I hate the cliquiness on here
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Doesnt come accross that way at all, he comes across as not enjoying life hence he seems to want to live through this forum.
That may sound hypocritical coming from someone who also uses this forum a lot, but I come on here a lot because the core subject matter interests me, and I only to talk to the same sort of people in the same sort of ways on here that I do in real life, where as he seems to come on here to live out a fantasy life, for him it seems like it is one of those "second life" games on the net you read about.
In real life it appears that he has disadvantages, social interaction issues, inability to interact with the opposite sex etc, on here he can pretend to be confident and outgoing while hiding behind his screen.
Different people use forums for different things, and in his case I dont think its to fit in with the rest of his life like it is to those of us who use it a lot but do so as ourselves, for him its to attempt to actually replace chunks of himself and his life with something different.
Thats how it appears to me anyway.
That may sound hypocritical coming from someone who also uses this forum a lot, but I come on here a lot because the core subject matter interests me, and I only to talk to the same sort of people in the same sort of ways on here that I do in real life, where as he seems to come on here to live out a fantasy life, for him it seems like it is one of those "second life" games on the net you read about.
In real life it appears that he has disadvantages, social interaction issues, inability to interact with the opposite sex etc, on here he can pretend to be confident and outgoing while hiding behind his screen.
Different people use forums for different things, and in his case I dont think its to fit in with the rest of his life like it is to those of us who use it a lot but do so as ourselves, for him its to attempt to actually replace chunks of himself and his life with something different.
Thats how it appears to me anyway.
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So it comes across very much that you DO care what others think actually, so much so that you dont give them a chance to see the real you and form an opinion.
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What are you going on about? I've came on here and done nothing more than voice my opinion of people. How is that hiding behind something? You'll find the endless ammount of people who go onto threads and tag all the nasty comments about you and others behind their back are the ones hiding behind something, not me.
I geniunely don't care what people think of me. Unless of course I know someone very well, then I will care and maybe go out of my way. If I really wanted people to care about me that much, I would simply go around telling people how friendly they are and how great they are.
The harsh reality is Chip you are just upset because I said what many people were thinking, and now you are going off on one. Get over it, I told you what I thought of you, and that's the end of it. It's a simple as that.
Benni.
I geniunely don't care what people think of me. Unless of course I know someone very well, then I will care and maybe go out of my way. If I really wanted people to care about me that much, I would simply go around telling people how friendly they are and how great they are.
The harsh reality is Chip you are just upset because I said what many people were thinking, and now you are going off on one. Get over it, I told you what I thought of you, and that's the end of it. It's a simple as that.
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As I said, the "me" you present on here doesnt appear to be the same you that exists away from the keyboard.
As I said, hence the facade to stop people getting to know you in the first place, safer that way
Lol, no mate, nothing you could say would upset me, because your opinion doesnt matter to me, I think you are an uphappy person living with a disability and a load of emotional issues brought on by your poor family environment and that your ability to make any meaningful judgement about anyone is impaired so much by the combination of those factors that I would actually feel it was a more of an issue if you identified with me than if you are trying to bitch at me.
No im not, im simply humouring you with responses as I pity you and know you like the attention.
Unless of course I know someone very well, then I will care
The harsh reality is Chip you are just upset because I said what many people were thinking
and now you are going off on one.
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Grow up Benni. Do you seriously still find this humourous??
Is your life really that pathetic that, not only are you proud to have got someone banned, but you are still banging on about it??
You were the one exposing photos from the ladies room (not hard to get someone to send you the photos or screen shots is it) then blaming it on Steve accidentally having access to it for less than a day.
He wouldnt want to moderate the forums again and have to deal with losers like you.
Is your life really that pathetic that, not only are you proud to have got someone banned, but you are still banging on about it??
You were the one exposing photos from the ladies room (not hard to get someone to send you the photos or screen shots is it) then blaming it on Steve accidentally having access to it for less than a day.
He wouldnt want to moderate the forums again and have to deal with losers like you.
