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Old 22-03-2005, 08:35 AM
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OOOOOHHHHH shit am i in troubble!
i went out friday and had quite a few to drink... as you do.. anyway my mates on/off girlfriend was out... i get on with her quite well so we were chatting and i bought her a coupple of drinks. (bear in mind my mate wasnt out)
anyway we started dancing and the next thing i know were kissing!

in the end she came back to my house.... i didnt fuck her but we certainly did more than just kiss.

Now most of my other mates know about this as they were all out.. however i dont think anyone would of told him about it.
all seemed well over the weekend.. no calls or death threats...
Then this morning i wake up to this text.

"Your walking a fine fucking line boy. If what ive heard is true, youve got a serious amount of explaining to do, i expect a phone call when you read this text.."

Now ive tried ringing but he hasnt answered yet! so what the fuck do i tell him!
bearing in mind i havent a clue how he knows...
i could
1) deny all knolledge..
2)say i only kissed her, say how sorry i am it should of never happened etc etc
3) tell him everything (i dont think he will be toooooo happy with the cold hard truth though
4) tell him something else... (suggestions welcome.. )
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Old 22-03-2005, 08:40 AM
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what will she tell him thou
Old 22-03-2005, 08:42 AM
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i dont know.. if shes got any dignity at all she wont have told him anything dirty hoe
Old 22-03-2005, 08:42 AM
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Tell the truth like a man and explain how it happened and how you feel. If everyone else saw you then you HAVE to tell the truth.

Good Luck matey
Old 22-03-2005, 08:42 AM
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CabrioTurbo,
"Your walking a fine fucking line boy. If what ive heard is true, youve got a serious amount of explaining to do, i expect a phone call when you read this text.."
Cool text man... but not really aggressive enough for your crimes
Old 22-03-2005, 08:43 AM
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you say on/off g/f

so was it on or off at the time lol??

if it was off, say fukk ya mate, she deserves some one better, and hint at yourself...

which every line you take, hes gonna be pissed so will end up either,

a. dead

b. badly beaten

c. nearly dead

which ever of the above you choose, maybe you should carry some protection, and i dont mean durex incase you bump into the said female again
Old 22-03-2005, 08:46 AM
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Wow, what a nice mate you are...
Old 22-03-2005, 08:47 AM
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always tell the truth

or lie and say you shagged her brains out and loved every second it, especially the tounge trick
Old 22-03-2005, 08:48 AM
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Nice mate you are..
yes and its not the first time i think i must have a thing about girls that are 'inaccessable' BUT this time i didnt go chasing it! it came pretty much begging

you say on/off g/f

so was it on or off at the time lol??
he had fucked her the week before

hes a copper too so i really dont want to fall out with him!
Old 22-03-2005, 08:48 AM
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i didnt fuck her
Y not!?

I would say yea I pulled her(just kiss) & blame it on obscene amounts of alcohol!
Old 22-03-2005, 08:49 AM
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sone pics may justify his actions tho
Old 22-03-2005, 08:50 AM
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sone pics may justify his actions tho
God i wish i had a pic to post she is FIT FIT SUPER FIT
i wouldnt of done it otherwise! lol
Old 22-03-2005, 08:51 AM
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Just say you kissed her but you were drunk and didn't mean to

We've all been there before, well most of use He'll understand
Old 22-03-2005, 08:51 AM
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fair play then, i say shes fair game if hes fucking her about

get some pics up
Old 22-03-2005, 08:52 AM
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nice friend

i think u shud be totally honest and take the consequences for ur actions, whether they were on a break or not u still overstepped the line

x x x
Old 22-03-2005, 08:53 AM
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bah, wasnt his wife

tell him the truth, tell him you was ratt assed, dont tell him u took her home tho ffs
Old 22-03-2005, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by RS_Rawli
bah, wasnt his wife

tell him the truth, tell him you was ratt assed, dont tell him u took her home tho ffs


depends wot the bird has told him tho, if he lies cud get into more shit lol

x x x
Old 22-03-2005, 08:58 AM
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Either way, i think you may be in bother. Best off telling the truth. things like this have a habit of re-surfacing months down the line and you wont be able to remember what you said
Old 22-03-2005, 08:59 AM
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yeah, acutally, ring him tell him youve been in hospital with alcoholic poisoning , you got spiked too and cant remmeber a thing
Old 22-03-2005, 09:00 AM
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This is y u dont dabble with firends birds lol! to complicated!

unless obviously u have been given the all clear!

as i often say to my m8s yup finsihed with her now feel free to have a go!
Old 22-03-2005, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted by B19-TRB
This is y u dont dabble with firends birds lol! to complicated!

unless obviously u have been given the all clear!

as i often say to my m8s yup finsihed with her now feel free to have a go!
pmsl wow ur so generous to ur mates

or is that they r dogs

Old 22-03-2005, 09:05 AM
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alternatively

text him back saying....

"let me know if she is late this month"
Old 22-03-2005, 09:07 AM
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all true it wasn't me to b a true player u have to no how to play pimp my ride u dirty stop out
Old 22-03-2005, 09:11 AM
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I dont sleep with dogs
Old 22-03-2005, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted by B19-TRB
I dont sleep with dogs
pmsl ok i believe u



just a very good friend ay

x x x
Old 22-03-2005, 09:14 AM
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Tell the truth mate, if you lie at any point, it'll come back around and bite you in the arse!!
Old 22-03-2005, 09:15 AM
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There's two sides to every story, she is just as bad for going along with what happened. Best thing to do is just tell the truth.
Old 22-03-2005, 09:17 AM
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Explain to him how you educated her into the shocker and she loved it

Old 22-03-2005, 09:17 AM
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I dont really care if my mates sleep with girls that I have slept with i.e. not a proper g/f!

Wouldnt like any of my m8s to knob a ex!
Old 22-03-2005, 09:24 AM
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If you can trust her, call her and see if she told him, if so chances are she has said everything in the "thought I had better be honest with you" speech.

If it was "off" at the time, where is he coming from? Everyone makes mistakes and as it isnt his wife, try reasoning with him, maybe mention some good times where you have helped him and appologise for your actions.

She may want you though now, bear that in mind as it may not have been her who told him
Old 22-03-2005, 09:26 AM
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my 'mate' did the same to me in 1997 so i chinned him and thats what u fully deserve
Old 22-03-2005, 09:27 AM
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DEFFO need to find out what the bireds told him... RING HER!
Old 22-03-2005, 09:27 AM
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U reap wot u sew mate u should know better.
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Old 22-03-2005, 09:39 AM
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DEFFO need to find out what the bireds told him... RING HER!
i didnt get her number!

i havent had a phone call or a knock at my door yet!

i know i should know better but she is propper fit and i could resist
i think i will try the old im sorry speach first.. and try to find out just what he has been told without giving too much away"!
Old 22-03-2005, 09:40 AM
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dead man walking....
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ask him for her number
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Originally Posted by RS_Rawli
ask him for her number
LMFAO
Old 22-03-2005, 09:47 AM
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ask him for her number
cooooont!
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Have you called your mate to explain yet?

Was she worth all this grief?


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