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Old 13-01-2005, 10:28 AM
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Bloody hell chip you've thought that one through!!!

Gutted for you though, nasty bitch
Old 13-01-2005, 10:32 AM
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Another slag, nicely reinforces my case for my "do it to them and have your fun as you know for a fact one day theyl do it to you" policy...
Old 13-01-2005, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by JxBabe
Bloody hell chip you've thought that one through!!!

Gutted for you though, nasty bitch

Yeah well you cant comment, about people sleeping with someone else's mrs, you shagged my mrs while i was still in the room
Old 13-01-2005, 10:41 AM
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@ some of the ideas, like chips alaby and I like the idea of ringing up the mortuary, gona use that one!

Dont think she will have any rights over your stuff anyway, as your not married, they aint your kids and any relationship you did have was clearly worth fuck all in her eyes as she was with another guy. so to her

There a few guys this has happened to on here who have told their birds/wives to do one, and are thoroughly enjoying their lives now, spending more money on what THEY want and loving the single life.

although I think its a different story in your situation and when your old, if it was my girlfriend, as far as the bloke was concerned, it would be chitty chitty bang bang
Old 13-01-2005, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Originally Posted by B16 RBM
thank fuck its her kids and not mine, i just feel so hacked off knowing shes been shacking this wanker while ive been ofshore earning the cash to pay for the house etc, i really am at the end of my tether, but the bottle of bushmills is helping just now, anyone want a lodger and a dog ?
What a fooking wounder pal
I was once in a very similar situation, but thje kids are both mine. Its taken years to come to an ammicable agreement and now the eldest girl lives with me. You have to be carefull here pal, play your cards carefully or you can lose everything you own as she has kids and youve made her "accustomed to a lifestyle" It can be grim pal and a GBH story will not give the judge any sympathy for your plight if this twat appears in court on crutches and makes you look a Bad tempered Hooligan....

Please take care Bob... see through the pain and calculate your moves pal.
Here here. There are some damn nasty people out there.
Old 13-01-2005, 10:48 AM
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FUCK it all i am going to find him and make sure his dick is not fit for shagging ever again as for her she will et what is due
Old 13-01-2005, 10:52 AM
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DOES SHE KNOW YOU KNOW YET?
Old 13-01-2005, 10:53 AM
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if she dont think she soon will
Old 13-01-2005, 10:57 AM
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Absolutely shit news mate

Do NOT act on the spur of the moment. Every part of your mind and body must want to go and rip this f@ckers head off. You have to be smarter than that and play your game wisely and use your brain to achieve the best possible results.

Then we you have achieved all you can, batter the prick . Let it lie for 12 months and the police shouldn't be so keen to visit you first.
Old 13-01-2005, 11:03 AM
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If she doesnt know, dont tell her yet, take some time to plan things.
Especially finanacially

And in the mean time, get some good filthy videos of her to post on the net at a later date, lol
Old 13-01-2005, 11:05 AM
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i am too pissed to rip the skin off a rice pudding, but one day i will be sober
Old 13-01-2005, 11:07 AM
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If she doesn't know you know you could always send her away for a weeks holiday somewhere (not to expensive) pull out at the 11th hour with work and send her on her own. Then while she's away move all her stuff out change the locks and put the house up for sale
Old 13-01-2005, 11:08 AM
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Gutted for ya mate!! Make sure she stays away from the cossie!!
Old 13-01-2005, 11:10 AM
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Also if she doesnt know you know yet , then admit to having constantly visited prostitues and fucking them with no protection, and say you have just been tested and are HIV positive.
Old 13-01-2005, 11:13 AM
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Also if she doesnt know you know yet , then admit to having constantly visited prostitues and fucking them with no protection, and say you have just been tested and are HIV positive.
that is class that will f*ck her right up!!
Old 13-01-2005, 11:36 AM
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Bob
Hard blow M8 Been there myself. Hence the name Dangerous

But consider this:-
If its been going on for years then this sneeky fooker doesnt really think anything of your Mrs at all. To him shes just a shag otherwise she would have left you ages ago.
My advise is this.
Sort out the money first Keep all you can for yourself (you dont say if you own the house jointly)
Go out partying for a while Take a few birds out ,get your leg over, drink beer (the usual).
Get yourself a fit thing on your arm and rub your ex`s nose in it Always look as happy as a dog with two tails and that she did you the biggest favour of your life.