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Personally, I find this forum has improved lately, it was horribly cliquey a few years back, but in the last year or two I have found it much improved.
Keep it up.
Keep it up.
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As I said, the "me" you present on here doesnt appear to be the same you that exists away from the keyboard.
You couldn't possibly comment unless you had met me, and I'm pretty sure you haven't.
As I said, hence the facade to stop people getting to know you in the first place, safer that way
People getting to know me? They have done so as and when I've been to the meets, cars shows and occasional night out. So I have no reason to behave in such a mannersim when quite a few people have met me off the forum and will continue to do so. I am no different off the forum than I am on it, unlike most people who slag people off, off the forum who they were happily speaking to on the forum before hand.
Lol, no mate, nothing you could say would upset me, because your opinion doesnt matter to me, I think you are an uphappy person living with a disability and a load of emotional issues brought on by your poor family environment and that your ability to make any meaningful judgement about anyone is impaired so much by the combination of those factors that I would actually feel it was a more of an issue if you identified with me than if you are trying to bitch at me.
Then many, many members must be living the same way as I do, as they have aired the exact same opinion of you as I have, just not personally or directly. They prefer to use things like 'Tags' and what not to express their feelings towards you, without actually letting you know it was them. Yet you claim I am the one who is hiding, I don't think so. I also don't see what my disability has to do with any of this? You are now clutching at straws because you can't accept that I have an opinion of you, and it's not a very good one.
You couldn't possibly comment unless you had met me, and I'm pretty sure you haven't.
As I said, hence the facade to stop people getting to know you in the first place, safer that way
People getting to know me? They have done so as and when I've been to the meets, cars shows and occasional night out. So I have no reason to behave in such a mannersim when quite a few people have met me off the forum and will continue to do so. I am no different off the forum than I am on it, unlike most people who slag people off, off the forum who they were happily speaking to on the forum before hand.
Lol, no mate, nothing you could say would upset me, because your opinion doesnt matter to me, I think you are an uphappy person living with a disability and a load of emotional issues brought on by your poor family environment and that your ability to make any meaningful judgement about anyone is impaired so much by the combination of those factors that I would actually feel it was a more of an issue if you identified with me than if you are trying to bitch at me.
Then many, many members must be living the same way as I do, as they have aired the exact same opinion of you as I have, just not personally or directly. They prefer to use things like 'Tags' and what not to express their feelings towards you, without actually letting you know it was them. Yet you claim I am the one who is hiding, I don't think so. I also don't see what my disability has to do with any of this? You are now clutching at straws because you can't accept that I have an opinion of you, and it's not a very good one.
Benni.
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Benni, I dont need to meet you to see the difference between how you are on here and how you are in real life, thats been obvious from the posts you do make about your actual life occasionally where you come across as a very pathetic figure indeed, you keep saying on here about not caring what anyone thinks of you, and yet your posts about your actual life have always been about giving people lifts around in the hope they will like you etc and how you always get used as a result, how even you own family treat you with no respect etc. All very different from the persona you seem to attempt to put across on here where you pretend to be confident and outgoing etc.
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you two need to get a room !
The reference's to 'a certain mod' are funny.. and quite pathetic really, so said person is popular on the forum.. who cares ? that doesn't make said person part of an elite group does it - other wise that would make Benni part of one too, because look at the attention he's getting from this thread !!
It's also pretty much the same people in here posting / quoting / agree'ing with what's been said - so are they part of another elite group ?
ffs people, it's the internet - keyboard warrior heaven !!
I'm now going to crawl back under my rock before you elite groupies jump on me
The reference's to 'a certain mod' are funny.. and quite pathetic really, so said person is popular on the forum.. who cares ? that doesn't make said person part of an elite group does it - other wise that would make Benni part of one too, because look at the attention he's getting from this thread !!
It's also pretty much the same people in here posting / quoting / agree'ing with what's been said - so are they part of another elite group ?
ffs people, it's the internet - keyboard warrior heaven !!
