Pardeep

Ok with all that happened last week. Check this out

Spoke to Sinead yesterday for the first time since last week and she said despite everything that's happened she still wants to be around me at uni. So i've turned around and said that i don't think its a good idea that we spend as much time as we once did. So she kept trying to persuade me and i stood my ground this time and kept saying it wasn't a good idea....

to a point where she then says 'Fine, i'm not coming to Uni, i'm emailing them that i won't be attending'

Now i don't know if shes being serious but i don't see why she'd want to give her career up for the fact i said it wasn't a good idea to be around each other at uni. I was (when we were a couple) looking forward to having her at uni but this past week i really can't be bothered if she is. But ain't this emotional blackmail to make me feel like shit if she gives everything up because i said its not a good idea to be around each other at uni???

Robs Frst

Sounds like a attention seeker.

Ebonycossie4x4

iTrader: (4)

id just say fair enough and get on with youre life!

GribbiN

Pardeep

She had my attention 100% of the time. Not this time round. If she does it then she can go and work some lame ass 9 to 5 job rather than being a midwife like she wants to be.

tabetha

Just look after yourself, she's not your responsibility, old enough to make her own choice.
tabetha

Less.

Emontional blackmail,just live your life and enjoy uni try and forget about her,if she not wanna go to uni thats her problem not yours

Pardeep

Damn Right. That's what she wants from me, she said she wants me to look after her at uni. As this is my 2nd year, i'm in for a stressful year with projects and coursework.

Pardeep

But its the kids im worried about. I don't want her throwing everything away because i'm being a bit of a cunt about it.

Less.

Shes just beinga cunt and trying to blackmail she probaly still go,just wnats to be the centre of your attention

Fil

She will probably end up better off in the 9 - 5 job in the long run anyways

GTi-R23

Bro's before ho's mate, you need to look after number 1, second year at uni is seriously important and needs your full commitment.

Play your own game, you can't control what she makes the kids think you've done or not done, so just try to put that out of your mind. Anyone that uses kids as any kind of weapon in any relationship isn't worth being with anyway.

Ebonycossie4x4

iTrader: (4)

LMAO

Less.

The kids will be okay and there not your problem unless their yours

-beefy-

iTrader: (6)

fuck her - its that simple ,

look after yourself , shes after the attention , they always are ,



i split from an ex few years ago and all the time i chased she wasnt intrested, the moment i gave up on got on with it , she was ringing me all the time


she dont want to go thats her decision


beef

littleknocks

Do you think that?

Or is that her opinion?

Either way, its a shit test, if your done then your done. Just tell her to stop being so petty and fuck your way through uni

Pardeep

Its my opinion. But its one i'm sticking to cos i'm for once gonna be a selfish cunt

Mrs T

blackmail for you to back down, sounds like she has thought about things and wants u with her 100% or nothing at all, or she dont wanna see you around other girls

1971dommo

move on m8!u gotta luk afta no.1.gud luck anyway

littleknocks

Maybe its just poor wording, but why do you think your being a cunt about it though?

If you dont wanna knock about with her, fair enough

Jim Galbally

youre doing NOTHING wrong, tbh i wouldnt even entertain talk to her at all any more, its her problem not yours.

she's made her CHOICE now she has to live with the consequences, simple

Ciderwoman

as i woman im sorry 2 say that yeah it seems she is blackmailing u, sum woman really give the rest of us a bad name. at the end of the dy its her life and if shes guna be petty n drop out of uni to make a pont then she really aint worth it.

all the best

utternutter

phone her up apologise arrange to meet her for a drink, stick it up her ringo bent over the bonnet of your car then tell her to grow up

saph4be

tell her to fuck off and get over it ffs

Chip

iTrader: (3)

ignore her and stop talking to her, let her do whatever she wants its not your responsibility.

Pob

[quote=GTi-R23;4379716]Bro's before ho's mate, quote]

ages since i heard that.

I wouldn't even speak to her personally. Its always a bad idea talking to ex's. ^^ other people's advice futher up, says it all.
(unless you can do her up the stink pipe to get your own back)

fuzzy

tell her to fuck off and point her in the direction of the dole office.

kosman

xr-stu

so glad im single

Rich_bloor

is this the bird that went behind your back?
if so, fuck her off !!! if shes done it once, she will do it again, they're all the same m8 !!!

DanRSturbo

Tell her you new girlfriends don't appreciate the stress your under. Uni is such a pussy department

dojj

iTrader: (3)

it's been around longer than transformers mate

back to the op

to quote homer jay simpson "you tried your best and failed miserably, the moral here is never try"

Rcjm88

Snakes with tits!

Pardeep

She won't be happy that i've met 2 women since

Cos i always put her and the kids 1st

Well it turns out she didn't as there is another 7/9 people involved. I've been wondering why her mates haven't come to the house for the last month and a bit. Something has happened between them according to one of her friends i'm close to. 1 of the 7 girls that normally come buy the house is now shagging the kids dad and him being a total cunt has filled up one of their heads with shit making Sinead look real bad. When he was the one that became a coke head and woman beater. So 7/9 of them decided it was time to ruin mine and Sinead's relationship. But i'm at the point where i don't know whats going on and Sinead isn't helping it. I just want to be left alone.

Forget Uni birds. Clamidia infected slut bags

I have so far met the sister of a woman that works with my eldest brother and a half spanish/romanian girl that is a little taller than me but doesn't matter as they are all the same size when they are on their back

Benni

It's all a big game to Woman. Don't play it.

Benni.

st3v3

tell her "thats her choice and go for it, it thats what she want"

then walk away,never look back.

Psycho Warren

iTrader: (5)

If shes that much of a dumb fuck to throw away her degree over something like this then shes the fool!!

Mk1-stu

Sounds to me like maybe she just wants to keep tabs on you fella - if she can't be happy why should you be ?!

I have come to realise that many people, if they realise they've fucked up, will jump to blackmail of sorts.

You need to decide for yourself if you can deal with seeing her etc at uni.

The main thing that pisses me off though, is why they have to hide it. If you lose interest in someone, why not just tell them ? a chat about it may be uncomfortable but atleast everyone knows where they stand.

jammerrs

and yep, centre of attetion and black mail

nail the uni birds

89xr2

What's this all about then, i go to italy for a week and miss all the gossip.