When this tosser realises he has to take her on with two kids etc He`ll be up the road quicker than the Reyland Coz
And all she will be left with is time to reflect on what she lost.


My Mrs was with her Ex for 17yrs Married & gave him two kids. He had been up to no good almost all the time Until she found out 4 yrs ago.

I delight in seeing him squirm at the door whilst his kids come to me, talk about me to him, have his ex in my arms & he cant do Jack shit about it.
(plus i`m twice his size anyway )
He now lives in a one bed on his own & parts with his hard earned every month.

Meantime we`re out looking for a new place around Ł500k

Remember revenge can be taken in several ways. Physical will heal in a few weeks & he or she would get over it ( not suggesting you should harm her as could not condone violence to women no matter what)
Mental lasts for ever - she will never forget

Difficult to put into practice i know but once the trust is gone its over
Old 13-01-2005, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by dangerous - reyland

When this tosser realises he has to take her on with two kids etc He`ll be up the road quicker than the Reyland Coz
Old 13-01-2005, 12:36 PM
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Not Mine

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Old 13-01-2005, 12:38 PM
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im in colchester... who is it who is it!!!!
Old 13-01-2005, 12:56 PM
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Bob - If worst comes to the worst the little deal we spoke about at the Norfolk group meal before christmas is not a problem

P.s Chin-up Son
Old 13-01-2005, 01:59 PM
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Yup, Sort out the finances first, make sure you get as much as you can.

As chip says, get video evidence of her in the sack, if the other bloke does actually like her and is willing to take her on full time then send him a copy of the vid, he'll be mentally scarred and everytime he thinks about shagging her he'll picture you taking her up the arse

But before you do this play with them for a while, don't let on you know until the money etc is swapped over, then leave it a few weeks, get a few pals together, invest in some maggy thatcher masks and go get sum!

Then once your satisfied, visit them at work and cause a raging arguement about how much of a slag she is, she'll never live it down and may have to leave her job
Old 13-01-2005, 02:13 PM
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That's if she don't loose her job first................................It can happen
Old 13-01-2005, 02:22 PM
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Suggest a night of bondage, tie her up and blindfold and then film 20 random old men poking her in every orifice with her none the wiser as to who is going what till her kids tell them about the video they have just been watching

(thats a JOKE, well the bit about showing her kids anyway, bad enough they have to have a slag as a mum without being put through that)
Old 13-01-2005, 02:43 PM
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gutted for ya
Old 13-01-2005, 03:25 PM
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Bad news mate, sorry to here it, but as said, keep your cool, you want to be walking away with house, belongings and savings if you can, plenty time for arse kicking revenges later on, for now, play the wounded puppy and let her look the bitch.

Look on it another way, the fella may not be to keen on a family situation and when you've booted her out, he may turn his back and run, leaving her up shit creek with out a paddle. It's one thing to be seeing a bird on the side, it's another when they want to move in.

Also, is he seeing anyone, he may be married himself, might be worth finding out his address and having a look to see if he has a wifey, then let her know the crack, that is once you have your game plan in place.

Hope you get it sorted and come out on top, may not seem it now but things happen for a reason and a new door opens when you least expect it, misses perfect may be just around the corner
Old 13-01-2005, 04:19 PM
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wounder m8 no how you feel as something like this happened to me a year ago like me wait and you'll get your revenge
Old 13-01-2005, 04:21 PM
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Why are you blaming him when you should be blaming her? I'm sure he didnt force her into to anything - clearly you want to give someone a pounding and you can't give it to her, face up to being sad about it and move on without acting like a tool.
Old 13-01-2005, 04:26 PM
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sorry to here this news .......

try and keep ya chin up....
Old 13-01-2005, 04:27 PM
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Buffy, is that a picture of Jade goodie in your siggy thing, and if so why?
Old 13-01-2005, 04:40 PM
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The best advice you have been given here is by dangerous reyland. how many of these people have stood in a sober fight or went roud with the intent to beat someone senseless. You could do all this, but what if he gives you a good beating?

