MunkeyboyRS

Now then all,
Its coming up to that time of year, xmas. Now I broke up with my ex back in sept after bout 3years and still missing her too much, I still care for her shit loads, we are still friends, even tho we been giving each other space, as its ard for me not to be with her.
Should I still get her a lil something for xmas? Or will it look like im trying to get her back?Even tho Id sell my soul to him downstairs for her back.

cossie4i+

iTrader: (15)

If your still friends it wont hurt

But nothing too expensive

Steve

Pardeep

Sorry, i couldn't help it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNIJJE6y_DA

Lambchop

iTrader: (1)

Friends doesn't work - the end.

MunkeyboyRS

Ta dude!, Not a bad song.

Pardeep

I'm going with Lambchop on this. If you start buying her gifts then 1, she'll think its a attempt to get her back and 2, you'll find it even harder to let her go and move on.

collierm

Buy her nothing. Despite what you say to yourself, you'll know deep down you bought her a gift and you'll be hoping it leads to a reconciliation. You guys split for a reason, step back and think about it.

wulliesxr4i

iTrader: (1)

am still friends with my ex nd after all thats happend nd all thats been said the true is we still love each other nd are talkin bout mayb givin it anouther go but doin it proper this tym,

cant b any harm in a wee gift mate just dont go over the top,

Charlie Chalk

iTrader: (1)

I just fuck my ex, can't you do the same?

Pardeep

If i could have a ex's that just like to get a smashing i would be so happy lol

MunkeyboyRS

Now i really dont know what to do, as she was more than a Gf she was my best mate.
I know I should forget bout her but it aint that easy. I know it going to happen us getting back together, I fucked up to many times.
I was only thinking something lil, as a friend thing.

Charlie Chalk

iTrader: (1)

Not always a good thing though


I'd buy her a present if it was me..

wulliesxr4i

iTrader: (1)

mate i no how u feel was in the same boat for a while ma ex was more than a gf she was also my best friend nd couldnt ever think of loosin her but mayb just summit little will b fine i used to get her a little prezy every now nd then it dont hurt,

Pardeep

JUDAS!!!

Drunken Master

You should buy yourself a present instead a pair of balls, then ditch the bitch.

Drayton

If you're still good friends then buy her something. She will appreciate it, so what have you got to lose if it will make you feel better.

james kiely

iTrader: (5)

i think you need to her how you feel at the end of the day ,as you need to find out if she still feels the same.
buying her a present is cool ,not something expensive though.


cheers james

Jessica.

why did you break up? id say just get over her. theres a reason for a relationship ending, cos one of you couldnt stand something about the other one so i think its pointless staying friends. although i am slightly bitter today so may change my opinion on this tomorrow

CoupeUK

I say get her a nice card and a small gift as a gesture of friendship than an attempt at trying to push for something more.....keep it simple- its the thought that counts!

stuboy

shit card and cheap smellys, and some new rims for the motor..

ESCYSCOTT

iTrader: (1)

if you say she was your best mate aswell as you girlfriend then it must have been her that ended it cause obviously she didn't feel the same? That to me would tell me something and so I'd be careful as she'll make a fool of you!!

We've all been there though havn't we!

Pardeep

Whats up with you??? lol

Jessica.

cheating boyfriend means relationships are a touchy subject with me, although i am grumpy most of the time

i agree with escyscott, girls will do anything if they think theyll get a gift out of you! dont be made a fool of.

Pardeep

Ahhh yes. But i find women to be worse than blokes and you have said it yourself to prove it lol

Most women love it when a guy is deeply in love with them.

Think Richard Pryor says it best

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJaDMfIBw5c

LOL

johnandhissaffy

iTrader: (1)

im with lambchop on this friends will never work out

Jessica.

too true even if a lass has no feelings for you whatsoever she will string you along just cos its nice to know that a fella wants you even if you do want him

Pardeep

Yeah i agree. Made the mistake of buying my Ex fiance Ł450 shoes and then 2 months later the bitch was cheating LOL

Jessica.

maybe they were really horrible shoes? suppose its a good job it happened before the wedding eh?

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

There is no romance without finance

Pardeep

Jimmy Choos that she Chose

6 Months before the wedding. Date was set for the 5th of July. Well i lost 3k in desposits. Better than losing 30k

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

would have been a lot more if she'd turned up on the wedding day and married you

Pardeep

Oh well, least now i have a healthy bank balance

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

I don't
my fooker turned up for the wedding
bummer
Nice to meet some one more bitter than me

Pardeep

Don't worry, i plan to buy another Escos next year. I'm sure i'll be buggered LOL

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

no where near as buggered as you would have been had she turned up
you can always sell an escort cosworth you can't sell a wife

Pardeep

LOL

Well good thing is i've decided not to marry but to just have a relationship with someone and have my kids. Don't want to spend 30k+ on a piece of paper and people free loading off me on the wedding day lol

cozzfather

iTrader: (1)

aye romance without finance is a damn nuisance

well you could Boss but thats big pimpin and your mrs would technically be a escort girl lol

Turbosystems

iTrader: (5)

my wedding was paid for by the x father inlaw all i had to do was supply a rolls fortunately my dad had one of those
Oh and turn up that appears to have been a crucial error on my part

M-Tech Automotive

lol

Pardeep

ROFL