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iTrader: (1)

So can women and men ever just be friends ?????
What do you all think then ?

It is my opinion that we a two very different speccies !!!!!

Ryan

was thinking that mate.

depends what you class a friends as i guess.

Never had a really close female "friend" without the "Girl" bit attached to the front.

Ginge !

you can be just friends, secret is to marry em then they are just friends

Stavros

Absolutley hell no, I certainly cant, even when they got a nce personality, its not enough to be real good friends with them, dunno why, guess men n birds are too different.

A bird can JUST be friends with a bloke (rarely), but ive never ever ever met a bloke who genuinley wants to be GOOD friends with a bird who they do not fancy in any way at all.

People often kid themselfs that they friends with them, but the fancing em always shows in the end.

What gets on my nerves is when birds think these blokes are being nice as they friends, when to me its blatantly obvious they being nice cause they fancy em like fuck and friends is the only way they get close to em, and it always comes out in the end that i was exactly right, its obvious.

I dont know benders, might be different with them.

So any birds im ever nice to, its cause i want to shag you, you might be a lovely person too, but its not just that, sorry

CraigN

i didint used to think so

i now have a female friend my only one lol i have a mrs too

i really wanted to bone her but she wasnt interested then jsut became really good mates and now get on well its quite weird at first lol

my mrs is cool with me having femal mates too

M Brian

i dont think i could either....

well not truly... maaaaybe if i was truly truly deep with someone else then i could manage friends with another female. or if they were off marks because they were a close mates girl/wife etc... then for sure...

but anyone else... hell no...
even if they arent the best looking female friend if you could get away with no one knowing and you were both in a particualar frame of mind.... then youd nail em!

challenge for everyone... think of your female acquaintances.... and if for example you knew noone could EVER find out what you had done with this person... they asked you to sleep with them.... would you 100% hand on heart turn them down??

youre friends with people you like and are attracted to.. male and female.... but the same sex friends...there's an extra boundary there that you wouldnt cross. its not there on opposite sex friends so just relies on your morals.

M Brian

lets quote...................

Stavros

dont get me wrong, i have girls who are friends i genuinley get on really well with, but id fuck em all, they mint and due to my extreme confidence, i always think i will one day

but honest to god i cant think of a single girl im friends with who isnt fit

i can actually think of a couple who i think are really nice people but im deliberatley not good friends with as i feel a bit shown up talking to them incase anyone sees me with a ropey bird...

I MUST be THE most shallow person ever

Im not proud of it, but i do find it funny when i think how shallow/stupid i am

Ginge !

a mate of mine came up witha funny quote ages ago, and thats any bord ya talk to no matter fi you are just friends ect and ya dont wanna, when ya in the pub with em and ya have a few drinks and there talking to ya i know everyone stops listening to what they say and starts to think. MMMMMMMMM i wonder what it would be like .


now thats a funny comment and at the time i had to agree with him



now i must be getting a old fooker as i cant be arsed to tlak to mist birds as they give me the fucking hump !!!!

i prefer to spend my free time with blokes, no jokes but i do prefer a guys company now to a stupid birds, whyb are women so bitchy too, fooking the amount of times ive wanted to belt girls for getting a bit shirty and 2 faced about my bird is unreal




rant over

darren.cudd

got to fully agree with steve on this one. i thought i had finally met a really nice looking bird that i just wanted to be mates with and have been for 4 years





then last week realised that i fancied the fook out of her decided to tell her and got totally blown out! lol

think its all sorted now though and back to being mates again



might try again next month! pmsl

M Brian

M Brian

additionally.............

when a relationship ends..... you get the 'i think it would be best if we're just friends'...


hell yes! friends means one for old times eh?!

Stavros

EASY way to tell if you like a bird for them, or just cause you fancy them too and maybe not know it, and i SWEAR it works It also works to tell if you even like the bird your with more than physicly...



Say it was a bird your mates with, say you really fancy chatting to her on the phone, BEFORE you do, go chop one off serious once you cum, IMMEDIATLEY after, do you STILL wana talk to her?

Also works with birds your with, the minute you shoot your load into them, what do you feel? For that moment or so ALL your sexual feelings casued by testosterone or whatever are gone, so if you still think "aaah isnt she lovely, lets hug n talk" then you obv like her, or if (this is most cases with me ) you think "fuck me, i wish shed get out my house, stupid cow" then its only the fact she fit as fuck that makes you like/love her...

soudns like im messin but it works

also works if your feeling wound up or upset over a bird for some reason, knock one out, im 100% them feelings will totaly dissapear until your bollocks have reloaded

M Brian

oh myyyy godddddddddddddddddddddd


that is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true

fooking hell!!!!!!! well put into words ste!!

ive had major tellings off from fookbuddys for running of after or other kinda stuff!!


like that with my recent ex at mo... imlike... yeah you can make it up to me ... yeah i wouldnt hold what you done against me... ok ok.... another day... less erm tesertorone..... ho ho ho... fook you youre dirt... do one.. never ever even speak to me... filth... do one.... just dawned on me why!!

