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Old 18-03-2009 | 01:02 AM
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You find out your EX has been telling people she had been raped to get attention and is now dating a close mate?

A few years back this so called 'Girl' made up some massive bullshit about being raped. I remember it quite well as i use to call to check on her and hows shes doing. I eventually knew it was bollocks as i called the following monday and she was out having the time of her life. Eventually i did find out she was chatting bullcrap as she never reported it to the police and when i asked her who it was she said 'One Guy' and to others she told 'Some Guys'.

Now the little bitch is dating a close mate of mine and i don't know if i should tell him what shes really like and whats been said.

What do you guys think?

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Old 18-03-2009 | 01:12 AM
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Turn her lie into the truth.

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Old 18-03-2009 | 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Benni
Turn her lie into the truth.

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God Damn you Benni, I knew you'd be the first to answer Lmao
Old 18-03-2009 | 01:16 AM
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imo fella

just stay the fuck clear , dont get involved

not worth the greif , you know full well if you piss on her parade shes only gonna turn on you and next thing youll be that " some guy "

your a fucking idiot if you get involved lol

harsh but true
firm but fair

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Old 18-03-2009 | 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted by stillbornhq
God Damn you Benni, I knew you'd be the first to answer Lmao
Mate, I'm stalking you. Ha.
Old 18-03-2009 | 01:20 AM
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Originally Posted by -beefy-
imo fella

just stay the fuck clear , dont get involved

not worth the greif , you know full well if you piss on her parade shes only gonna turn on you and next thing youll be that " some guy "

your a fucking idiot if you get involved lol

harsh but true
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Send Beefy round to make her lie into reality. He might only be 2 inches, but there's 25 stone pushing it in.


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Old 18-03-2009 | 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted by -beefy-
imo fella

just stay the fuck clear , dont get involved

not worth the greif , you know full well if you piss on her parade shes only gonna turn on you and next thing youll be that " some guy "

your a fucking idiot if you get involved lol

harsh but true
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Mate i'm stuck. We've been mates since primary school, If i don't tell him i'm going to be in the shit, if i do i'm going to be in some kind of shit lol

God Damn Shit!!! lol
Old 18-03-2009 | 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Benni
Send Beefy round to make her lie into reality. He might only be 2 inches, but there's 25 stone pushing it in.


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Below the belt bud lol

And stop stalking me you cunt lol
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Beefy knows I'm joking. He's got a massive cock. I've had it up my arse
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Originally Posted by Benni
Beefy knows I'm joking. He's got a massive cock. I've had it up my arse
Benni, read this carefully, ok? Go check yourself into a mental asylum as i really think you have some thoughts god will punish you for lol
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Benni- your a mad guy
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Originally Posted by stillbornhq
Benni, read this carefully, ok? Go check yourself into a mental asylum as i really think you have some thoughts god will punish you for lol

God will feel the wrath of the Lord Benni Christ when I see him! Anyway, I've taken over this thread, so will now sit back and let you have it back!

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Stay well clear of her. As Beefy says, if you piss her off, some guy will morph into you and youll be in a world of hurt, not only will your reputation be knackered but theres a good chance youd get a feel from the law. Sure theres no chance it would go to court as its her word versus yours, but shit like that stinks real bad and many people will say "no smoke without fire" plus you might be innocent in eyes of law but it will still be on the PNC and show up on CRB's etc and will cause a pain in the ass finding work etc especially as it wont be long before all jobs with "customer contact" will require at least a basic CRB disclosure.



Oh and benni cant be locked up in a mental asylum. One of the stipulations of sectioning is that the "treatment" proposed is effective. Its virtually impossible to detain someone when thier illness is untreatable such as with Benni hes not a real danger to anyone so "treatment in the community" is the order of the day Sure one day im sure there will be Benni on the front page of the news after a massacre with the critics saying "how could this happen?" and "why didnt social services act sooner?"
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Originally Posted by Benni
Send Beefy round to make her lie into reality. He might only be 2 inches, but there's 25 stone pushing it in.


Benni.

oi you jumped up scouse fucking wanker !!!

its 24st 7 ,

ive been toning up ,


stilly mate seriously dont say fuck all , if hes such a close mate no doubt he will have an idea whats shes about ,

if your in a no win situation id rather come out of it with a pissed off mate than a fucking rape allegation ,




ohh and benni

your fucking warped man , seriously warped

but i still love ya pmsl

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Old 18-03-2009 | 02:05 PM
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I disagree with the others, if he's a close mate you should tell him. Or at least sound him out in a subtle way. You've got to ask yourself if the tables were turned would you want to know?
Old 18-03-2009 | 02:16 PM
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Id think thank fuck i got rid of that nut job and someone else has the problem.
And i agree with Beefy, Benni is nuts.
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Originally Posted by -beefy-
oi you jumped up scouse fucking wanker !!!

its 24st 7 ,

ive been toning up ,


stilly mate seriously dont say fuck all , if hes such a close mate no doubt he will have an idea whats shes about ,

if your in a no win situation id rather come out of it with a pissed off mate than a fucking rape allegation ,




ohh and benni

your fucking warped man , seriously warped

but i still love ya pmsl

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Old 18-03-2009 | 02:33 PM
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if i was you i would tell him, just so he knows what kinda cr*p she will make up just to get some attention from other people
Old 18-03-2009 | 02:40 PM
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Get on with your own life, and let her get on with hers.

