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Old 19-04-2005 | 06:33 PM
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Dave dunno if I am honest,then that makes even angrier

Trying to get help a councillor to unlock stuff.find an answer why I like this
Old 19-04-2005 | 06:42 PM
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Less, i had a brother that hung himself at the age of 19, i was 11 at the time, it aint nice, im not being nasty but i have no time for suicide threats, jst get urself together and fuking sort ur life out!!!, i was feeling the same as u are bout 2 weeks ago when i split up with my girlfriend, whats the fuking point? The more shit u feel the more shit u will feel if that makes sense, just sort it out mate, it isnt hard
Old 19-04-2005 | 06:47 PM
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I cant say anything thats gonna make you feel better, other than say you have friends on this BB, who do care and hope you can come thru this,

Old 19-04-2005 | 06:51 PM
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People I wish I just could sort my life out that wot I wanrt most of all

But I am week an feebel and cnat manage it at the monet.

SEE i SAID i WAS USUELESS
Old 19-04-2005 | 06:53 PM
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People I wish I just could sort my life out that wot I wanrt most of all

But I am week an feebel and cnat manage it at the monet.

SEE i SAID i WAS USUELESS
Old 19-04-2005 | 07:14 PM
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Just a qucikie, (tell me to get lost if you want to please) My sister is a qualified counsiler (pyscotheripist) would you like me to have a word with her to see if shes still doing counsiliing etc cos if she is and maybe if you dont mind she could email you at least shes qualified and may help
Old 19-04-2005 | 07:56 PM
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already emailed her , Less in case it helps, this is the same sister who had probs etc i mentioned earlier, so shes a bit different from normal councilers in that shes really can relate etc, anyways when she replies i will let you know mate
Old 19-04-2005 | 08:09 PM
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In a way chip's advice is good. I suffered from similar problems years ago and still have the odd bad day here and then. Positive thinking got me through a lot and even now I try to think positively. If the medications isnot working, go back to your GP and demand a change. I was given Prozac and it didn't work for me. They gave me another one, little blue things, and they worked by making me tired all day so I was pretty relaxed. To be honest, the best thing I did was stop taking medication. I very rarely talk about this sort of thing to anyone, in fact most of my maates wouldn't know any of this, but I know what you are going through and just want to help. I had days where I would wake early and feel like shit all day, so I ended up laying on the sofa watching TV. It was a vicious circle.

I did finally kick my ass into shape. I stopped drinking tea and coffee for a start. I kept myself busy by doing some work in the garden. I took each day at a time, and when I felt good, it made me feel better because I wasn't feeling too shitty. This is where positive thinking helps, you think to yourself 'wow, I feel better today than I did yesterday!' and it works. And if you have a bad day, you just have to remember you got yourself out of it before, you can do it again. Also, sometimes it is true that you will feel better tomorrow. You need to get out of the routine that you are in now. If you spend all day sitting in your room, go sit in another room for a while, or if it's nice, go out in the garden. It worked for me, it may work for you. Just don't listen to people that tell you to pull yourself together!
Old 19-04-2005 | 08:38 PM
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nice one turbo nutter!! sound words of encouragement! take each day as it comes bud! anyone who says pull yourself together knows feck all bout what your going thru!

chin up fella hope you feel better soon!
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