Andy-R

So Steve does that mean the only Friends that you have that are birds are 1's that are out of your league?

In answer to the original post Yup I have Girlfriends that have good qualitys, and I see them for the whole package rather than "Just a Shag" "Fine body" "Pretty Face" ect.

Other M8's would 'love to do em' but they remain "Just Friends"

So Yup It's possible in my experience.

Stavros

im the most overconfident person ever, i dont feel anyones out of my league

i think thats probly why i do alright, thinking youl never get someone is halfway to never getting em

Rick

I have boned every bird i have ever liked....Dunno why, maybe cos i have some proper girth....

escort1989uk

got two close female friends and both of them i wouldn't shag or even think about they are fit don't get me wrong just don't like the way they treat blokes we all have a laugh and thats fine with me

Rick

are u defo not gay?

speeddemon

yeh of course you can, god knows what makes the female species go off like they d.o doesnt mean they all do get the book woman are from venus men are from mars might help most of us understand!

cooky223

no way woman are from mars because the eat all the chocolate and men are from penisssssssssssssssssssssssssss witch is true

cooky223

O YEA

Phil

iTrader: (1)

For once I whole-heartedly agree with Steve!

Nath

I dont think they can, cause men are usually thinking of nailing them at some point, whereas woman probably think that a lot but can be snidy in dealing with it.

I find that I can get on as mates with woman that are younger than me and older than me but, the ones around my age just seem to live in a different world and are too up them selves, either with a "mid life crisis" on hand or the "look at me, dont I look great" attitude which makes them look snobbish, easy, old wrinklies Mind you I know not all of them are like that and I cant stereotype, but most of them seem to be

But, they certainly can be very strange at times and unreadable ......

Steve, your outlook and opinions make me laugh though cause at times it seems so true

darren.cudd

some propper funny stuff coming out here mst of it true

steve you should write a book with this shit

Spiky

iTrader: (1)

well i was gonna put that, yeah they can,

but when i look back all the female friends i have, i have at one point been more than friends


so i guess the answer is no

any girls wanna be my friend????
























disclaimer... Clare thats a joke by the way

Cam

The Swedes have got this question well and truely sorted with their custom of Knulla Vanner (approx translation "Fuck Friends"). Basically rumpy pumpy with no strings attached, maybe not even names exchanged, if you make a connection.

Cam

Stavros

My outlook is true, this n that relationship advice thread the other day shows that one.
Its no co-incidence that every time i do a post on this kinda crap its always full of posts like Melvs etc saying how exactly right i am.

All this cliche'd bollocks advice columns and just most people give out is total wank, all stuff said by people who imagine the situations but have fuck all experience of what to do and what not to do.

There is an art to birds, a fine art, and its fuck all to do with all the rubbish you always hear said or written.
I wish they did Degrees in it and i might have some good qualifications then

Rick "ive shagged every girl ive ever fancied" Yea ok mate, id not belive that if some famous mega star model bloke said it, nobody in the world would be like that unless they wierd n fancy almost nobody apart from a few uggos, or lived on a secluded island with hardly any people at all

Keith B

I agree with Itsmeagain.........with the exception that I do have alot of female friends. Its fookin murder cos alot of them are really hot! And they know the score too even the ones who are attached - I'm not a bad person honest!

Jim Galbally

i have many female friends, so i'd say yes

however i would fuck every last one of them given the oportunity

righthooker

i would say NO,compleatly shallow but its a sexual thing

Katie

*sniff sniff* and there's me thinking I was your friend, Mr Johnson...=)

Stavros

Can be friends AND fancy them, yep.
Cant be friends and NOT fancy them.

brad

i used to have female friends , ones i knew from my childhood but i think once i got to my mid 20's it all changed , i started sleeping around and i stopped seeing as much of the friends , i think they felt threatened or disapointed in some way .
tbh why would you want a woman to be just a friend ? i mean if they are attractive you want to nail em . But if they are average and just like talking about cars football life in general then you might aswell talk to a bloke because as we all know women dont have an ounce of common sense and talk shit most of the time anyway

there used to be a couple of girls that i used to spend time with but only because they had nice mates and it allways paid off , but once you nail a couple of their friends they catch on and dont talk to you selfish bitches

EscortWRC

Yeah, no problem

I have several women friends and it has never been a problem.

M Brian

you put into words on here what I do and what ive noticed women do etc but i've always thought... hey maybe its just me that thinks this sh:t!!

so glad it aint!! ho hunting at a greebo bar tonight!! bring it on!! mission ugly accepted!!