Absolutley hell no, I certainly cant, even when they got a nce personality, its not enough to be real good friends with them, dunno why, guess men n birds are too different.
A bird can JUST be friends with a bloke (rarely), but ive never ever ever met a bloke who genuinley wants to be GOOD friends with a bird who they do not fancy in any way at all.
People often kid themselfs that they friends with them, but the fancing em always shows in the end.
What gets on my nerves is when birds think these blokes are being nice as they friends, when to me its blatantly obvious they being nice cause they fancy em like fuck and friends is the only way they get close to em, and it always comes out in the end that i was exactly right, its obvious.
I dont know benders, might be different with them.
So any birds im ever nice to, its cause i want to shag you, you might be a lovely person too, but its not just that, sorry