Just found out a old school mate of mine committed suicide late friday night at Hayes & Harlington Station.

Only saw him a while back and he seemed happy. Amazing how a brave face can cover everything up in someones life

 

thats shit mate sos to hear it and yes it's very true i had my best mate hang himself at 20 and i hadn't seen him long before and you'd never of said he was in a state of mind to commit suicide, we was like brothers was quite gutting to be honest but not a fat lot that can be done now i guess

 

I'm really dreading this funeral. 2 Mates lost in the space of 4 months.

 

yea it's not good, bad things never seem to happen in 1's we had 2 close friends do the same and another 2 in a car crash all within 6 months, it's horrible at young peoples funerals, thank god things seem to have gone quiet for us recently though, hope things go aswell as they can for you mate

 

Thanks Mate. Means Alot.

 

something happened round here like that a few months back, a lad from my class in school hung himself and i think it was another 2 lads of similer age did it aswell like within a 3 mile radius

realy sad, was a top bloke aswell

 

That sucks man. The guy is same age as me (22). Parents shouldn't have to see their children being buried or cremated.

 

same here mate i'm 22, you have to wonder what madness is going throught thair heads when they do it

 

I guess majority of these sort of things happen due to loneliness

 

i know what you mean, i freak out now and then at the fact that its going to happen eventually but i've never even thought about that, and ive had some really shitty times

 

I like to be alone sometimes but if i'm away from sinead and the girls for too long i really start to feel like shit.

 

ive found that i miss my missis most when i'm hung over haha, when i'm at work hung over i cant wait to just sit down with her and watch telly for some reason lol

 

lol all good man. I wish i could just sit and watch TV with sinead lol, instead i have her 2 little girls driving me up the wall lol

But they are kids and they make me laugh lol

 

ive had many problems in the last 9 years i feel down most times its very hard to keep going guy's when so many things go on in your head...


sorry i cant say no more.......

toughts are with you guy's

 

sorry to hear about your mate

it's easy enough to jump in front of a train, and, to be honest, it's really easy as i've contemplated it myself at various times in the past

but it's what happens afterwards that stops people from doing it, people think of their families and those they will leave behind and all the suffering they will have to endure

even in my short time on the planet, i've seen too much death of friends, family, nearest and dearest, but it seems that the only time that all my mates come together now is when we go to a funeral or a wedding

there was one last year where a mother jumped in front of the train with her 2 small kids at southall then her mother in law did the same thing a few weeks later

what a terrible terrible state of affairs when you fel that topping yourself is your only option rather than speaking to someone about it

 

not good at all mate!! a few years back now my mate died from taking a bad pill at a new years party and i had only seen him about 3 days beforehand!! it was quite a shock thinking back now as i had known him all my life and we were only 19 at the time!! nobody should be getting buried at 19.
Some people can hide what they are going through really well and thats what shocks us most when they do something silly as we dont ever expect it from them

 

What a shame

 

I remember the Southall one mate. Was Awful. Only minutes from my place.

My mates funeral was on the 27th Last month and i couldn't believe how many people i haven't seen in almost 10 years were there. His poor mum lost it after the cremation. Really hit everyone.

 

If only we knew what was going on in peoples lives/heads, we could step in and be there for them, if only we had that crystal ball!! Sad loss of a young life, but if only they would stop and think of the family and friends they leave behind because they are the ones who will realy suffer now.

 

it's amazing how many people people you know know, unfortunatly though, nowadays it does take a funeral to meet them after so long

we all said that we would keep in touch after the last one, but it's still very difficult when you start to spread your close mates around the country when you get married or move we should all try harder