Problem with mate/ mates girlfriend
22-03-2005, 01:14 PM
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yeah, a lot of my mates have got tidy gfs, but no i wouldnt, its called bein a stand up guy, im also a realist and know i wouldnt get the same level of decency from some of the people i know......... Doesnt meen you have to shit on a friend though does it!!!
Theres plenty of nice girls around why steal your mates, friends gfs are easy targets as normally you will have a lot in common already as friends tend to be pretty similar in a lot of ways....
I just feel this is an all time low.... If they had been split up a while then thats different, but he could at least have the balls to stand by his actions. Makes me laugh when a girl goes off with your mates and then when your stood there confronting them they deny it and pussy out, if that sthe kind of man a woman wants then she can have them
Theres plenty of nice girls around why steal your mates, friends gfs are easy targets as normally you will have a lot in common already as friends tend to be pretty similar in a lot of ways....
I just feel this is an all time low.... If they had been split up a while then thats different, but he could at least have the balls to stand by his actions. Makes me laugh when a girl goes off with your mates and then when your stood there confronting them they deny it and pussy out, if that sthe kind of man a woman wants then she can have them
22-03-2005, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by kay2
........ but no i wouldnt, its called bein a stand up guy, ......... Doesnt meen you have to shit on a friend though does it!!!
22-03-2005, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by cossierich330
Kay2: Was the bird who cheated on you with your mate the bird in your avitar with the large norks? Just out of interest
Well till recently
22-03-2005, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Deano
Originally Posted by kay2
........ but no i wouldnt, its called bein a stand up guy, ......... Doesnt meen you have to shit on a friend though does it!!!
22-03-2005, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by *Anna*
And if they cheat on your mates what make you think she won't cheat on you.
Once a cheat always a cheat!!!
Once a cheat always a cheat!!!
x x x
22-03-2005, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by pauldudley
Originally Posted by JoeRST
Lark at all the "worriers" on this thread....
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
22-03-2005, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by JoeRST
Dirty dirty cow.....
But i like what you did there, the way you used your.....BLAH BLAH
But i like what you did there, the way you used your.....BLAH BLAH
22-03-2005, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by FLO
note to all PF men in the North Wales area......
check with Kay2 before pulling any chick just in case it's his!!
Hit a nerve by any chance you nutter????
check with Kay2 before pulling any chick just in case it's his!!
Hit a nerve by any chance you nutter????
Aint nice though when ya find out yer m8 been knobbin ur mrs behind yer back!
22-03-2005, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by JoeRST
Originally Posted by pauldudley
Originally Posted by JoeRST
Lark at all the "worriers" on this thread....
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
22-03-2005, 03:40 PM
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I wouldnt worry to be honest, but blaming it on the drink is bollocks. All drink does is give you the courage to ask things and do things when/if you get answers or grief you dont like, its the blame it on the drink, blah blah I was pissed blah blah blah.
There was obviously some attraction between this girl and you to get it on. I wouldnt worry about it to be honest. If it was his full time girlfriend then you where wrong but if its just a bit he nails now and again then thats different.
I agree with joe rst about all the warriors
There was obviously some attraction between this girl and you to get it on. I wouldnt worry about it to be honest. If it was his full time girlfriend then you where wrong but if its just a bit he nails now and again then thats different.
I agree with joe rst about all the warriors
22-03-2005, 03:41 PM
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Ive done this loads of times, i have no willpower.
I just deny deny deny, no matter how unbelivable it is, after a while people tend to belive it
No fancy stories or excuses, just "nope, dunno what your on about" over n over
and belive me, ive had plenty of mates bashing on my door on sunday mornings accusing me of getting on ther birds.
this sunday infact was just a text one, a "why was you getting on my ex for you sly cunt"
I just deny deny deny, no matter how unbelivable it is, after a while people tend to belive it
No fancy stories or excuses, just "nope, dunno what your on about" over n over
and belive me, ive had plenty of mates bashing on my door on sunday mornings accusing me of getting on ther birds.
this sunday infact was just a text one, a "why was you getting on my ex for you sly cunt"
22-03-2005, 05:02 PM
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Personally think ur mate lucky.
Lucky he found out what the people arround him r like
She was gonna go out and get laid (or as close as u could manage ) wether it was with u or someone else, so dont think u are something special
And the time ur mate needs u, u will be to busy shagging his misses
Personaly wouldnt bother coming looking for u, and she'd be outa there, neither u worth me fooking my life for and getting put inside
On a different note had another mate who was "aproached" by another of his mates girls, he done right and told her to piss off, then went and told his mate, he didnt want to believe him, and she twisted it to try and make my mate look bad
, my mates friendship was a bit iffy for a couple weeks, but then guess what he caught her with someone else 
, fooked her off and now the other two are best mates with a real strong trust bond. But it was hard for my mate to decide wether to grass on her or not, hoping it was a one off and she wernt just some slapper or tell his mate what he thought. Recon he made the right choice
Steve
Lucky he found out what the people arround him r like
She was gonna go out and get laid (or as close as u could manage
) wether it was with u or someone else, so dont think u are something special And the time ur mate needs u, u will be to busy shagging his misses
Personaly wouldnt bother coming looking for u, and she'd be outa there, neither u worth me fooking my life for and getting put inside
On a different note had another mate who was "aproached" by another of his mates girls, he done right and told her to piss off, then went and told his mate, he didnt want to believe him, and she twisted it to try and make my mate look bad
, my mates friendship was a bit iffy for a couple weeks, but then guess what he caught her with someone else , fooked her off and now the other two are best mates with a real strong trust bond. But it was hard for my mate to decide wether to grass on her or not, hoping it was a one off and she wernt just some slapper or tell his mate what he thought. Recon he made the right choice Steve
22-03-2005, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by pauldudley
Originally Posted by JoeRST
Originally Posted by pauldudley
Originally Posted by JoeRST
Lark at all the "worriers" on this thread....
