I hate the cliquiness on here
26-08-2009, 10:44 AM
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suppose many people on here have an issue with others in the community at some point or other, but many take it too far and just stir crap up about people, without first getting to know them or know what theyre about.
it is a sad state as said, and one that i probably think is putting many people off the forums, and sometimes their own cars just to get out of the scene and move elsewhere with another group or car make just to stop the bitchyness and mucking about from a few select that seem to think the sun shines out there arse because they have either:
1) mag feature car
2) x rated amounts of bhp and torque
3) a valuable rare ford so theyre instantly better than the rest of us who cant afford top end fords but do our best with what he have.
not saying everyone from above is like that, ive met many good people about from clubs inside and out of fords with cars like the list above that are down to earth and would help anybody out regardless.... but nowadays its getting worse, a lot worse than anyone could really have seen it a year or 2 ago.
things like that really make me think is it worth sticking around on fords or moving elsewhere because nowadays most people when you go to shows unless youve been around for ages wont want nothing to do with you, or if they do its only because they want something at some point or another either from you or from your car or spares etc.
it is a sad state as said, and one that i probably think is putting many people off the forums, and sometimes their own cars just to get out of the scene and move elsewhere with another group or car make just to stop the bitchyness and mucking about from a few select that seem to think the sun shines out there arse because they have either:
1) mag feature car
2) x rated amounts of bhp and torque
3) a valuable rare ford so theyre instantly better than the rest of us who cant afford top end fords but do our best with what he have.
not saying everyone from above is like that, ive met many good people about from clubs inside and out of fords with cars like the list above that are down to earth and would help anybody out regardless.... but nowadays its getting worse, a lot worse than anyone could really have seen it a year or 2 ago.
things like that really make me think is it worth sticking around on fords or moving elsewhere because nowadays most people when you go to shows unless youve been around for ages wont want nothing to do with you, or if they do its only because they want something at some point or another either from you or from your car or spares etc.
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26-08-2009, 10:59 AM
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Wow, where do you even begin when trying to comment on this!
Benni, the very fact you are trying to put down Chip, proves the fundamental problem with Pf; it is over-run by clueless tossers (like yourself) who think it is a social networking site with some random affiliation with cars.
You provide NO useful input to this site (except of course the signatures you provide every day....
), yet feel yourself qualified to comment on, and attempt to belittle useful members of the site.
As for your PM above, I was going to try and write something, but everytime I read it I just end up laughing (I should point out, sadly I am not laughing with you, a concept that clearly you don't understand).
I think the best line is "That is one of many I have received over the years of being on PF" oh the fucking pain
If I were to put here the 'real' reason why you are even tolerated on this site, it would have more to do with pity than anything else. The only people who find you funny sadly, are the people who are very similar to you. Which, in a nutshell, is everyone who shouldn't be on this site in the first place.
Benni, the very fact you are trying to put down Chip, proves the fundamental problem with Pf; it is over-run by clueless tossers (like yourself) who think it is a social networking site with some random affiliation with cars.
You provide NO useful input to this site (except of course the signatures you provide every day....
), yet feel yourself qualified to comment on, and attempt to belittle useful members of the site.As for your PM above, I was going to try and write something, but everytime I read it I just end up laughing (I should point out, sadly I am not laughing with you, a concept that clearly you don't understand).
I think the best line is "That is one of many I have received over the years of being on PF" oh the fucking pain
If I were to put here the 'real' reason why you are even tolerated on this site, it would have more to do with pity than anything else. The only people who find you funny sadly, are the people who are very similar to you. Which, in a nutshell, is everyone who shouldn't be on this site in the first place.
I can't say I think many people would miss you... I didn't know who you were until 5 minutes ago.
As for people finding me funny, I couldn't care if they do as that's not why I am on here. I geniunely couldn't care what anyone in this world thinks of me as it happens which is why I post what I like as and when I choose trying my best to make sure it's within the rules.
Benni.
26-08-2009, 01:06 PM
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I'm not sure I should even comment on your reply, as before you know it Dave will be accusing you of having another 'Forum Affair' and will be breaking the car once again and probably leave the forum once again. What will his name be next time? 'It's Dave, back again for the third time'?
Another forum member who is stuck up her own arse.
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26-08-2009, 01:22 PM
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I'm not sure I should even comment on your reply, as before you know it Dave will be accusing you of having another 'Forum Affair' and will be breaking the car once again and probably leave the forum once again. What will his name be next time? 'It's Dave, back again for the third time'?
