has nobody even thought about one v.important factor in all this,bob and his missus been together 10 yrs,so thats 10 yrs her kids have had bob as a stepfather.loosing them might hurt as much as if they were his own,and might hurt them as much as if he was their biological dad.i have two stepsons (and a little boy of my own) and losing them would be as painfull for me as for them.dont forget they prob wont be v happy mummy has been fucking around