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Old 02-08-2010 | 10:01 AM
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Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !

My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!


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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !

My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
Just get yourself tanked up on Entonox - passes the time really well!!
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not a lot you can do, just get your head down for some rest


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You can do a number of things, either stand around and get in the way, camera at the ready for babys first pic, or you can go and get some shut eye outside.

Junior was 2 weeks late and had a real struggle to let him let go and pop out whereas baby took 7 minutes to start squawking.

Best let the doctors decide what to do with you as you'll be going bonkers the longer it goes on.

Whatever else goes on in the world though, good luck to everyone and get some pics up
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It hasnt helped that our local healthy authority has centralised its resources as we are in our 3rd hospital now !

(Danw... Bath RUH )

Luckily, to pass the time I have my laptop and there are a number of low security wireless networks here.

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Old 02-08-2010 | 10:35 AM
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You telling me you of all people aren't used to slow delivery?!!

Sorry, too easy!
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indeed us women certianly do go through a tough time with child birth. as to what u can do. as long as ur there thats the main thing, have a little kip if u can get someone to make sure they wake u as soon as its close. after a long labour shes going to be knackered and is going to need ur full attention. But all exciting stuff. the hospitals round here are shite i was in bristol st micheals and the midwife got called out in the middle and i was left alone with my partner and she walked through the door as my daughter was born!

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Originally Posted by RichardPON
You telling me you of all people aren't used to slow delivery?!!

Sorry, too easy!


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Originally Posted by RichardPON
You telling me you of all people aren't used to slow delivery?!!

Sorry, too easy!

LOL !

Just pity the women who has to deliver your child if it has your chin..OUCH
Old 02-08-2010 | 10:46 AM
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Congrats Simon hope all going ok with the birth
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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
It hasnt helped that our local healthy authority has centralised its resources as we are in our 3rd hospital now !

(Danw... Bath RUH )
Our first was at Frome and it was really nice... then they closed it!!! We had the second at the RUH. They left us on our own for AGES and once baby was out, they wanted us out!

Hope it all goes well for you both though mate! And best of luck having three!!
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congrats and best of luck
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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
LOL !

Just pity the women who has to deliver your child if it has your chin..OUCH
FROFL. All the best.

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Lets hope she doesnt equal or better Nicoles 66hrs!

How long have you been with this new lady then mate?
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Lets hope she doesnt equal or better Nicoles 66hrs!

How long have you been with this new lady then mate?
I'd estimate at least 9 months
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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
LOL !

Just pity the women who has to deliver your child if it has your chin..OUCH
Indeed, although it would just aid passage of the little fella's big fella!

Still, at least with this situation, you'll know one of your products will arrive eventually!
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Lets hope she doesnt equal or better Nicoles 66hrs!

How long have you been with this new lady then mate?

..must be atleast 9 months, unless the child is gonna be a who done it?
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Thanks for the comments... its been a long 5 days !

Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Lets hope she doesnt equal or better Nicoles 66hrs!

How long have you been with this new lady then mate?

Waters breaking... No sign of contractions for 2 days....3 hospitals...2 days later induced and in labour for only around 18 hours.


Since my wife passed away, I have been with my new partner for nearly 18 months.


For those interested, There are some pictures here on this public facebook link...

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=189606&id=565238962&l=f26cc952e8

I did have loads of pictures but my Iphone crashed and I lost around 40 photos which were mostly of my partner..LOL

We called him Dane and was 9lb 2oz !! Big boy !

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Si think your ageing very fast mate, looking very old in that picture, life must of been hard for you!!
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Originally Posted by zetec-Sam

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mwahahahahahahahahahaha, that is BRILLIANT!
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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !

My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!


Rant over..lol
Next time you go in laugh at her. I did
Old 04-08-2010 | 07:38 PM
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congratulations simon i hope you your partner & little dane are all doing well
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Originally Posted by zetec-Sam

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my mrs has just said exactly the same thing

she's said "ask him how life is with just one hand"
Old 04-08-2010 | 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by zetec-Sam

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Quality!

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chin up mate, i was waiting 19 hours for my little lad to be born.
Hope he or she comes soon for you
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Baby certainly has his mother's good looks congratulations


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Simon,

Hope all goes well mate
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Sam you cooont I do look like shit but I am 44

5 days without much sleep, hardly any food, just cups of tea and sat in the most uncomfortable chair made from pure granite..lol.
I feel like shit but the other half did all the work so fuck knows how she managed it !
Still, its all worked out nicely in the end

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Originally Posted by RichardPON
You telling me you of all people aren't used to slow delivery?!!

Sorry, too easy!
bastard,,,,, fucking scrolled this post JUST incase someone beat me to it !
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oh and congrats simon,,,,,,, i NEVER wanna go through the arse ache i had with Elise and i felt totally powerless when people in the room where freeking out about things

worth it in the end,,,,, but if i was to do it again i would wait in the waiting room till im called in when its over !
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Congratulations Simon!
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Originally Posted by Flux Capacitor.
Since my wife passed away, I have been with my new partner for nearly 18 months.
Congratulations on both the baby and being able to move forward Simon, its not easy.
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Congrats - we hada 9 day wait last december as Thomas went over.

Then they found our he was breach, 4 hours laters Jens waters broke, and we were praying labour wouldnt start as she was due a c-section in the morning.

Then after they let me in, less than 45 minutes later Thomas was born at 10lb 1oz!

Congrats Simon -hope he makes you as happy as thomas has made me.
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Nice one Si'.


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