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Old 26-03-2005, 05:02 PM
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This is always something that drives me mad when I think about it.

So the question is for the guys, when you meet a girl swap numbers and stuff, how long do you wait to call them? Day? Two days?

And for the girls, when do you like to be called?
Old 26-03-2005, 05:05 PM
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Next day if Im interested pmsl....well that was before I met my fella
Old 26-03-2005, 05:06 PM
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Let them hang on a few days
Old 26-03-2005, 05:23 PM
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1st line of taking precautions, never give a girl your number!
Old 26-03-2005, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Ian3dr
1st line of taking precautions, never give a girl your number!
2nd step tie your feet to the end of the bed! You could be in trouble otherwise!
Old 26-03-2005, 05:49 PM
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keep her waiting for a bit.
Old 26-03-2005, 05:56 PM
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fook that waiting bollox if u like her ring her now..and if u want to bang her deffo ring her asap
Old 26-03-2005, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by ADUSR33
fook that waiting bollox if u like her ring her now..and if u want to bang her deffo ring her asap
Agree with that, altho prehaps I would have worded it slightly more politely lol

Making her wait is the start of playing games, she'll then make you wait yada yada yada....... if you genuinely like her and she genuinely likes you why wait? Of course if you're only interested in getting your leg over then ignore what I said as you're prob used to playing games
Old 26-03-2005, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by SimonT
2nd step tie your feet to the end of the bed!
Ah, that usually happens a few days AFTER you give her your number
Old 26-03-2005, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Clare
Of course if you're only interested in getting your leg over then ignore what I said as you're prob used to playing games
What if the leg over hurdle was already crossed

Thing is you never know, I'm not usually one for playing games, but conversly, you dont want to scare em off either.
Old 26-03-2005, 06:59 PM
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lol best thing is not to ask advice from others, just do what you want theres no right or wrong
Old 26-03-2005, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted by MadMac
Originally Posted by Clare
Of course if you're only interested in getting your leg over then ignore what I said as you're prob used to playing games
What if the leg over hurdle was already crossed

Thing is you never know, I'm not usually one for playing games, but conversly, you dont want to scare em off either.
Ask Oprah, im no relationship expert
Old 26-03-2005, 07:03 PM
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Stu - Think if u do like this girl then why not just ring her up/sent her a nice text. Maybe take her out somewhere in the next few days for a drink...if you decide she actually quite a nice girl then why not extend that drink to have some food aswell You always gotta leave your options open.....If she turns out to be a complete nutcase you can always make a quick exit BUT on the other end of the scale she could turn out to be sensible/nice

If i was you i'd contact her as if she didn't hear from you i reckon she'll get the idea that your are not interested when u clearly are!!!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:08 PM
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Ahhh smitty, can count on you as the voice of reason.

She is a bit of a Keanu Reevs fan from what I gathered.... trip to the movies I think is in order Will give her a bell tomorrow
Old 26-03-2005, 07:22 PM
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I'd give it two days... Ring the next day and you *can* appear to be a bit desperate but leave it three to four days and she might forget abotu ya and/or think your not interested....

Leave it 2days, then give her a bell, tell her you enjoyed *blah blah* and tell her you rang cos yo uwere wondering if she wanted to go out for a drink.something to eat on *such and such*... Then see if she IS a nutcase
Old 26-03-2005, 07:23 PM
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Give the number to your sister and ask her to check her out for you! Saves the hassle then!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:24 PM
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Old 26-03-2005, 07:26 PM
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There are 3 possibilities with that though....

Either she turns out to be a head case so no skin off your nose.....

Or she is ok and you at least get a shag out of her.....

Or your sister decides you're not having her and keeps her for herself!!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:28 PM
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the thing to do is fuck her..

then ignore all her calls / texts...

beware though.. she will....

stalk you at work in the mornings

send you email after email

leave her husband

semd stupid cards with hollyoaks girls on for easter

then as if she doesnt get the message...

she ends up buying sponsering a great white shark for you

best ring her!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
the thing to do is fuck her..

then ignore all her calls / texts...

beware though.. she will....

stalk you at work in the mornings

send you email after email

leave her husband

semd stupid cards with hollyoaks girls on for easter

then as if she doesnt get the message...

she ends up buying sponsering a great white shark for you

best ring her!
Fuck me Dave!!! Got a bit of rabbit stew cooking there I think!! Nutter...
Old 26-03-2005, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
she ends up buying sponsering a great white shark for you
WTF?????

