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Old Jul 25, 2008 | 09:46 PM
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I believe in this instance the grass will not be greener on the other side. You have a wife, a child on the way and you are thinking of someone else. If you could turn the table and had known this other women for a long time, having a child etc and you’re wife was the other women, it would be exactly the same.

You could go with this other women, all could be great for a few months, maybe even years by then your wife and daughter have moved on. There’s always someone else willing to bring your child up, and anyone who does what you are thinking is extremely selfish, and hasn’t thought their life through properly. If you never had a child on the way, it would be a lot different. But you have, so even thinking about it should be a no.

Fair enough if you left your partner and went with someone else, as it wasn’t working out, must happen all the time. But if it wasn’t working out then you should not be having baby, a life, which will be brought into this world and should be given taken into consideration, greatly. Not to mention how your partner would feel if you slept with someone else whilst she was pregnant, that would be awful for her. Unlike you, she cannot just walk away.

What you need to do is tell yourself this women is not an option. You and you’re wife must be rather close in order to be having a child, well I’d like to assume so. Get her out of your head, forget about her and work on any problems you and your wife have. Because right now, with a child on the way, another women is not an option.


Anyone who tells you to go and shag her, are nothing more than a selfish, idiot.

Benni.

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