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Old 02-05-2009 | 09:42 PM
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opinions needed guys,

An ex requested me as a friend. I have accepted obviously as well as some of her friends whom I get along fine with. I started seeing this ex whilst me and my current partner (now wife) were 'playing the field'.

My wife has gone off on one asking me to delete her, but I still like her (as a friend) and still talk to her over the net. God she taught me some things lol !!!

Seems a a shame because we had a laugh, if you know what I mean.

What do you think??

If i delete her I've still got all her friends I got along well with.....
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:43 PM
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Come on, its bloody facebook, its not the end of the world if you hit delete is it
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:44 PM
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Mike, you're playing with fire.....
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:45 PM
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Cant you see why your wife is upset? id delete and hide her on MSN
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:45 PM
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Mike, you're playing with fire.....
In what way??

me's dumb...........
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:51 PM
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How would you feel if it was her talking to one of her ex's ?
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted by saphcosmike
In what way??

me's dumb...........




Errrr, chatting to a 'good' ex....... If the tables were turned would you be happy with your wife chatting to an ex on facebook?
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How would you feel if it was her talking to one of her ex's ?
She's only got 2 who don't live in the country

Got me Cos out tomorrow karl if you want me to pop down?
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by -MAL-



Errrr, chatting to a 'good' ex....... If the tables were turned would you be happy with your wife chatting to an ex on facebook?
All the DO YOU REMEMBER'S ETC On the back seat of the 4i
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Errrr, chatting to a 'good' ex....... If the tables were turned would you be happy with your wife chatting to an ex on facebook?
yeah but fuck me did she go some and it's nice she wants to keep in touch lol
Old 02-05-2009 | 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by saphcosmike
She's only got 2 who don't live in the country

Got me Cos out tomorrow karl if you want me to pop down?
Am at work mate then going to get the oil dropped out of it mate And might get the pads done in the back
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Men are stupid.......
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delete the bird, how would you feel if some ex of hers had a wonder cock she loved to slip down started being all pally again and she WANTED to keep in touch?

If you value what you have, or respect your misses, then delete her

Facebook, bloody pain in the ass if you ask me.
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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
Men are stupid.......
Some !!!
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted by saphcosmike
yeah but fuck me did she go some and it's nice she wants to keep in touch lol

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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
Men are stupid.......

That's a very sweeping statement!
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by davemark
Some !!!

Ok, I'll give you that, SOME men are stupid.
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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
Ok, I'll give you that, SOME men are stupid.
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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
Ok, I'll give you that, SOME men are stupid.

I think SOME men aren't stupid is more appropriate.
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by -MAL-

That's a very sweeping statement!

Just wrote what I thought after reading that !


SOME men really do not think of peoples feelings at all, I hope the wife adds a few of her ex's to FB, he might know how she feels like then !
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted by matts1

If you value what you have, or respect your misses, then delete her

Facebook, bloody pain in the ass if you ask me.
Spot on
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:16 PM
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get it down ya son,just keep it quiet,msg her before you delete her and bam away you go.
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:17 PM
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Your always at work Karl mate. Still thinkin 3dr??
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:20 PM
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Oh yes been down nms today and seen 2 stunning moonstone ones and thought got to have one lol
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
Just wrote what I thought after reading that !


SOME men really do not think of peoples feelings at all, I hope the wife adds a few of her ex's to FB, he might know how she feels like then !

Some people have relationships with trust....both myself and my wife are friends with ex's
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Mondeo Man
Some people have relationships with trust....both myself and my wife are friends with ex's
No need to roll the eyes, we all have our own opinions.......


I have ex's that i'm still friends with that Dave has met and no issues have ever been raised by it. But the way this guy has posted this thread it dont seem to be spelt out without issues.
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:55 PM
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did you not make the skating helen ?

sorry off topic !
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:55 PM
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Well there ya go....

my partner has his ex's on his facebook. But he wouldn't be overly chuffed if mine started appearing in my friends list......
Old 02-05-2009 | 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted by J1mbo
did you not make the skating helen ?

sorry off topic !

No, did not make it. Dave was working on YUM until gone 8pm so by the time he got home and sorted would not have been worth while going with the traveling time. Next time hopefully !
Old 02-05-2009 | 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Cossie Helen
No, did not make it. Dave was working on YUM until gone 8pm so by the time he got home and sorted would not have been worth while going with the traveling time. Next time hopefully !

ahh did see yums update actually ! next one should be a good un, trying to get loads of people going as me and others i got couldnt make this one either
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Delete, block and have nothing to do with her. Tell her you can see one another when she realises it's you who decides who you speak to, not her. In the meantime, while your wife is off the scene and you are single, go and sexually assault your ex in the nicest possible way.

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Old 03-05-2009 | 09:30 AM
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I think your mrs is showing the typical woman insecurity here. If they are not the centre of attention 100% of the time then the bottom lip comes out
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it aint worth it mate just delete it

my missus keeps trying to get me to use it but i cant be arsed and if i did it would upset her if any ex wanted to talk to me
i would just delete them anyway cos for me an ex is an ex for a reason

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Old 03-05-2009 | 09:47 AM
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Mike

Blokes 'generally' couldn't give a shit but women get the right arse about stuff like that fella....you can't see the big deal any more than I can but unfortunately women being the oddball creatures that they are take exception to stuff like that.

Do yourself a favour mate and delete her. It'll save you a right load of agg at home.
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Just delete her mate it will be easier and less hastle.




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