JohnnyB

my mrs somtimes on MSN and can be chatting from anything from"so how big is your cock then ?" to "are you bi"

she somtimes shows me the convo or tells me about it" but only if the couple is worth a shag"

The Rapid 1

So one day you just thought I know what I'll do today, I'll go round to the lovely girl who I know dont play arround and see if by some chance our PC's have different software installed on em

1 you really dont wanna get yourself involved if they mates of yours, except tell them BOTH if they got problems THEY need to sort em one way or another

2 In honesty even if the bird is "playing" about just online not the end of the world, maybe her bloke should keep her "amused" so she dont have to

3 No matter whats been happening online, she HAS done stuff online she dont want him to know about, whether that be just saying how she aint happy with her guy, then that in my book still puts her in the wrong, she aint so perfect if she cant tell him so he can work at being better for her if he is a decent guy, and if he aint then well again that there problem.

4 If it is the just talking about him behind his back then maybe it BETTER he see's it then she could just say she new what he was doing and thought it was a good way of letting him know without actually talking to him, cos if she as "shy" and unconfrontational as you say he will know she is and MAY believe her .

Anyway obviously all IMO

Steve

skeg

Rapid, he already said above in that quote^ that her partner made it known he's aware of what she's been doing, therefore its not like Shing has gone round by chance looking at the pc is it. She would have been wondering how can see it or know about it. Most people would think key logger or rat software straight away.

Mrjenrst- i can't believe you said if she has nothing to hide what's the problem. So you wouldn't be shocked if your partner had been watching your online activity for months without your knowledge? I know i would be. What about passwords and things?

IMO you should have proof or pretty good reasons for installing key loggers.

mrjenrst

I couldnt give a flying fuck if she did out like that 99/100 i tell her in conversation and even if i didnt i have got nothing to hide.

She know's my password's cos i have not got anything to hide and i know her's

Sorry but when you start hiding thing's off your other half then you have got major problem's

Hope this answer's you question

skeg

That's up to you mate and fair enough. I wouldn't have my partner opening my post or knowing my passwords to things like email and sites i use and i wouldn't want to know hers either. Asking them to check things for you is something else.

I still think there is a big difference between having someone know your password or pin number to logging every single thing you do or enter online and most importantly without your knowledge. Even if its for something simple like ordering surprise Xmas presents. Who'd want to live with someone like that? I wouldn't.


So installing software to monitor what your parter is doing is not hidding things? The two comments above contradict each other IMO as one minute you're saying she shouldn't be fussed after discovering that then you're saying about people shouldn't hide things.

I'm sure the keylogger had a big bright pink sign on it.

mrjenrst

Sorry just a couple of point's
We do not check each other's email's or web access in any way shape or form. Because of

Trust


And what i ment by the above statement's was she want's to hide thing's which is why she doesnt want him checking her shit. Because of no

Trust or she's shagging every cunt who comes within spitting distance

Sorry mate but she is involving someone who shouldnt be involved into something which will only blow up there face

And last but not least, i'd love to get into a battle of wit's with you

But i refuse to battle an unarmed man

Edited twice cos my keyboard doesnt interact with stella artois
Although i still stand by with that above

Sorry make that 3 edit's cos my interactive keyboard didnt recognise the 't' in artois

skeg

Sorry mate the email thing was just my preference, i already said what you do is fair enough. You and all your mighty wits still have failed to answer though, doesn't hiding a keylogger not come under that second quote you made where you rolled eyes?

If that's not breaking your precious trust rule and not hiding things i don't know what is. Seems to me like you just want to slate her off for reacting to it. The guy sounds like a cock and i hope shes bouncing off Shings cock every chance she gets just to rub his nose in it.

dojj

iTrader: (3)

my mrs knows all my passwords and i don't know any of hers

but i don't give a shit because i have a fairly good idea as to what she gets up to (normally shopping online or talking to her family on msn)

on the other hand, she knows more about computers than i do so she might have hidden soemthing away

where do i get one of these key loggers from? i want to make sure she'snot talking shit about me behind my back or spying on me when i go into the mens room

Rodge.

dojj

iTrader: (3)

rubbing his nose in another mans weiner would just go to proove that he was right to fit this datalogger thingy he's done in the first place

The Rapid 1

Point PROVEN then SHE has done things to BETRAY the trust in the relationship first !
SHE obviously aint the angel she is wanting people to believe and obviously the guy sussed this and THEN installed a logger, probably to get the proof with, maybe to satisfy himself with and then confront her with, maybe before wanting out, but IMO if he has done this then he shouldnt have been happy with her in the first place and got out anyway.



And NO not everyone would instantly think logger etc, not everyone a computer nerd, she obviously thinks Shings or who ever it was is a bit computer literate, and may depending on just how acurate what the bloke told her was, ie word for word, guess he been watching the pc SOMEHOW.

Bottom line she up to no good one way or another betraying the trust, if she playing arround just playing on line maybe she should own up to him it excites her and she gets a buzz from it and maybe could be done as a shared thing, ie watching your missus get all excited then you get the reward, or if it just slagging him off behind his back she should have the balls to tell him like I said before so he can improve himself.

OR

Of course there could be another angle no one thought of yet, MAYBE he ALREADY had the logger on there for other reasons, maybe he got kids and wanted to keep an eye on what THEY were doing (was a thread about a young girl not long ago if I remember correctly) OR maybe a lodger/family member that also has access to pc and maybe summit been happening to say his bank records or files etc, FULL story not known, ok feel free to correct me but could be, but either way this logger HAS caught her doing SOMETHING she was/is trying to hide from her partner, NO TRUST NO GOOD !


Steve

skeg

You'd still fuck her though, Rapid!

dojj

iTrader: (3)

maybe she's offering services that he has to go and pay for?

it would explain why he's pissed off