Having a baby and feeling pretty useless !
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Having a baby and feeling pretty useless !
Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
Rant over..lol
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
Rant over..lol
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Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
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You can do a number of things, either stand around and get in the way, camera at the ready for babys first pic, or you can go and get some shut eye outside.
Junior was 2 weeks late and had a real struggle to let him let go and pop out whereas baby took 7 minutes to start squawking.
Best let the doctors decide what to do with you as you'll be going bonkers the longer it goes on.
Whatever else goes on in the world though, good luck to everyone and get some pics up
Junior was 2 weeks late and had a real struggle to let him let go and pop out whereas baby took 7 minutes to start squawking.
Best let the doctors decide what to do with you as you'll be going bonkers the longer it goes on.
Whatever else goes on in the world though, good luck to everyone and get some pics up
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It hasnt helped that our local healthy authority has centralised its resources as we are in our 3rd hospital now !
(Danw... Bath RUH )
Luckily, to pass the time I have my laptop and there are a number of low security wireless networks here.
(Danw... Bath RUH )
Luckily, to pass the time I have my laptop and there are a number of low security wireless networks here.
Last edited by ECU Monitor Enthusiast; 02-08-2010 at 10:25 AM.
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indeed us women certianly do go through a tough time with child birth. as to what u can do. as long as ur there thats the main thing, have a little kip if u can get someone to make sure they wake u as soon as its close. after a long labour shes going to be knackered and is going to need ur full attention. But all exciting stuff. the hospitals round here are shite i was in bristol st micheals and the midwife got called out in the middle and i was left alone with my partner and she walked through the door as my daughter was born!
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Hope it all goes well for you both though mate! And best of luck having three!!
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Thanks for the comments... its been a long 5 days !
Waters breaking... No sign of contractions for 2 days....3 hospitals...2 days later induced and in labour for only around 18 hours.
Since my wife passed away, I have been with my new partner for nearly 18 months.
For those interested, There are some pictures here on this public facebook link...
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=189606&id=565238962&l=f26cc952e8
I did have loads of pictures but my Iphone crashed and I lost around 40 photos which were mostly of my partner..LOL
We called him Dane and was 9lb 2oz !! Big boy !
Waters breaking... No sign of contractions for 2 days....3 hospitals...2 days later induced and in labour for only around 18 hours.
Since my wife passed away, I have been with my new partner for nearly 18 months.
For those interested, There are some pictures here on this public facebook link...
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=189606&id=565238962&l=f26cc952e8
I did have loads of pictures but my Iphone crashed and I lost around 40 photos which were mostly of my partner..LOL
We called him Dane and was 9lb 2oz !! Big boy !
Last edited by ECU Monitor Enthusiast; 04-08-2010 at 05:38 PM.
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Well my missus is in labour 14 hours so far and I feel like a spare part !
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
Rant over..lol
My first 2 kids were premature and both delivered within an hour and no fuss but to now experience this long drawn out process of a full term baby really shows me what a raw deal women get and how badly designed the female body is for this situation..!
Rant over..lol
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Sam you cooont I do look like shit but I am 44
5 days without much sleep, hardly any food, just cups of tea and sat in the most uncomfortable chair made from pure granite..lol.
I feel like shit but the other half did all the work so fuck knows how she managed it !
Still, its all worked out nicely in the end
5 days without much sleep, hardly any food, just cups of tea and sat in the most uncomfortable chair made from pure granite..lol.
I feel like shit but the other half did all the work so fuck knows how she managed it !
Still, its all worked out nicely in the end
Last edited by ECU Monitor Enthusiast; 04-08-2010 at 09:07 PM.
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oh and congrats simon,,,,,,, i NEVER wanna go through the arse ache i had with Elise and i felt totally powerless when people in the room where freeking out about things
worth it in the end,,,,, but if i was to do it again i would wait in the waiting room till im called in when its over !
worth it in the end,,,,, but if i was to do it again i would wait in the waiting room till im called in when its over !
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Congrats - we hada 9 day wait last december as Thomas went over.
Then they found our he was breach, 4 hours laters Jens waters broke, and we were praying labour wouldnt start as she was due a c-section in the morning.
Then after they let me in, less than 45 minutes later Thomas was born at 10lb 1oz!
Congrats Simon -hope he makes you as happy as thomas has made me.
Then they found our he was breach, 4 hours laters Jens waters broke, and we were praying labour wouldnt start as she was due a c-section in the morning.
Then after they let me in, less than 45 minutes later Thomas was born at 10lb 1oz!
Congrats Simon -hope he makes you as happy as thomas has made me.