Another forum member who is stuck up her own arse.
Benni.
Another forum member who is stuck up her own arse.
Benni.
I'm certainly not up my own arse at all.
You broke a lot of forum rules and ruined a room on here and never got banned for it........
I was speaking to someone recently who met you in person and their discription of you was "weirdo". I wont comment myself on you personally as I have mever met you and I certainly dont intend to!
26-08-2009, 01:25 PM
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26-08-2009, 01:26 PM
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Benni having met Helen and Dave you couldnt find any one less stuck up their own arses,
And people that have met tend to say how normal I am lol,well to my face but hwat they say behind my back not bother me unlike you Benni
And people that have met tend to say how normal I am lol,well to my face but hwat they say behind my back not bother me unlike you Benni
26-08-2009, 01:28 PM
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I'm certainly not up my own arse at all.
You broke a lot of forum rules and ruined a room on here and never got banned for it........
I was speaking to someone recently who met you in person and their discription of you was "weirdo". I wont comment myself on you personally as I have mever met you and I certainly dont intend to!
You broke a lot of forum rules and ruined a room on here and never got banned for it........
I was speaking to someone recently who met you in person and their discription of you was "weirdo". I wont comment myself on you personally as I have mever met you and I certainly dont intend to!
As for the person who thinks I'm a weirdo, I can't be all that weird as you would have remembered me, don't you think?
Cheers, Benni.
26-08-2009, 01:30 PM
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26-08-2009, 01:36 PM
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Benni - You know what you did and how you did it. Quite sad really to ruin it for other people who used that room.....
I have no idea why you are bringing up FITP if you are trying to embaress me or Dave, its really not going to work.....
I dont ever remember speaking to you at any show or event.
I have no idea why you are bringing up FITP if you are trying to embaress me or Dave, its really not going to work.....
I dont ever remember speaking to you at any show or event.
26-08-2009, 01:41 PM
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I am not tolerated on the site at all. When I break the rules I am punished like everyone else. I just don't break them very often as it happens, so if you don't want to tolerate me or have a problem then feel free to leave.
I can't say I think many people would miss you... I didn't know who you were until 5 minutes ago.
As for people finding me funny, I couldn't care if they do as that's not why I am on here. I geniunely couldn't care what anyone in this world thinks of me as it happens which is why I post what I like as and when I choose trying my best to make sure it's within the rules.
Benni.
I can't say I think many people would miss you... I didn't know who you were until 5 minutes ago.
As for people finding me funny, I couldn't care if they do as that's not why I am on here. I geniunely couldn't care what anyone in this world thinks of me as it happens which is why I post what I like as and when I choose trying my best to make sure it's within the rules.
Benni.
Just FYI, someone who is tolerated, and lets pick a totally random example; would be a person who is allowed on a forum only because if they were not, it could be deemed discrimination. Said person is probably not liked, is certainly not respected, and is "tolerated" only to make this fictional forum politically correct, in allowing complete fucking retards to post freely.
Hopefully that clearly fictional scenario helped you understand how you are tolerated.
In future I will try to remember to dumb down my replies to you, so as not to confuse further.
As for not knowing who I am until 5 minutes ago, I'm sorry, did I just meet you then?
I obviously missed that, and I'm quite sure I would have remembered a special person like you coming and saying hello.
Thankfully, I have not had the displeasure of meeting you, so as far as I am concerned, I don't know you either.
What I do know, is Pf is infected daily with a smothering of useless posts, coming almost entirely from your username. So, going back to the original point, try not to bring up other users as being something they are not, when you are nothing to begin with.
26-08-2009, 01:42 PM
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Benni - You know what you did and how you did it. Quite sad really to ruin it for other people who used that room.....
I have no idea why you are bringing up FITP if you are trying to embaress me or Dave, its really not going to work.....
I dont ever remember speaking to you at any show or event.
I have no idea why you are bringing up FITP if you are trying to embaress me or Dave, its really not going to work.....
I dont ever remember speaking to you at any show or event.
Benni.
26-08-2009, 01:42 PM
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You did it to mine the other week you fucking idiot, because you put some of my photos up and then gloated about it on the thread.
Less-thats what I thought about him too-sad twat!
He isnt worth arguing with, as many people have said-his opinion is worth nothing. He's a lying, sly, pathetic idiot.
Less-thats what I thought about him too-sad twat!
He isnt worth arguing with, as many people have said-his opinion is worth nothing. He's a lying, sly, pathetic idiot.
