough attention from your wife because she is pregnant? Think about what you stand to lose here, and how F*cking terrible this will make your wife(who probably loves your more than anything) feel. And what about all the happy times and things you have been through with your wife...and the way she has made you feel.
Just have a good think about it mate, before you rush into anything.
sorry for my very serious reply, but i've been on the recieving end when its been the other way around(girlfriend betrayed me big time).
But...is there not a chance this could just be a phase due to not getting enough attention from your wife because she is pregnant? Think about what you stand to lose here, and how F*cking terrible this will make your wife(who probably loves your more than anything) feel. And what about all the happy times and things you have been through with your wife...and the way she has made you feel.
Just have a good think about it mate, before you rush into anything.
sorry for my very serious reply, but i've been on the recieving end when its been the other way around(girlfriend betrayed me big time).
in hes defence hes confused., hes not a cheating partner at all...... so not the same thing as hes not sure whats happening hence him asking on a wedsite with freeks for advice
cheating is a SELFISH act,,,,, different type of person and BEST to be rid of for a good life,,,, although it seems accepted,,,, cheating is just a sign that someone aint settled down IMO but its testing,,,, if that makes sence HENCE it ends bad,,,,,,, and screws the other poor fucker up and that person gains trust issues
25-07-2008, 09:33 PM
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in hes defence hes confused., hes not a cheating partner at all...... so not the same thing as hes not sure whats happening hence him asking on a wedsite with freeks for advice
cheating is a SELFISH act,,,,, different type of person and BEST to be rid of for a good life,,,, although it seems accepted,,,, cheating is just a sign that someone aint settled down IMO but its testing,,,, if that makes sence HENCE it ends bad,,,,,,, and screws the other poor fucker up and that person gains trust issues
cheating is a SELFISH act,,,,, different type of person and BEST to be rid of for a good life,,,, although it seems accepted,,,, cheating is just a sign that someone aint settled down IMO but its testing,,,, if that makes sence HENCE it ends bad,,,,,,, and screws the other poor fucker up and that person gains trust issues
25-07-2008, 09:37 PM
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alan i was trying to defend him if that makes sence,,,, and its right we ALL get fucked over a fe times in life,,,,, treat others as you wish to be treated is the only thing i would say tbh
25-07-2008, 09:46 PM
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I believe in this instance the grass will not be greener on the other side. You have a wife, a child on the way and you are thinking of someone else. If you could turn the table and had known this other women for a long time, having a child etc and you’re wife was the other women, it would be exactly the same.
You could go with this other women, all could be great for a few months, maybe even years by then your wife and daughter have moved on. There’s always someone else willing to bring your child up, and anyone who does what you are thinking is extremely selfish, and hasn’t thought their life through properly. If you never had a child on the way, it would be a lot different. But you have, so even thinking about it should be a no.
Fair enough if you left your partner and went with someone else, as it wasn’t working out, must happen all the time. But if it wasn’t working out then you should not be having baby, a life, which will be brought into this world and should be given taken into consideration, greatly. Not to mention how your partner would feel if you slept with someone else whilst she was pregnant, that would be awful for her. Unlike you, she cannot just walk away.
What you need to do is tell yourself this women is not an option. You and you’re wife must be rather close in order to be having a child, well I’d like to assume so. Get her out of your head, forget about her and work on any problems you and your wife have. Because right now, with a child on the way, another women is not an option.
Anyone who tells you to go and shag her, are nothing more than a selfish, idiot.
Benni.
You could go with this other women, all could be great for a few months, maybe even years by then your wife and daughter have moved on. There’s always someone else willing to bring your child up, and anyone who does what you are thinking is extremely selfish, and hasn’t thought their life through properly. If you never had a child on the way, it would be a lot different. But you have, so even thinking about it should be a no.
Fair enough if you left your partner and went with someone else, as it wasn’t working out, must happen all the time. But if it wasn’t working out then you should not be having baby, a life, which will be brought into this world and should be given taken into consideration, greatly. Not to mention how your partner would feel if you slept with someone else whilst she was pregnant, that would be awful for her. Unlike you, she cannot just walk away.
What you need to do is tell yourself this women is not an option. You and you’re wife must be rather close in order to be having a child, well I’d like to assume so. Get her out of your head, forget about her and work on any problems you and your wife have. Because right now, with a child on the way, another women is not an option.
Anyone who tells you to go and shag her, are nothing more than a selfish, idiot.
Benni.
25-07-2008, 09:48 PM
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SERIOUSLY DONT Go there... you're just feeling neglected , while your wife is pregnant... it happens to most men while their woman's with child... been there done that got the T-shirt..(was done to me)... just aint worth it mate trust me.... look at all that you stand to lose just aint worth a bit of pussy for 15minutes...when you could lose everything you've got now..wife, home..kids it's definately not worth it..try and put her out of your mind make sure you avoid her at all costs