and I thought some of my mates had done some bunny boiling things but that is quality!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:35 PM
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Get this Daz.. for an absolute belter

picture the scene... its my birthday

lashed at work.. this doris (33 year old married) is meant to be taking me out in the city that night for drinks, then a meal and a hotel...

at lunch.. i crack on with a very fit blonde young blonde female collegue whilst out for a 4 hour lunch decide to ignore said 33 year old and go out with the young thing, a mate and her mate.

alls going well.. in the pub, having a good laugh when... guess who turns up behind me , hammering me on the shoulder demanding to know "what the hell is going on"

fast talking and stella dont mix
Old 26-03-2005, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Clare
Originally Posted by DaveEscos
she ends up buying sponsering a great white shark for you
WTF?????

and I thought some of my mates had done some bunny boiling things but that is quality!
his names jonny

i also keep getting texts like " why are you ignoring me..? dont you like the shark? "

Old 26-03-2005, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
Get this Daz.. for an absolute belter

picture the scene... its my birthday

lashed at work.. this doris (33 year old married) is meant to be taking me out in the city that night for drinks, then a meal and a hotel...

at lunch.. i crack on with a very fit blonde young blonde female collegue whilst out for a 4 hour lunch decide to ignore said 33 year old and go out with the young thing, a mate and her mate.

alls going well.. in the pub, having a good laugh when... guess who turns up behind me , hammering me on the shoulder demanding to know "what the hell is going on"

fast talking and stella dont mix
PMSL!! What did the fit young blonde colleague say?

Why did she even turn up? Did she follow you or something?
Old 26-03-2005, 07:39 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
fast talking and stella dont mix
You can say that again
Old 26-03-2005, 07:42 PM
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she was a bit pissed off to say the least.. i had to drag old doris out of the pub and reel off a whole load of crap.

thing is though, once I got rid of her, i went back.. got so shitfaced that i tried to get her and her friend back to a hotel for a 3's up...

which worked.... but as soon as i got in to the room..


i passed out

11 hours drinking.. god damned you vile drink!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
Originally Posted by Clare
Originally Posted by DaveEscos
she ends up buying sponsering a great white shark for you
WTF?????

and I thought some of my mates had done some bunny boiling things but that is quality!
his names jonny

i also keep getting texts like " why are you ignoring me..? dont you like the shark? "

The womans fooking mental. I thought I got invoved with fruit cakes...
Old 26-03-2005, 07:45 PM
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wait.. ill try to post a pic of the fooking card i received through the post from her today!...............
Old 26-03-2005, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
which worked.... but as soon as i got in to the room..
Fucking no!

Was young bint slightly dissapointed? I bet she wasn't a dissapointed as you the following morning!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:51 PM
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daz, thats nothing.. a mate and I went to diamonds and pearls (the FILTHYEST lapdancing club) in the city

managed to pull two of them and go back to their house in surrey...

we get back.. out comes the vodka and charlie... so we get seriously stuck in..

next thing, i wake up the next morning, on the sofa, fully dressed, apparently I passed out and my mate went running out looking for the milkman around 4am and never returned!

what a WASTE!
Old 26-03-2005, 07:58 PM
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ok here are the card(S)

I mentioned ONCE that my ideal bintage would be the entire hollyoaks female list minus the bog fat ginger one and that gobby zara

think she took it a bit too strongly!

this is the easter card HOME MADE








and i found this, it was the valentines card she sent... another fooking hollyoaks girl on it






i rest my case
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My god
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She has well and truely got your rabbit cooked mate!!!
She has even excluded that gobby Zara bint as well! She is trying!

Are you sure she isn't obsessed? My ex became obsessed and started do wierd shit like that and threatening suicide amongst other shit. I can be doing with out that shit!
Old 26-03-2005, 08:15 PM
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scary
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fuckin ell dave, not sure what worse.....her sending them or you posting them on the net u coont
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got to prove it ! its so unfeckin'believable
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aye i would have struggled to believe it until seein that - thought you would rather have a shark than a bunch of flowers delivered.....



OH MY GOOD GOD....WTF
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told you... NUTjob!

still... at least I have a shark!
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why not sponser the shark to eat her
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Originally Posted by DaveEscos
i also keep getting texts like " why are you ignoring me..? dont you like the shark? "

That is quite possibly the funniest thing i've ever read

P.S. MadMac last one I met in a club I rang her on the way home pissed out of my tree still The problem is the ones who like that turn out to be obsessive ones who go nuts if you don't reply to a text immediatedly and start asking "whats wrong?? Why you ignoring me??"

Silly bints


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