26-08-2009, 01:46 PM
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You have no idea why? I brought it up because you claimed you'd never met me and I was telling you a place where you had. How was I trying to embaress you? I was at the same place! Loose the paranoia. It'll do you no favours thinking everyone is against you all the time.
Benni.
Benni.
I certainly don't have ANY paranoia and nor do I think everyone is against me, I'm not sure why i would think that
26-08-2009, 01:48 PM
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I know Ellie I think hes just baiting people,he tried to get a reaction form Helen and Dave,into a reaction now as usual that not work now hes trying some one else.
But Benni you you carry on in your own little world,where your happy and people love you
But Benni you you carry on in your own little world,where your happy and people love you
26-08-2009, 01:49 PM
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26-08-2009, 01:50 PM
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It's a shame, as you don't seem to understand the term "tolerated" either, you seem to think someone who is tolerated, is immune from punishment - that's not actually the meaning of the word at all.
Just FYI, someone who is tolerated, and lets pick a totally random example; would be a person who is allowed on a forum only because if they were not, it could be deemed discrimination. Said person is probably not liked, is certainly not respected, and is "tolerated" only to make this fictional forum politically correct, in allowing complete fucking retards to post freely.
Hopefully that clearly fictional scenario helped you understand how you are tolerated.
In future I will try to remember to dumb down my replies to you, so as not to confuse further.
As for not knowing who I am until 5 minutes ago, I'm sorry, did I just meet you then?
I obviously missed that, and I'm quite sure I would have remembered a special person like you coming and saying hello.
Thankfully, I have not had the displeasure of meeting you, so as far as I am concerned, I don't know you either.
What I do know, is Pf is infected daily with a smothering of useless posts, coming almost entirely from your username. So, going back to the original point, try not to bring up other users as being something they are not, when you are nothing to begin with.
Just FYI, someone who is tolerated, and lets pick a totally random example; would be a person who is allowed on a forum only because if they were not, it could be deemed discrimination. Said person is probably not liked, is certainly not respected, and is "tolerated" only to make this fictional forum politically correct, in allowing complete fucking retards to post freely.
Hopefully that clearly fictional scenario helped you understand how you are tolerated.
In future I will try to remember to dumb down my replies to you, so as not to confuse further.
As for not knowing who I am until 5 minutes ago, I'm sorry, did I just meet you then?
I obviously missed that, and I'm quite sure I would have remembered a special person like you coming and saying hello.
Thankfully, I have not had the displeasure of meeting you, so as far as I am concerned, I don't know you either.
What I do know, is Pf is infected daily with a smothering of useless posts, coming almost entirely from your username. So, going back to the original point, try not to bring up other users as being something they are not, when you are nothing to begin with.
If you think my posts are usless, feel free to add me to your ingore list. That's what it's there for you see. You could try using it?
Benni.
26-08-2009, 01:50 PM
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I have met alot of good people off here and i have spoke to alot of people on here which i have never seen.If i can help anyone on here i will do.Some people take things to heart and take life to seriously.If i ever upset anyone i really dont mean it i just like a good laugh.I have also met loads of people since i started doing the scotch corner all ford meets,without this site i dont think the meets would be as busy.I hate it when people slate fords to.At the end of the day alot of people on here own old fords so they are gonna have there faults.
26-08-2009, 01:53 PM
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There's only one idiot here, and it certaintly isn't me.
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26-08-2009, 01:56 PM
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26-08-2009, 01:58 PM
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To quote Benni
Its easy to open peoples photobucket accounts and hers a couple of pics to prove it
Rememeber that
Oh well I have wasted enough time on you have a good day
Its easy to open peoples photobucket accounts and hers a couple of pics to prove it
Rememeber that
Oh well I have wasted enough time on you have a good day
26-08-2009, 02:01 PM
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That may sound hypocritical coming from someone who also uses this forum a lot, but I come on here a lot because the core subject matter interests me, and I only to talk to the same sort of people in the same sort of ways on here that I do in real life, where as he seems to come on here to live out a fantasy life, for him it seems like it is one of those "second life" games on the net you read about.
In real life it appears that he has disadvantages, social interaction issues, inability to interact with the opposite sex etc, on here he can pretend to be confident and outgoing while hiding behind his screen.
Different people use forums for different things, and in his case I dont think its to fit in with the rest of his life like it is to those of us who use it a lot but do so as ourselves, for him its to attempt to actually replace chunks of himself and his life with something different.
Thats how it appears to me anyway.
26-08-2009, 02:02 PM
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