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Old 28-03-2009, 11:34 AM
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Default life is quite fragile but im still here at the mo.

first off i would like to thank Jacko and Beef for staying in touch through all of this.. thanks guys.

to cut a very long story short, i was very sick and getting worse, weekness and eyesight issues on my left amongst many..
after a few examinations i was told i had had or was leading up to a stroke.... oh shit.
so off to the hospital within an hour to the emergency assesment unit.

several CT and MRI scans later i was told i hadnt had a stroke neither was i having one, but i had an abnormall mass on my right frontal lobe that was causing the issues with my left side.
oh fuck.. this is it i thought.. the single most horrible thing to be told.

ok so last sunday i was transfrerd to Oxfords John Raddcliffe neuro science department

the very next day after more brain mapping to see whats what i went in to theatre for a major brain op, the surgeon removed as much of the bad tissue as he could and freed up some space in there to releive the pressure..
now is saturday and i came home on thursday to recover... i can say i feel a bit batterd and i have a sore head and face, look a bit like frankinstein but i suppose thats no difference depending who you ask lol...
most importantly i am still me and i still have my marbles i hope..
for now is a waiting game for biopscy results to see where we go from here.
so thabks for reading my little story and i hope to be here for a while yet..
Old 28-03-2009, 11:36 AM
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Fucking hell mate, sounds like you have really been through it.

Are they thinkiing you will make a complete recovery now after the op?
Old 28-03-2009, 11:36 AM
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Crikey!

hope youl have a full recovery!
Old 28-03-2009, 11:37 AM
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Well good luck mate
Old 28-03-2009, 11:40 AM
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Hope you make a full recovery
Old 28-03-2009, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Chip
Fucking hell mate, sounds like you have really been through it.

Are they thinkiing you will make a complete recovery now after the op?
i would like to hope so Chip, ive been told it may take months for everything to return to normality.. but my mind is ok and that is the first hurdle concidering where the op was.

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Old 28-03-2009, 11:41 AM
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Hope you have a swift recovery m8
Old 28-03-2009, 11:44 AM
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wishing you a speedy recovery mate.keep us updated once you get your results
Old 28-03-2009, 11:53 AM
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hope you get better soon mate,
Old 28-03-2009, 11:55 AM
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get well soon.
Old 28-03-2009, 12:03 PM
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god i would be shitting bricks being told that! not good was it.

Hope you make a full recovery mate
Old 28-03-2009, 12:04 PM
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i hope you make a full recovery buddy..
Old 28-03-2009, 12:11 PM
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Woah there........

Well, you're good enough to type that so that's definately a good start fella, concentrate on getting yourself fit and well again.

Take it easy, and glad you're on the mend

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Old 28-03-2009, 12:20 PM
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yea tryin to keep myself busi with silly things, and i can type just a little slower than im used to but i guess thats to be expected.
thanks for all the good wishes peeps. xx
Old 28-03-2009, 12:23 PM
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sorry to hear this mate,get well soon
Old 28-03-2009, 12:25 PM
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Blimey sorry to hear that, wishing you all the best for a great recovery

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Old 28-03-2009, 12:28 PM
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i cant think of anything being any more frightning, no matter how big or hard you are you would be thoroughly shitting your pants,
good luck more than likely the worse is overwith now and you can get on with your life


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Old 28-03-2009, 12:32 PM
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Wishing you a speedy recovery dude
Old 28-03-2009, 12:32 PM
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All the best chief.
Old 28-03-2009, 12:35 PM
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jesus!!pleased all in on the up matey!wish u a full and speedy recovery!
Old 28-03-2009, 12:42 PM
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get well soon mate
Old 28-03-2009, 12:47 PM
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WOW Get well soon mate, hope you make a full and speedy recovery!
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good luck with the recovery fella

take it very very easy though as ther is nothing worse than thikning you are better but not being
Old 28-03-2009, 12:49 PM
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Old 28-03-2009, 01:13 PM
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Wow, you have been through the mill Lee, I genuinely wish you all the best for a full recovery.
Old 28-03-2009, 01:33 PM
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Best wishes for a speedy recovery mate,
Old 28-03-2009, 01:34 PM
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All the best for a full recovery Lee.....

Hope you`re felling better real quick mate
Old 28-03-2009, 02:00 PM
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Crikey thats not good.. Thats all I hear these days with people being sick. My best mate lost his eyesight a few years back through diabetes, he really went through the mill.. but with good friends and family you can beat anything..

all the best mate, wish you a speedy recovery... and dont worry, the birds love a scar ; )
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fuck me! Didn't know any of that Lee!

Glad to hear you're on the mend tho pal, and here's hoping it's a full one!
Old 28-03-2009, 03:11 PM
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Hope you make a speedy recovery all the best fella
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Best wishes pal, i hope your A1 very soon.

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get well soon mate,good luck
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lol even after the op they aint sure hes got a fooking brain lol ,

but yeah on a serious note , really chuffed they did what they did and lets hope its a speedy recovery

and on a sub note , well done to yourself !!! theres so many people nowadays that brush off feeling bad as just " ohh ill be fine " , it shows that acting macho or having a i cant get hurt attitude can get you in all sorts of shit ,


but yeah fella, im always at the other end of the fone for ya day or night , and if theres anything i can do you only have to ask ,

but you already know that lol........


like making sure all your toys dont seize ect, be more than happy to give them a run out ,

thats how much of a caring bloke i am lol

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must have been scary..!

All the best for a full recovery
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Bloody hell Lee mate, was wondering where ya had gone.

Hope you make a full recovery sharpish my man
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thanks for all the good wishes peeps. i have an amazing better half and she has been fooking amazing so thankyou Carla... you mean the world to me...

thanks again everyone for all the nice msgs.

Lee xx
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shit man! i had no idea........

nice to see you are feeling well enough to come on here etc..

good luck,im sure everything will be fine


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