There was an interesting thread on a vauxhall forum i use posted a couple of days ago, a guy was being offered a 3some by his mrs for his birthday and was wondering if he should take her up on it or not based on not wanting to risk his relationship with her if things went wrong.

He got pretty mixed replies on there, so just wondered what people on here would have suggested?

If you have had a 3some did it effect your relationship? if so for better or worse?

If you havent, would you do so?

 

Cup-of-tea and Hob-nobs time, I think!!

This could be interesting!!

I thought you had some experience of this, Chip?

 

no bloody chance

i don't fancy being spit-roasted

 

 

Loads mate, in fact thats how i met my current bird, lol

Its always been a positive thing for me personally, but just interested in the opinions of others?

 

Pics or STFU!!

 

Well if you change your mind, the offer is still there .

 

I was kind of meaning MFF 3some as thats what the post in question was about.

But thanks for the mental image

 

in a serious relationship.. a 3some could have nasty reprisements........



but if you're single (or not in a serious relationship)

3somes are soooo fooking cool!

 

WTF? Rainbird, is there something you aren't telling us??

 

I meant specifically with a partner.


If its just a couple of random birds then its a no-brainer!

 

Only for you bigboy

 

I thought he reguarly made it obvious

 

Well, yes, but I have always taken it as jest, but I'm now beginning to worry about Mike's unhealthy interest in watching our young Mechanic at work.

 

GET A ROOM

 

I'm saying nothing








I'm sure as long as everyone knows the score, and knows it really is just sex, then no problem. If you have a secure enough relationship, then you should be able to do it, talk about it, and then decide together whether it happens again or not.

 

They tried, but it had been "defaced" by someone


http://sticker.paul.wasarrested.com/ps

 

3some's with someone you have a serious relationship are a bad deal in my opinion.
I think it's OK if it's with someone who's in it just for the sex and you are too, but when u start mixing 3some's and people you have feelings for it can very quickly become a road to disaster...

 

An old friend of mine met his wife at a threesome. Shame he was engaged to the other girl beforehand though. Still together now though, ten years on.

Deffo not my bag though!

One bloke is enough. Why would anyone want two?!

 

I disagree totally but only in the circumstances of:

Your partner WANTS the 3some too and enjoys it, not just "does it for you"

You both are aware that its the other one you are actually in love with and the third person is just a toy to use as part of your love life (like a dildo might be or handcuffs etc)

The third person is aware of the fact they are indeed just that, and not goign to get told you love them etc

 

Im married and I dont think I would do it. Dont think I'd take the risk of it ruining my marriage for 1 night of fun.

But as the guys said if I was unattached and with some bird I wasnt really
worried about , deffo !!

 

3sums are fine in a relationship.

You just dont let your mrs find out

 

 

 

 

seconded.

When I was banging my bird (now ex ) I should have asked her to get her mate round - I reckon she would have done it too

 

OMG
i never done this but my ex was Bi and tried everthing with the best mate (man ) exept penertion even to the point of showing his partner how to BJ him and a night with just her
I was not with her at anytime THIS HAPPENED and her thought were no to 3sums unless you dont love the person you are with
that was her thought and i cant say anymore as i never been there done it
but if i did would have to be Two girls as and not the back

 

I agree with what you say Chip, but the problem is sometimes things change AFTER...

 

 

PS

I forgot to say why the thread was deleted on the vuaxhall forum.........




























Her dad uses the site too

 

 

Now that's funny What a way to find out...

 

 

My ex suggested another girl joining in with us, however, every bird I suggested got turned down. Why put the idea in my head if your're just going to quash all possible chances of it

 

As I am in a relationship my responce is no.

 

recipe for disaster imo!

Some funny replies though

 

Its WITH your partner from that relationship the question is directed at!

 

I would of been game with the ex, another bloke or a girl I reckon, if that's what she always wanted. Most girls like the thought of two stiff one's up them just like blokes thinking about 2 pussy's on them

 

2 dorises chomping on your old boy then kissing... it doesnt get much better than that to be fair

dont expect to hold your load in for long though!

BANG!


GO WEB GO!

 

my misses is very open minded and fancied her best mate in newcastle before i moved her down here to london.

and she has always said that she would like another girl to join us.
it really turns her on to think of me with a girl, or just her and a girl mucking about with each other.

but im not sure what would actually happen if it came to it. i rekon she would have to be rather drunk and she would end up in the bedroom.

but i also dunno what would happen after.
im sure the "did u want here more than me" questions would start.