I'm now going to crawl back under my rock before you elite groupies jump on me
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Quite an interesting read at points this.
I think this is by far the most clique forum I go on, by a huge margin. You see a lot of threads going unanswered.
I certainly don't think I'm part of any 'crowd' though I do find it interesting that some people who posted saying they didn't think it was a problem, are definately part of the crowd, perhaps without realising it.
I think a lot of the problems lie with the fact that if it isn't a Cosworth/RS/very fast/powerful, then you won't get much of a response. I understand that to a degree, because the extreme cars are the most interesting, but not everyone can afford a massively powerful car, or afford to run a Cosworth/RS so I do think it's a shame that a lot of the other models get ignored. An Escort GTI or some such might be someone's pride and joy and the best they can afford, but to many on here, it's nothing. It's a shame, because as enthusiasts, I think people should commend people's efforts and enthusiasm, be it a 1.1 Fiesta or an 800bhp Cosworth. We work with what we can afford. I hate seeing cars slagged off on here. One thread springs to mind slating the RS1800 Fiesta. Yes it might not be your thing, it isn't really mine, but I think saying they're crap or not 'worthy' of the badge is a bit much. At least show some respect for people's likes and dislikes.
I can't really see myself being part of the crowd anytime soon, I spend more time on other forums. And most tend to be very welcoming. But that's because most of the forums I'm on lean more towards lower spec Fords, rather than the RS models which, sadly, in my experience can lead to some snobbery. I've offered been looked down upon for only driving a MK6 Escort, which I find a bit sad to be honest.
Anyway, doesn't really matter too much does it lol. Have met some sound people on here and been offered help by people I barely even know, which is what it's all about, sharing a passion and helping each other enjoy it.
Just seems to come with a good pile of bullshit too on here
I think this is by far the most clique forum I go on, by a huge margin. You see a lot of threads going unanswered.
I certainly don't think I'm part of any 'crowd' though I do find it interesting that some people who posted saying they didn't think it was a problem, are definately part of the crowd, perhaps without realising it.
I think a lot of the problems lie with the fact that if it isn't a Cosworth/RS/very fast/powerful, then you won't get much of a response. I understand that to a degree, because the extreme cars are the most interesting, but not everyone can afford a massively powerful car, or afford to run a Cosworth/RS so I do think it's a shame that a lot of the other models get ignored. An Escort GTI or some such might be someone's pride and joy and the best they can afford, but to many on here, it's nothing. It's a shame, because as enthusiasts, I think people should commend people's efforts and enthusiasm, be it a 1.1 Fiesta or an 800bhp Cosworth. We work with what we can afford. I hate seeing cars slagged off on here. One thread springs to mind slating the RS1800 Fiesta. Yes it might not be your thing, it isn't really mine, but I think saying they're crap or not 'worthy' of the badge is a bit much. At least show some respect for people's likes and dislikes.
I can't really see myself being part of the crowd anytime soon, I spend more time on other forums. And most tend to be very welcoming. But that's because most of the forums I'm on lean more towards lower spec Fords, rather than the RS models which, sadly, in my experience can lead to some snobbery. I've offered been looked down upon for only driving a MK6 Escort, which I find a bit sad to be honest.
Anyway, doesn't really matter too much does it lol. Have met some sound people on here and been offered help by people I barely even know, which is what it's all about, sharing a passion and helping each other enjoy it.
Just seems to come with a good pile of bullshit too on here
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my reference to a certain mod was made in good humour and in no way a slight on that mod who is a pleasant person but aimed at the same old desperado faces who constantly try to impress and flirt with that said un named mod.
fuck sake theres some people getting in a right old state on here now. its an internet forum. who really cares?
ive enough friends in real life. im not really looking to make more from the internet but im exactly the same in real life as on here. a sarky annoying cunt.
fuck sake theres some people getting in a right old state on here now. its an internet forum. who really cares?
ive enough friends in real life. im not really looking to make more from the internet but im exactly the same in real life as on here. a sarky annoying cunt.
