danneth

after just smashing the keyboard up because i lost a hand on poker only cost me $1 dollar on a cash table

Coldo

I put a fist shaped hole in my desk after drawing with st mirren in football manager 2009

I swear i could have smashed the whole desk up that day, now i just turn round and punch fuck out of my mattress, or my girlfriend if she's in, yeah, i slap her up good.

SS1

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woh rea ouy ytping tehn

Dave McB

Imagine how Smith ans Strachan must feel!!

Twellsie

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not at all, I went for anger managment and they didnt think anything was wrong

Ginge !

whats classed as bad temper though ?

is it someone who is angry all the time or someone who has no paitence,,, what about someone who is laied back but then can switch and loose it

at work my area manager thinks i need some sort of anger management due me being too confronting over some silly things that most people can ignore eg:name calling, people saying something to insult and i will drop what ever im doing to deal with it

the other day i parked in a ally way to get my morning starbucks, i came back and there was a bloke i had blocked in, i applogised and the bloke wanted to row,, i had no interest in it as i was in a very very good mood, infact i was 30 mins early for work

anyway the bloke for no reason called me a prick when i was getting in the car,,,, i switched then and got out to have a word,, he puffed hes chest up for a argument

i walked over to him and grabed hes throat/jaw pushed him against hes van and just said "mate im in a good mood and said sorry,,, call me a prick again" but in my mind i was thinking " im gonna bite hes nose off the cunt"

i had another time with a motorcyclist, he was taking ages to pull out of a junction so i presed a quick bib of the horn, he turns round and sticks a finger up at me so i get out the car,, in my head i wanna push him and bike over and start kicking the fuck out of him but cause it would make me late i didnt but i opened hes visor and spat in hes face then got back in the car

i am very laied back about things, me and mates are ALWAYS insulting each other/bouncing off each other all the time/toy fighting ect and even do mixed martal arts on sundays which can hurt at times but i never even get violent with it

someone calls me a cunt ect or threatens me to act the biggun then i switch and will drop everything to and need to do something just to feel better at the time, though i regret it all the time afterwards and feel ashamed about it

as said though someone has to say something to me to make me switch but its when that happens when i get i trouble

ive had 2 written warnings from my current job ive been at now and ive gone for 6 members of staff, i dragged a driver outside who told me to go fuck myself and the other drivers had to pull me off when they realised i wasnt toy fighting, 1 staff member ive gone for 4 times now and another twice

though and this is true, when its over with i carry on with life and hold no grudges its like a knee jerk reaction with me where i bite usually just one hit /pin /grab and if someone dont react back i leave it

oh also went for a bloke in my doctors when i was on diasipam and tramadol when i fucked my back and was in pain hence my doctor perscribed me with morphine

is that rambling anger management though ? as i dont let anything get to me unless someone directs a insult AT me, i dont bully people or argue to get my way itsjust when someone is at me that i kick off

Turbosystems

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ginge you either need therapy or a penis enlargement

Ebonycossie4x4

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Football manager can be so stressfull.

I smashed my monitor after losing the champions league final after 5 seasons with aston villa.

i was winning 3-1 at halftime and lost 4-3.

marc novataken

i had anger management, waste of time tbh. and yeah football manager is an evil game to play

Lloyd

~nomad~

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So you block people in when you go to get your morning coffee and wonder why they call you a prick? Not being funny, but that van driver prob had a job to get to or a delivery to do and he comes out to his van to find some prick has blocked him in. Nice. You don't need anger management, you need manners training!

TotalRS

people just dont play foozbool maneger i had some of that anger manager shit when i was 14 its a load of bollocks i felt like ripping the twats head of im 29 now and still feel the same lol

nellrodd

[quote=Ginge !;3997873]whats classed as bad temper though ?


i had another time with a motorcyclist, he was taking ages to pull out of a junction so i presed a quick bib of the horn, he turns round and sticks a finger up at me so i get out the car,, in my head i wanna push him and bike over and start kicking the fuck out of him but cause it would make me late i didnt but i opened hes visor and spat in hes face then got back in the car

You spat in his face, you tinky fecker, the big hard man eh!! Thats as low as it goes!!

Ginge !

i live in central london where there is NO parking, it was 7:30 in the morning and i park there EVERYDAY as its behind starbucks as you cant stop outside there, i was there for 4 mins and i applogised for the delay, in london you have to have paitence when driving as vans will double park to do a delivery due to the parking shortage and the endless no stopping on main roads with cameras ready to nick the drivers who dare stop and get a ticket 2 weeks later in the post

btw i blocked him from driving to the fishmongers to make a delivery in the allyway, the bloke in the van had no need to call me a prick,, i was 4 mins, i paied 7 quid for 2 coffees to a local business who hes delivering too OR i dont buy my coffee there is the other alternative,,,, infact when i buy my fish i ALSO park there, its not like i parked up and went shopping for a hour,

try living in central london not outside and see the difference living in a CPZ is like and how if affects local business's too

if i was ignorant and just got in my car yes i would understand, i applogised when i came back due to it holding him up for,, maybe 2 mins as he wasnt there when i parked up

Ginge !

