The Sludge

dumb question here but hey ho nowt else better to do

BUT can anyone define the true meaning of love, what you feel what you
should fee ie depression without that person, tearful etc when they aint around,

and what maybe you shouldnt feel ie maybe jealousy and is that a natural thing or just possessiveness?

Im just curious cos we all have parents and we love em, but in a relationship which is different either past present or future what should you be experiencing

what ya views?

Neil@FastFord

When it comes to birds, true love for me is dry bumming....on tap!


Without saying thanks!

The Sludge

Graceland

It used to be swallowing and smiling at the same time, oh how things have changed

mechanic28

iTrader: (5)

being allowed to watch footie and cricket without any moaning

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

you are expecting allot there

mechanic28

iTrader: (5)

true love has no limits !

AlexF

You go to bed thinking about them.

Then, you wake up in the morning and think of them.



Alex

lardypants

many years ago i was head over heels in love with a bird, as said constantly on mind, worrying, passionate feelings, jelousy and all that bollox, she turned out to be a slapper it fooking killed me, took ages to get over her, ever since then its changed me i feel ill never love a women the same funny really but in a way she really did ruin my life, i must ad ive been happily married for 7 years with 2 kids, but i feel if we split up id cope easily so i spose you could argue the toss did she do me a favour and tought me a lesson or did she permantly scar me, fooked if i know and i dont really care as i love my wife to bits, but its a different love

Stavros

Was that his rules when you two were together?

Neil@FastFord

Stav- This is a thread about love!....not jealousy

Stavros

and it was just lust between you two anyhow

KSA-Cossie

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Looking her dead in the eye as she comes without laughing at the faces she pulls.

Turbocabbie

holding your child and being comfortable in the knowledge that their life is more important than your own.

TrevCos

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Getting a quality ironed shirt.

Ginge !

you will never now the TRUE meaning of love until you been with her over 3 years and got 25 quid in your bank account and theres 2 weeks till you get paied and shes asked for her nails to be done

true love means you will go to work with salmon paste sandwiches

friendship from a relationship means you split it 50/50

living with someone cause you feel you cant get any better means you fetta cheese and sundried tomato toasted ciabattas for 2 weeks

that aint a piss take either,,, be in that positon and see what you choose !!!!

Ginge !

you will never now the TRUE meaning of love until you been with her over 3 years and got 25 quid in your bank account and theres 2 weeks till you get paied and shes asked for her nails to be done

true love means you will go to work with salmon paste sandwiches

friendship from a relationship means you split it 50/50

living with someone cause you feel you cant get any better means you got fetta cheese and sundried tomato toasted ciabattas for 2 weeks

that aint a piss take either,,, be in that positon and see what you choose !!!!

Graceland

pollocks

as alex says going to bed thinking about them and wake up thinking about them smile when ever you do think about them miss them when apart

never run out of things to say or do its an amazing thing really and them that doubt it aint been there

you'd give anything for them etc

Ginge !

sorry mate but thats wrong !!!

you do that about anything new and exciting,,, its far from love mate

when you got a new car you felt the same way,,, after 2 years,,,, was it the same,,,,, NOPE as the interest has gone

you will NEVER know if its love or not untill you been with her 3 years,,, its a hormone or something chemical in the brain tht confuses you and traps you

hell i felt like that when i job a job working at ford,,,,, i loved working there,,, yet after a year i realised after the hype went that it wasnt all that

hell ive felt the same way about a fucking CD

Jimboxr4x4

I reckon its spot on what Ginge is saying. He's right about the hormone that only lasts a couple of years.

Not sure if is normal though!

saphlover

So its not just my Mrs that does that

PeterD

My grandparents have been married 50 odd years, my grandmother is riddled with arthritis and this made her drop a plate not so long ago. My grandfather bent over and cleaned it up for her, he's riddled with arthritis too.

Thats love personified

basty

i can't give you many things that are true love..
but from my experience with the bird im still with, nine out of ten it isnt true love..

she lives with me she doesn't work , sleeps till 12 don't wanne get up for the kid (i have a gas station and i live upstairs so i watch the kid till she gets up), etc etc

she said you work to much i said her: you want clothes flatscreens nails hair done twice a week so yeah i have to work 45 to 50 houres a week + i got a few cars a kid fixings to the house and bills and you don't have work ? that aint fair ..

and so on she cheated twice on me dates with guys going out on her own ,....

want more of this shit i'm in ?

but on the other half sometimes she is so sweet thats why i love her

you have to say for yourself whats true love 4 yourself and how you want your life
as ginge! said 50/50 !!! thats fair

i love her but sometimes i hate her!
but then she said we are made for each other she won't go away becuase she loves me

we are going to get happy in the future ... butt when? when i am all sick off this..

enough said !

kosman

kick her out you soft sod,she's taking the piss royally!