JAP CRAP

need to book a holiday to the carribean asap. anyone know of any REALLY good deals at the mo?? or who are the best to get deals with.

cheers

Mike Rainbird

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So let's get this straight, you can afford a Carribean holiday, but can't scrape together the £200 to go to the 'Ring - WTF ?

JAP CRAP

might have known you'd be first to reply. This is going on the credit card, which if need be will be paid off by ..............the cossie

last ditch attempt to save my relationship with my ex


anyone??

justin.e

if she needs money spent on to save then she aint worth saving

Stavros

dont be so fookin daft chesney, if you need to do this to keep a bird she aint worth keeping IMO

fuck carribean off and go with a load of mates to Malia, foookin millions of fit sluts out there, job done, youdve forgot your ex existed by time you get back

JAP CRAP

na, its not like that at all. difficult to explain. needless to say, she is 'the one and only'

Stavros

you been listening to too many of your own cheesey love songs mate

i dont know the whole story, but this soo sounds like a recipee for someone getting back together for a bit and then it still fucking up in the near future...

Cola

Well said that man

I got a Cancun all inclusive holiday for just over 500 quid from Last Minute.

justin.e

bang on Steve

JAP CRAP

possibly. its deffo worth trying though. She was a perfect girlfriend and we have a daughter together, I was a wanker, cheated on her so we split up, I did fuck all to get her back because I always thought we just would eventually now she's decided shes happy as she is now and wont get back with me and doesnt want to see me and she means it I just need her to spend some time with me somewhere where theres no stress etc try and win her back and make up for being a complete cunt for the last year .

cheers cola, will have a look

Phil

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Make sure you get cancellation insurance for when she says no then

Best of luck mate

JAP CRAP

thought had crossed my mind Phil

cheers mate

RSKim

As Cola says longhaul and far away places Lastminute.com are the best by far

JAP CRAP

thanks hun

Daveyboy

at the time, i found ebookers to be cheapest for flights to both Thailand & Australia. Flew to both with no problems.... might just be luck of the draw though

Mike Rainbird

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Well she got something right - you are a useless fucking wanker . Knowing what a tart you are, she doesn't deserve to be lumbered with you . You'll soon fuck her over when the next tart comes along with open legs . Personally I feel sorry for your daughter, as you seem to make no effort to be part of her life, and father-hood isn't some part time thing when you want it to be .

Cola

Don't mix your words Mike, why don't you come straight out with it lol

Daveyboy

he did... he wasnt even talking to me and I shat my pants

Smit

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Dom - I'm agreeing on what you've just admitted.

You have been a complete wanker to Jen since Mia has been born.....And to be honest if any girl with some sense was in her situation they would do exactly the same. When Jen was staying at yours trying to be a good mum with your newly born Daughter you were just going out with all us lot and just getting pissed like any other night out

You have to calm down and reality has to hit home. A 2k expensive holiday to a sunny carribean resort would not pull the wool over her eyes IMO.

You have got to prove to her that you have changed from being the complete wanker and useless dad you have been for the past year.

There is only one way you'll do that...............

Selling that Contraption on the driveway, and start being a caring dad!

FACT.

AndyGranger

you were just going out with all us lot and just getting pissed like any other night out



So it,s your fault then
Perfect excuse to use peer pressure from your mates to go out
Excuse no:106

Smit

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Andy - Don't encourage him

AndyGranger

I,m not encouraging him
I fear i will be in the same situation soon if Donna does,nt relax her purse strings very soon

warleydaddy

Bloody hell some strong stuff on this thread aint there?!??!

Pete...

Physio

Smit

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I'm not trying to come across all forceful and one way.....Dom does have a soft side when it comes to Mias and Jens well being (Remember the time about their accomidation (sp) when he did cause a scene and it got it ressolved)

I know when Mia has came down with Jen to see Dom he has put the effort into spending time with them both. I just can't see him changing from the life style that he has been used to hanging around with friends who have very expensive tastes in clothes/going out. I would like him to prove me wrong

Don't get me wrong Dom as it's not my place to butt in and cause uproar i'm just telling it striaght. Jen loved you badly when you guys were together. I know you've tried a few times to try and work things out as responsible parents but it didn't work out when you guys were actually living together at yours. Don't want to know the reasons as it's not my place to ask.

To get Jen back you have goto prove to her and your Daughter that you are willing to pull out all the stops to try and make a family together this time. I've been friends with you Dom for a long time now and till recently have not known what looking after a child involves.

Tonight i've been made single after 4 months by Charlotte. I'm gutted I really got on well with her and her 22month old daughter Abbie. A good mother always puts her child first, FACT. I for one knew this and wasn't trying to taking a relationship where it was either me or Abbie....As i would loose. She looked towards the future and didn't see a complication like me worth the hassle. Her ex bloke was contantly giving me grief over being there and i don't think it done Abbie any good at all. So i'm not going to argue her decision or the fact she has put her daughters well being first and she doesn't need the complications in her life at such a young age.

If you still want Jen back Dom prove it to her.

Sure when you do she will come back with open arms

Good luck Pal

saff_cossie

Sorry to hear that mate.
Good words there that could help anyone

Smit

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Thanks.

Lets hope Dom thinks the same

Rossco

Dom make every effort you can to try and sort things out, if Mia was mine i would not be wanting to miss out on her growing up and Jen is a cracking bird, good luck mate

Phil

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Dom, price up the holiday including all expenses, and stick it in a savings account that only the mother has access to, to help send the kid to a decent school or something like that

NathR

Dom, as I said on Friday, best of luck mate.

Phil, not a bad idea at all!

JAP CRAP

taken all your comments on board, thanks

sorry to hear about you and charlotte, smit.

its tough, i've been a complete state over the last week or so, barely managing to eat a meal a day, being sick when I think about her not coming back to me and being with someone else and all the other things that happen when your rock bottom....

I realise its 99% my fault, it all just happened so fast, I was only just 20 when I found out Jen was pregnant and totally not ready. I just needed a break from it all to go back to my old life for a bit but now I realise it wasnt that great, well not compared to what I had with Jen. tbh, I think its too late, I think she's made up her mind, im going to give it my best shot, if she still says no, im gona be completely lost


Mike, its so easy for you to say. You have NO money worries, except your running out of rooms to keep it all in, your what, 45, 50 now? so your life is basically over so your not missing out on anything; you KNOW you cant get anyone else and were damn lucky to find your Jen so thats why your totally happy

Smit

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You can only give it your best shot Dom. If u really want it to work this time you've gotta prove it to her once and for all by pulling out all the stops. Think i've only spoke to Jen a handfull of times but is always nice when we have a conversation.

If you really want her back that much you will surprise yourself

Deano

If she doesnt want you back then just accept it ..........

HOWEVER make sure your part of your Daughters life because if you dont , One day in 16/18 yrs youll get a knock on the door and stood there will be a young woman full of resentment as to why your not part of her life and didnt make an effort to be a father when she needed you and your relationship will never be the same again

JAP CRAP

well, she didnt even want to know, its just gone to far for her now I guess. I'd give anything to have a time machine but thats life I'll get over it one day, incidently, I pulled about 2 minutes after id left her house

Deano, I do see her quite often mate and will continue to do so. right now though she's a huge reminder of what I have lost and how things should have been plus I'm never gona see her as much as I'd like to as she lives an hour and a quarter away

thanks again for your comments everyone on here.

Rossco

That sucks mate, you never now time changes people