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
"OW if it were me id of....BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Thing is what if the lad that does it to you for one is a big hard coont....And second you couldnt punch ya way outta a wet paper bag, like most people.....
Who on here, and be totaly honest has really properly been in a REAL fight......Not some swing and hope you hit something sort of fight i mean a real fight......
Just does my head in that people come on saying id stick you in hospital and make youre face look like this and that when in fact if somebody came knocking on ya door giving you some stick you would run and hide behind the sofa like you used to when the johovah witness's used to knock on a sunday morning.......
And as a Martial Arts expert(apparently) you should know it is about control and people who i know who are in the world of martial arts wouldnt be on an internet site trying,attempting,wanting to big up the fact they have x-amount of yrs experiance...
Like my good old dad said, "It's the quite ones you have to worry about"
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22-03-2005, 05:23 PM
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You deffo should have deep shanked the bitch Your gonna get the grief for it anyway 
Just remember how a lot of women work- If she is pissed off with ya mate for some reason, she might tell him everything and even lie a bit too!!
Your gonna get the grief for it anyway Just remember how a lot of women work- If she is pissed off with ya mate for some reason, she might tell him everything and even lie a bit too!!
22-03-2005, 05:30 PM
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i would ask your mate "what he has heard first",then go with what ever he say,(unless its not true and it didnt happen)say sorry that you were both drunk and it wont happen again,and that you hope you both can be adults and not let it spoil your friendship,
But remember to duck as your saying all this
But remember to duck as your saying all this
22-03-2005, 05:32 PM
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Can we have pics when he smashed your face in??? joke btw
Everyone gets tempted at some point, your just not SUPPOSED to cross that line, at least they weren't in a serious relationship before he found out what she was like, supposed he can be thankful for that.......as for you, your in the wrong, least you can do is admit it to him, you can't value his friendship that much else you wudn't of touch his on/off bird with a bargepole, so why bother lying about wat you've done, sounds to me you just dont wana be the bad guy, either that or your only bothered coz he's a copper and can and probably will make your life hell!!!??
joke btwEveryone gets tempted at some point, your just not SUPPOSED to cross that line, at least they weren't in a serious relationship before he found out what she was like, supposed he can be thankful for that.......as for you, your in the wrong, least you can do is admit it to him, you can't value his friendship that much else you wudn't of touch his on/off bird with a bargepole, so why bother lying about wat you've done, sounds to me you just dont wana be the bad guy, either that or your only bothered coz he's a copper and can and probably will make your life hell!!!??
22-03-2005, 05:38 PM
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Tell him that she wouldnt leave you alone and you was just being polite not telling her to fook off, but in the end you had to be blunt and she didnt like it!! Its gotta work!!
22-03-2005, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Itsmeagain
Ive done this loads of times, i have no willpower.
I just deny deny deny, no matter how unbelivable it is, after a while people tend to belive it
No fancy stories or excuses, just "nope, dunno what your on about" over n over
and belive me, ive had plenty of mates bashing on my door on sunday mornings accusing me of getting on ther birds.
this sunday infact was just a text one, a "why was you getting on my ex for you sly ****"
I just deny deny deny, no matter how unbelivable it is, after a while people tend to belive it
No fancy stories or excuses, just "nope, dunno what your on about" over n over
and belive me, ive had plenty of mates bashing on my door on sunday mornings accusing me of getting on ther birds.
this sunday infact was just a text one, a "why was you getting on my ex for you sly ****"
sooooo whats happened then? any calls yet?
22-03-2005, 06:05 PM
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Good luck with this m8, I think you should just own up, he might be pissed at you, but he'll respect you in the long run. If you try and make sommit up, or blag it, there's always the chance of getting caught.
As for getting on a m8's bird, just wrong IMO, I'd never cross that line, even m8's ex birds.
As for getting on a m8's bird, just wrong IMO, I'd never cross that line, even m8's ex birds.
22-03-2005, 06:13 PM
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Be a man about it!
Be honest and straight with your mate and if he smacks you in the mouth so be it, you deserve it, no point hiding behind sorry excuses!
Be honest and straight with your mate and if he smacks you in the mouth so be it, you deserve it, no point hiding behind sorry excuses!
