Are you simply happy with someone you just get on with or do they have to meet with a certain criteria?

Reason I ask is I've just been talking with a lass I know. She's 28, well educated and in a good job. She's not long split up with her fella who was university educated and a PE teacher at a local high school.
She went out on a date with a mate of mine who's but a mere postman and they got on really well. But she turned round to me tonight and said there's no future in it because they're ultimately different intellects and she wants someone on her level......... She's a proper fitty too!

I think if two people get on what the hell, go for it!

 

as long as shes good at noshing mate go for it

 

I could never go out with a stupid bird, no matter how fit she was.

There has to be sexual attraction, but there really has to be intellectual attraction too. I still fancy my wife after being with each other for over 12 years, but she's also my best mate as we get on so well. If she was a thicky it wouldn't have lasted a week.

 

tbh mate , if shes got big tits and can put up with me im onto a winner ,


hence why the current missus could be the one lol


ohh and her ever growing obsession of buying me car parts helps her case lol

beef

 

You can't wank over someone's personality. But at the same time, you can't sit and think of the good times over looks alone. Personality is important, and so are looks. I don't care what anyone says, if there isn't a personal attraction then it's not going to work, and people are kidding themselves.

She could have the best personality in the world, but when you walk her up the aisle, you want to look at what you percieve to be the most beautiful looking woman in the world. I like a woman who can make me laugh, isn't up herslef and knows how to have a good time.
Benni.

 

bad boy rs, I ain't going 'there' fella!

DanW@FastFord, I agree, but it's simply a case of her being a 'snob' in my opinion. If two people do actually just get on, regardless of education or career path, then why not I say!

-beefy-, any woman that can keep you satisfied deserves a medal!!!!!!!!!!

 

FPMSL at that

i go out with a girl alot cleverer than me, fair bit richer too. to me thats not a problem, dont seem to be for her either

we have a strong friendship and sexual attraction which have to be the main parts of making a relationship work, unless there snobby or up them selves etc....

just to add, usually i am friends with a person before i get into a relationship but the majority of my friends (the female ones) i find attractive if that makes a difference

 

tbh mate , i think its one of them things were if two folk click , then the other things dont matter ,

yea looks and values ect are all good and help the longevity of a relationship ,

my missus loves me for me , my personality ( as u know ) is one of a kind lol and she loves my oddball attitude to life ect , that and a good sex life lol

also for me , she helped me thru the reecent death of my father last year , she put up with my mood swings , me being distant , the greif ,the anger ect ,

not once did she pressure me , or complain ect ,

lol the more i think about her the more i relaise just what she means to me



beef

 

Cool. Do ya reckon you could be mates with a burd you don't find attractive???



Sir, you are a LEGEND! Any lass that can keep you occupied I'd love to meet!!!

 

im friends with only a hand full of girls i dont find attractive, but they are friends of friends sort of things if you get me

i wonder why that is

 

get yaself up the boro for a night out then lol

 

Simples. You can only really be friends with girls you find attractive. It's a man thing innit!

 

That fills me with fear bro!!! I'm hoping to make it to central day if you're going again?

 

i look for the urge to drop their pants or wear none on the first date (female obviously)

HTH

 

+

 

 

yeah , prepare for a serious lack of sleep again matey







afpmsl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111



quality :go d:

 

^^^^^

As long as she can suck a golf ball through a hose pipe im happy


We fuckin wish

 

In seriousness it sounds as if she wasn't attracted to the guy but just made the most of the night with no intention of meeting again.

 

two words GHETTO BOOTY!

 

in my view there firstly as to be a sexual attraction then personality for me.

 

as you can tell i went the other way round < real tears

 

i was lieing anyway...in all honesty id fuck owt wearing a G-string..

 

There has to be, surely? 'Hey lads, look at that fat bird there, I'm gonna' go on over and see if she has a nice personality'. Let's be honest, it doesn't work like that.

Benni.

 

but your lass dunt wear g-strings?

 

benni of course its the male thing that makes you talk to a sexualy attractive bird and then it all goes from there through talking and taking things further.

then usually 3-4 days down the line you find out youve got a STD off the slag.....lol

 

depends which lass your on about ..ROFL...

 

*thinks back to taybarns*

 

you know they both wanted a grafton sandwich....

 

I cant actually understand how you can have any sexual attraction to a thick bird? They make me angry in mere minutes.

 

My birds big tits did it for me,but,she is very clever too.

 

Pics or STFU

 

Ask stu he's seen her lol. 38f.

 

pretty much same 38FF which didn't hit the knees, along with been bi nothing else mattered, turns out she was a good all rounder then once i did get to know her

 

Gotta be a keeper lol.

 

I picked my wife cause she was pretty a nice body was really nice to talk to and was funny. I always said i would never get married but she changed how i thought. I love her to bits. I hope you find a nice bird fella.

 

I assume she is blind then

 

Not seen the word Love in any of the replies, most of what i read is falling in Lust a different thing. Lust wont last & most relationships prove that.
My Missus was simply the nicest person i have ever met & also very attractive & I fell in Love with her, its still the same nearly 40 years later. When you are young you cant imagine that most of your lifetime wont be a Tesostorone driven sex fest & that you need something in a relationship that outlasts that.

 

No , my wife not yours.

 

You look like a part of the ex-group called Busted