Originally Posted by chip-3door
Originally Posted by PauloV8
3some's with someone you have a serious relationship are a bad deal in my opinion.
I think it's OK if it's with someone who's in it just for the sex and you are too, but when u start mixing 3some's and people you have feelings for it can very quickly become a road to disaster...
I disagree totally but only in the circumstances of:
Your partner WANTS the 3some too and enjoys it, not just "does it for you"
You both are aware that its the other one you are actually in love with and the third person is just a toy to use as part of your love life (like a dildo might be or handcuffs etc)
The third person is aware of the fact they are indeed just that, and not goign to get told you love them etc
I agree with what you say Chip, but the problem is sometimes things change AFTER...