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Old 27-10-2010, 01:12 PM
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Angry I think I've been mugged off!!

Sorry for the rant people!! Just need to sound off a bit (and hopefully my 'mate' may see this and notice how fucked off I am!!!)

A little while back I had a mondeo for sale which one of my good mates said he wanted as he was having trouble with his car and said he would like to have the car. His only problem was he had just lost his job and was also going through a divorce so he didn't have a pot to piss in. Now I didn't need the money but needed rid of it so seeing as he was a good mate I said just take it and pay me once you're earning again.

He said yes and that he appreciated it. He eventually picked up the car and then said he didn't have any money to tax it so I stuck 6 months rent on it for him and just added it to what he owed me.

Now this was roughly April/may time last year when all this was going on and he now has a permanent full time job and incidentally earning quite a bit more
than I am!!!

So far I have only had a little bit of cash off him despite asking him numerous times to sort me out!! Everytime I ask him all I get is 'well I'm fucking skint aswell! You'll get it next month ok?!!' !!!

Last time we met up he was on about buying a Mondeo ST220!! I think he needs to pay for the one he's got first!!!

Now were not talking thousands, just a few hundred but it really ain't the point!!

I only did this for him as he was a good mate (wouldn't have done otherwise) and up shit creek without a paddle but can't help feeling that he's mugged me off.

Oh well!! I know what to next time someone asks me to help them!!
Old 27-10-2010, 01:16 PM
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I would be soooooooo pi$$ed off with him

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Old 27-10-2010, 01:17 PM
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Its thiner like these when u find out who your mates really are, i had same sort of experience recently, was only 400 notes but still the way i see it was it was a cheap way to find out someones real worth!
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Not good mate.

I did similar a while back with a fiesta i had - my mate wanted it but didnt have the money so we agreed he would pay me monthly - which he did and all was good.

Go round and take something of value to him if he keeps fobbing you off.

Or Slap the cunt
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times even lol
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bang out of order mate
Old 27-10-2010, 01:23 PM
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So its been outstanding since April/May 2009... thats ridiculous mate, I really think you're going to struggle to see that money again. Did you sign the car over to him? If not, report it stolen asap.


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I just feel like he's taking the piss now.

I wouldn't have minded so much if he let me know every now and then that he hasn't forgotten but when I've got to chase all the time just fucking winds me up!!!

I wanna get my engine back asap so could really do with it!
Old 27-10-2010, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by turbocabessex
Its thiner like these when u find out who your mates really are, i had same sort of experience recently, was only 400 notes but still the way i see it was it was a cheap way to find out someones real worth!
exactly
Old 27-10-2010, 01:28 PM
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take his belongings if he is truly mugging you off - bet you will get the money soon then
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Originally Posted by RS Grant
So its been outstanding since April/May 2009... thats ridiculous mate, I really think you're going to struggle to see that money again. Did you sign the car over to him? If not, report it stolen asap.


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Unfortunately I did mate. I couldn't be arsed with all the hassle if he got done for speeding and all that so it seemed the best thing to do.

I really didn't think it would have gone this way!!

Just goes to show I guess!!
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Originally Posted by R4N S S
take his belongings if he is truly mugging you off - bet you will get the money soon then
Thing is mate, he lives fooking miles away from me!!!
Old 27-10-2010, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Kitchen Devil
Unfortunately I did mate. I couldn't be arsed with all the hassle if he got done for speeding and all that so it seemed the best thing to do.

I really didn't think it would have gone this way!!

Just goes to show I guess!!

Being the registered keeper doesn't constitute being the legal owner - they are two totally different things.

Incidentally, it is still your car as he has failed to pay for it. If I were you I'd let him know the amount is due by a specific date, if he fails to pay, go and collect your car.
Old 27-10-2010, 01:40 PM
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been there, done that, twice

number one was a total cunt

number two we have an agreement, i don't need the money, he hasn't got it, not a problem
Old 27-10-2010, 01:44 PM
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His name isnt Lewis by any chance is it.......................

Seriously though, thats a fucking piss take mate......just go and take the car back, easy!!!!!
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I wish I'd just sold the fucker to someone else! I had actually turned others away!! lol!

I guess I learned my lesson the hard way!!

If he didn't live so far from me I would just go up there and have it out with him!!
Old 27-10-2010, 02:24 PM
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cunts trick, but at least you know what he's really like mate
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Well, I sent him a text a few hours ago and he's just replied saying I'll get it next Tuesday.

Hmmmmmmm...........................
Old 27-10-2010, 02:30 PM
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He's not called Chris is he this mate of yours? He sounds exactly like a friend of mine i lent money to in good faith - took me months and months of banging on about it before i saw a penny back!!

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Old 27-10-2010, 02:32 PM
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Sounds like a job for 'REPO MAN' to me take the car back and when he's given you the balance of monies owed, he can have the car back, if he don't burn it


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Old 27-10-2010, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Kitchen Devil
Well, I sent him a text a few hours ago and he's just replied saying I'll get it next Tuesday.

Hmmmmmmm...........................
good luck, keep us all informed.

It's times like these you find out who's a friend, and who's just someone you know
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You did him a favour which he obviously hasn't appreciated....lesson learnt i guess
Secondly, nothing bloody worse than loaning someone money and having to 'ask' for it back....shouldn't have to feel like the cunt for asking for it, should be offered to you before it gets to that stage!!
He's taken the piss and you'll know to NEVER help him again.
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Tbh i dont think he really is a "mate"
Old 27-10-2010, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted by DarylC

It's times like these you find out who's a friend, and who's just someone you know
Wise words. Just like those who are only your best mate when they want summat, and they're gone when they don't!

Good luck getting your money back.
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thats not on that mate! you done him a good favour in the first place that not many people would do and hes just totally taking the piss
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Originally Posted by rstdave
You did him a favour which he obviously hasn't appreciated....lesson learnt i guess
Secondly, nothing bloody worse than loaning someone money and having to 'ask' for it back....shouldn't have to feel like the cunt for asking for it, should be offered to you before it gets to that stage!!
He's taken the piss and you'll know to NEVER help him again.
So true...
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its not on mate...
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Bang out of order. I've only ever had to borrow off a mate once to get me out of trouble. The day I got paid I got an envelope went straight to the cash point and withdrew what I owed him + Ł20 as thanks and took it straight round to his place before going to work. He got me out of a spot, prompt repayment was the very least I could do.
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Originally Posted by Isaac.Hunt
Being the registered keeper doesn't constitute being the legal owner - they are two totally different things.

Incidentally, it is still your car as he has failed to pay for it. If I were you I'd let him know the amount is due by a specific date, if he fails to pay, go and collect your car.
+1
You got an invoice from when you bought the car?

Threaten to take him to court? The threat alone should speed him along...
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