Ok with all that happened last week. Check this out

Spoke to Sinead yesterday for the first time since last week and she said despite everything that's happened she still wants to be around me at uni. So i've turned around and said that i don't think its a good idea that we spend as much time as we once did. So she kept trying to persuade me and i stood my ground this time and kept saying it wasn't a good idea....

to a point where she then says 'Fine, i'm not coming to Uni, i'm emailing them that i won't be attending'

Now i don't know if shes being serious but i don't see why she'd want to give her career up for the fact i said it wasn't a good idea to be around each other at uni. I was (when we were a couple) looking forward to having her at uni but this past week i really can't be bothered if she is. But ain't this emotional blackmail to make me feel like shit if she gives everything up because i said its not a good idea to be around each other at uni???