She's an ex for a reason, so keep it that way!
Old 18-03-2009 | 02:43 PM
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if you can tell him without sounding like your still upset you've lost her, then give it a go...........wont be easy tho,love is blind an all that..........
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Originally Posted by Benni
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Benni.

your such a twat !! do you fucking know that lol

im not getting into this , i may run out of whitty rebuttles

which for me would be a big thing


you gimp

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Old 18-03-2009 | 04:59 PM
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A girl i used to see tried to say that after i dumped her! After few stern words from some of my mates tho she soon put it right.
Old 18-03-2009 | 05:03 PM
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Quite simple.

If it's YOU she's saying that raped her, then by all means kick up a massive stink and let the world know you didn't.

If it's someone else she's saying that raped her then tell your mate quietly that she's a fucking nut-job and then leave him to get himself out of the shit. Then he'll appriciate you as a mate. But if you try and split him and his burd up he's just going to end up hating you.

Let him make his own mistakes dude.
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Originally Posted by Pete frst
if you can tell him without sounding like your still upset you've lost her, then give it a go...........wont be easy tho,love is blind an all that..........
I can say it without it sounding like i'm in love with her, Fact is i hate her guts. + i'm sure my mate will see how much i went through to make Sinead see that i was here for her and the her 2 girls nd that we are also planning a child of our own.

Maybe i won't mention the Rape stuff but can warn him what she is like and i have a few other people who'll back me up on it.
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well one of my exs had said that previos boyfriends had beat her up, wished i would of had a friend to tell me that. (i hate her so much)

and now its realy awkward, shes a friend of my current girlfriends and now tries to get along with me

i had noone to turn to after that (she was more popular than me at school) so i had no friends to beleive me. if you tell him, hes still got you as a friend
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Tell your mate she was tight before you got with her lol. If that don't work ask him if she still swallows, it's bound to put him off lol
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Originally Posted by jammerrs
well one of my exs had said that previos boyfriends had beat her up, wished i would of had a friend to tell me that. (i hate her so much)

and now its realy awkward, shes a friend of my current girlfriends and now tries to get along with me

i had noone to turn to after that (she was more popular than me at school) so i had no friends to beleive me. if you tell him, hes still got you as a friend
Thats was one of the things that and sometimes still makes Sinead start having her Insecurities. Her Ex became a coke head and started beating on her.

I remember the first time we went into the Pub as a couple, she was so nervous about him seeing us and trying to kick something off. He stared at me all night and eventually i told him to get it out of his system, i said if he wanted to hit me that was his chance as next time it would get to a point he would never wanted it to get to. He turned around and walked off. I'm 5'7" and he was like 6'2". So i was kinda shitting myself lol

Originally Posted by FletchCossie
Tell your mate she was tight before you got with her lol. If that don't work ask him if she still swallows, it's bound to put him off lol
And you, you make me laugh lol Maybe i should ask him how i taste LMAO
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i would warn him
Old 18-03-2009 | 09:11 PM
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ive tried warning a friend and it backfired, he now doesnt talk to me and went really low and deleted me off facebook, LOL
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stilly stear clear man

simple as

if it comes across like you have feelings even if you dont , its going to affect your current relationship

it seriously aint worth it mate been there done it

i dated two lasses after a major split , they worshipped me , couldnt do enough looking back , wanted me to move in settle down ect ,

and ill i could blab on about is how much i missed my ex[s lil boy and how much of a bitch she was ,

in the end the girl i was dating , she became to insecure in the fact that at any point if my ex shouted id go running . personally i dont blame her i wasnt ready ,

but when you look back mate ,

its latting you friend know worth jepordising your own relationship ?

let him get on with it ,

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Old 19-03-2009 | 01:28 AM
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I'd think myself lucky im not with her anymore, she sounds like a proper connoiser of boiled bunnies as Beefy already said, stay the hell away!
Old 19-03-2009 | 01:29 AM
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Tell your mate she was OK after being raped apart from the herpes
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tel him for gods sake dont let it carry on it will back fire on you in the end

my ex told me a lad rapped her i latter found out it was someone i know the laying bitch told me a lie so i told him when we split up the police had me for it wankers but i didnt get done...

tel the police what your going to do for the saftey of your mate before he ends up in prison its to late then isnt it...
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I think i'm gonna steer clear like beefy has said. It won't only fuck the friendships but i could lose Sinead and her 2 girls over it and i couldn't bare that.

I rather take the bollocking of when he does find out atleast that way i can just say 'I thought you knew' LMAO
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well done fella

you know it makes sense ,

you could always send me his number ill gladly tell him shes a crazy slag !!!!
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Originally Posted by -beefy-
well done fella

you know it makes sense ,

you could always send me his number ill gladly tell him shes a crazy slag !!!!
My mate Dean asked me today for the reason i called it off with her, i didn't know what to say.


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