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the threads probably go unanswered because all the guys with real knowledge fucked off due to over moderation,greif about user names,membership issues etc.
edit,not all but quite a few i bet.
edit,not all but quite a few i bet.
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my reference to a certain mod was made in good humour and in no way a slight on that mod who is a pleasant person but aimed at the same old desperado faces who constantly try to impress and flirt with that said un named mod.
fuck sake theres some people getting in a right old state on here now. its an internet forum. who really cares?
ive enough friends in real life. im not really looking to make more from the internet but im exactly the same in real life as on here. a funny sarky annoying cunt.
fuck sake theres some people getting in a right old state on here now. its an internet forum. who really cares?
ive enough friends in real life. im not really looking to make more from the internet but im exactly the same in real life as on here. a funny sarky annoying cunt.
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thanks....i do try to be mildly amusing generally but sometimes im on a different wavelength to everyone else, my posts are made in sarcastic jest.
even if i did have an arguement on an internet forum its not that important to me that id want to smash their face in if i did meet them in real life.
theres far more important things happening in real life more worthy of making that effort for.
even if i did have an arguement on an internet forum its not that important to me that id want to smash their face in if i did meet them in real life.
theres far more important things happening in real life more worthy of making that effort for.
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Tell me about it! I closed the laptop at about half 12 last night and went to bed then I've been in meetings all day! I've only got as far as this post so far because I've been cooking dinner since I got in from work.
Zo,
I realise I could have locked this thread but many people seem to have their opinions on the subject and I believe that it should be discussed, I wouldn't want to lock it and end the discussion.
Zo,
I realise I could have locked this thread but many people seem to have their opinions on the subject and I believe that it should be discussed, I wouldn't want to lock it and end the discussion.
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every site has an in crowd. thats just the way it is. theres a certain mod on here with long blonde hair that i wont name names but who gets 1000's of replies no matter what the topic....
then theres the tuners arse lickers who can be very embarrasing. have some self respect and get your tongues out their arses.
then theres the tuners arse lickers who can be very embarrasing. have some self respect and get your tongues out their arses.
ROFL
How do i change a light bulb by the mentioned girl and a 6 page topic erupts. No offence to the said person as i do find it funny and am sure she does to. Especially the 5 or 6 who follow her every post no matter what. Comes with the territory of being a girl on a forum as with tuners also.
How do i change a light bulb by the mentioned girl and a 6 page topic erupts. No offence to the said person as i do find it funny and am sure she does to. Especially the 5 or 6 who follow her every post no matter what. Comes with the territory of being a girl on a forum as with tuners also.
Neil... i genuinely thought more of you
You have had it in for me for some reason since forever.. i have no idea why... youve never met me. you have just formed an opinion of me.
Oh well... at least i know what 'most' think of me
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I genuinely try my hardest to help as many people as i can, be as genuine as i can, and do the best i can.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
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no one was saying anything derrogitory about you that ive seen. comments were aimed at the same old desperados comments that can be cringeworthy to read. the same sort that are automatically atracted to any threads by females on a male orientated site. you havent noticed this yourself?
ive certainly nothing bad to say about you personally . i dont know you and have only seen you on here.
ive certainly nothing bad to say about you personally . i dont know you and have only seen you on here.
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I genuinely try my hardest to help as many people as i can, be as genuine as i can, and do the best i can.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
There are prats everywhere and it's just a shame this place attracts a lot of them that can't see that arguing on the internet is a bit of a fruitless task.
Chin up
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I genuinely try my hardest to help as many people as i can, be as genuine as i can, and do the best i can.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
I raise money for charity, i work 10/11 hour days, and i also try to keep a lot of the shit off of this site.
And seeing peoples opinions about me like this really does make me question why.
not sure if that helps or not
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It's obvisious it was you Maria. I never slated you at all dont know you, just stated you could start a thread and it would go for pages by the same people who seem to follow you around. Just an observation to how some peoples posts are answered and some are not.