Do it the way people have suggested, whats gonna hurt both them more, her walking out of her temporary council house with her two kids who this bloke probably dont want and maybe having to provide for them so having less money, whilst you without there burden have thar little bit more.
Old 13-01-2005, 04:52 PM
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fookin ell bob im shocked

totally shocked , dont really know what to say , just keep calm , theres alot to sort , bear it in mind before the anger comes out , once its sorted then , you can do what you want , rvenge is sweet , i know , been there , done that.



ive not forgotten about the piccies although im sure its the last thing on your mind, ive been waiting for the video, all here now , ready to go , just let me know where you want them sent to ???

cheers

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Old 13-01-2005, 05:29 PM
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Isn't a point where after being with someone a long time, they are entitled to "half your stuff" ? Regardless of marriage and such.

My advice, take it or leave it :

1) Talk to her calmly about it and find out the crack.

2) If unsatisfactory, throw her out (unless it's a joint house, in which case, sell up and split the dosh)

3) Ring bert the player, and inform him she's all his and you wish them very well, and by the way, your sister say's hello

4) Rebuild your life.

P.S. If you need a shitload of porn, gimme a shout
Old 13-01-2005, 05:34 PM
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really feel for ya m8
Old 14-01-2005, 12:01 AM
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has nobody even thought about one v.important factor in all this,bob and his missus been together 10 yrs,so thats 10 yrs her kids have had bob as a stepfather.loosing them might hurt as much as if they were his own,and might hurt them as much as if he was their biological dad.i have two stepsons (and a little boy of my own) and losing them would be as painfull for me as for them.dont forget they prob wont be v happy mummy has been fucking around
Old 14-01-2005, 12:35 AM
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this is a bad thing to happen i feel for you mate ive been f**ked about
so many times i havent got over my ex from 5 year ago.

i went over the top and lost alot of mates due to being a bad temper t**t
its not nice at all but some times you never know what to do. i take it you have been drinking in that case dont jump in your car and start going to find him
or them just chill and find out what you want to do .
Old 14-01-2005, 12:48 AM
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All I will say on this matter, as it's your business and not mine, is leave it for at least 6 months. If you make a concious decision to beat him senseless after the time has passed, well, all your choice. Don't do it now. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel, as I do a similar job, and it happened to me. Best thing, is you earn proper cash, he won't if he works for the bloody woolwich.. Get your life sorted, then flash some hard earned to get a few trophy birds and be SEEN having the time of your fucking life.

It will all work out, get yourself out of her life, take everything thats yours, sell the house and keep the cash. Fuck the 'Common Law' of living with people, just get out, take/sell everything and let her and her kids find their own way in the world. Bet you this fella won't be too keen when he suddenly has to pay for a family.

My brother didn't do any of that, now his wife and 3 kids live in Canada on his salary. Fuck her, look after yourself m8.

Good luck!
Old 14-01-2005, 01:06 AM
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fpmsl at chip saying the pic in buffy's sig is jade godie
Old 14-01-2005, 01:18 AM
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Bloody hell, I can't begin to imaging what that must be like

There's some very good advice on this thread, take note!!!
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Originally Posted by POPEYE
fpmsl at chip saying the pic in buffy's sig is jade godie
i was too but didnt think it relevant to post


really sorry to here it mate... plan your finances or she will fook you over.

and remember if he gets done over it give HIM perfect opportunity to say to her... i dotn want this stuff get out of my life... and what you really want is for this guy to be in strife...

also he may have family etc?? no mention of this?
Old 14-01-2005, 04:04 AM
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dunno why you'd want to kick him in mate

at the end of the day, he's just looking for a shag. its obvious you don't know each other. if its a friend, then deffo kick him in, but when you don't even know him, its not really what needs to be done.

she's the one that needs the beating, not him.

shit news though mate


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