andyuk

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hi anyone have kids with ex parnters and have kids with recent partners? do you get greif, and shit from your current partner? i am in a position were my ex shit stirs and we have big big arguments, and i am being asked to choose between my kid and my partner,

fuzzy

get rid of the partner. anyone that expects a parent to choose over their child is an arse.

tabetha

Too bloody right, you'd have to be a complete wanker to even think about choosing, give her the elbow, tell her not to slam the door on the way out.
She needs a brain transplant imo to put you in this position.
I have a 15 year old daughter that I have not seen for 15 years due to her mum being a arse.
tabetha

andyuk

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i am in the same boat my partner and ex row like mad, mostly my ex fault cause she shit stirs, and my partner lets it get to her and wont let it go, ive always said my kids come first, my boy with my current partner and my girl with my ex but that is too hard for them to handle, thats were iam stuck!!!!

Lambchop

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Bad luck mate but you shouldn't have to choose 1 over the other

Mrs T

noone should ever make you choose between kids and partners,

kev new

iTrader: (1)

Feel for you as was going through the same for close on 2 years but things are very slowly turning round in my favour........ heart broken i was.

back to the topic.....yeh its not right to be asked to choose one over the other and anybody who even dreams of asking that needs shot IMO.....bin her.

cabrio zo

Your current partner knew you already had a kid prior to her, both of the selfish cows need to think about the kids here, not themselves and start acting like responsible adults

(oh keep some condoms in your wallet in future )

Z