Originally Posted by skeg
She had a few conversations on facebook private messages about her chap and he wasn't happy about what she said..
Rapid, he already said above in that quote^ that her partner made it known he's aware of what she's been doing, therefore its not like Shing has gone round by chance looking at the pc is it. She would have been wondering how can see it or know about it. Most people would think key logger or rat software straight away.
Mrjenrst- i can't believe you said if she has nothing to hide what's the problem. So you wouldn't be shocked if your partner had been watching your online activity for months without your knowledge? I know i would be. What about passwords and things?
IMO you should have proof or pretty good reasons for installing key loggers.
Point PROVEN then SHE has done things to BETRAY the trust in the relationship first !
SHE obviously aint the angel she is wanting people to believe and obviously the guy sussed this and THEN installed a logger, probably to get the proof with, maybe to satisfy himself with and then confront her with, maybe before wanting out, but IMO if he has done this then he shouldnt have been happy with her in the first place and got out anyway.
And NO not everyone would instantly think logger etc, not everyone a computer nerd, she obviously thinks Shings or who ever it was is a bit computer literate, and may depending on just how acurate what the bloke told her was, ie word for word, guess he been watching the pc SOMEHOW.
Bottom line she up to no good one way or another betraying the trust, if she playing arround just playing on line maybe she should own up to him it excites her and she gets a buzz from it and maybe could be done as a shared thing, ie watching your missus get all excited then you get the reward, or if it just slagging him off behind his back she should have the balls to tell him like I said before so he can improve himself.
OR
Of course there could be another angle no one thought of yet, MAYBE he ALREADY had the logger on there for other reasons, maybe he got kids and wanted to keep an eye on what THEY were doing (was a thread about a young girl not long ago if I remember correctly) OR maybe a lodger/family member that also has access to pc and maybe summit been happening to say his bank records or files etc, FULL story not known, ok feel free to correct me but could be, but either way this logger HAS caught her doing SOMETHING she was/is trying to hide from her partner, NO TRUST NO GOOD !
Steve