[QUOTE=nellrodd;3997953]thats the point though, its not something i am proud of, i sometimes do stuff with out thinking when i switch, ive done worse in my youth but as said its only when someone does something to me, i wont get out of my car to row with someone whos blocking me in/driving slow hell when someone drove into the back of my impreza i got out look at the damage and seen it was paint off the bumper,told the bloke " dont worry about it i need a new bumper anyway" and carried on about my business

oh i once punched a bus driver who when i was crossing the road stopped RIGHT infront of me so i had to step out in the road to wait for the traffic to clear then he tried to bully be back on the pavement so he could pull out and started edging the bus forward then told me to "mooove man" and so i gave him a dig though hes window as i was already in the road thanks to that cunt though that was about,,, 7 years ago

Turbosystems

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Ginge you say you need patience yet a guy on a bike who was taking longer than you thought he should take to pull out, was on the receiving end of a face full of your spit

Neil S

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You want the fucking sack for that. No need at all.

Turbosystems

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How bad do you get when you go out on the town Ginge

Ginge !

he took AGES, i just politly beeped to inform him hes taking a little too long, which he really was,,, its what the horn is for

its the finger that i didnt appriciate

Turbosystems

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doubt he appreciated you spitting in his face much either

Neil S

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The horn is to warn other road users, not to annoy them. I think you deserved the finger. You're fucking lucky he didn't nut you!

Still, you're so hard you'd probably have bundled him in your boot and taken him round one of your gangster mates' place and pulled his fingernails out with rusty pliers to teach him a lesson...

Ginge !

you have to work in the place to understand, all the times its the staff being cheeky thats made me switch

driver for example was fucking about "hiding" in the kitchen when hes ment to be doing deliverys,, i ask him what hes doing, he tells me he will be gone soon,,then i see him hiding so i then tell him its time to go as every other driver is gone and i walk off and i hear him talking to another member of staff in brazilian then he said " go fuck your self "

maybe its cause i wouldnt dream of saying that to someone, if i did i would be ready for them to react back to me

the others are staff in the office with a attitude problem, not dealing with issues that aint there sales so just hang up the call, one of em when i asked him why he never sorted it or told me about the issue and hes reply was " i dont care, what you gonna do about it, thought so"

i was employed to help motivate and sort a form of teamwork out which the place REALLY lacked,,,, theres been a few "issues" and ive gone a bit far BUT,,, we now have better teamwork in the workplace though which is proven and the lazy driver was also sacked for stealing money along with 2 of hes mates

i also have the highest customer satisfaction in my office, i deal with alot of issues for customers too when others cant sort the situation and generally am quite good at my job

Ginge !

see this is the total difference, someone takes a long time to drive out of a junction, i didnt go beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep, it was a polite beep as he was taking fucking AGES

again i would NEVER dream of giving attitude when IM in the wrong, i would never stick my finger up at someone either, if im in the wrong im the first to applogise,i understand others,,, all the things ive done im not proud of, its got fuck all to do with being a hard man, the thread is about anger management and im asking whats classed as someone who needs it ?

someone who is baited into a reaction and switches or someone who kicks of over anything that aint going hes way

i can get a proper kicking when grabbling on the floor, get REALLY hurt too but i laugh it off, sometimes teacher gives me a proper kicking as i cant stop laughing when grappling but i laugh about anything, when i wrote the scooby off i was laughing about it even though its cost me over 2k now i still laugh about it

im laied back about things then i switch and have fits of rage come out of me and go too far and do things i would never do and regret afterwards

It's Czech Mate

Ginge, one day, someone is gonna fuck you up good and proper if you carry on like that. Is that what you want for your little girl, daddy sucking dinner through a straw for the rest of your life because of your temper?

Doesn't matter how mouthy or what a tough guy you are, ther is always someone bigger and harder and one day you might meet them

Ginge !

depends tbh, i can go out and have a laugh,,, but alcohol can make me less paitent though downside is i get REALLY drunk so i tend to come off worse, been bottled a few times before and had a few pastings too

RC4

[quote=nellrodd;3997953]+1 that is so fucking hard,one day you will do it to the wrong person,god rest your soul...........

Ginge !

i agree but as i said before it tends to be some small cunt who has the mouth/attitude most of the time but as said ive had a few pastings before in my time, ive been baited into a row with someones mate who set it up who was a boxer and i got proper fucked up then and a broken nose out of it too so dont worry it does happen

swebber23

Don't even need to be bigger or harder, just think the next time you get out of the car someone could just pull a knife and stab you, then when you are down they could be stamping all over your head.

AGAR-COSWORTH

How come no one else picked up on that one?!

Stoo

Spitting in someones face!? That says it all to me. You manky fucker!!

Ginge !

son you aint the best person to comment with me tbh

where have i said ' look at me, im a hard cunt cause blah blah blah"

its about anger management, what is classed as someone who needs it

someone who cant control there temper like throwing there phone on the floor when they have a argument with the missus

someone who someone insults them and switches on them

someone who looks for aguments all the time for a reaction

i worked with bloke before who threw a monitor at someone due to a argument over nothing,,, i also had a scrap with him a few months later suprisingly but he used to come to work in bad moods and look for it/ find things to pick at

as said every person ive kicked of with ive always regretted it and spitting in someones face i regretted as soon as i done it,,,,, i aint talking about being some sort of hard prick ffs im a laid back person who talks to anyone, helps anyone out and enjoys hes life and sharing things with anyone

Turbosystems

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sharing things ginge like your body fluids

Ginge !

yeah,,, could get shot, could get run over, could get hit b by a aeroplane ffs

sorry but if someone ELSE starts a issue with rudeness,, the someone else goes further whos the one in the wrong ?

someone tells you to go fuck yourself,,,, calls you a prick, calls you a wanker ect ect ect, you HONESTLY telling me you would just laugh it off ?????

what stops these cunts doing it all the time ?

i dont call people names, stick my finger up at people as i dont see the point in it,does nothing for me and makes me feel a bigger prick tbh letting someone get away with it

id rather get kicked the fuck out of dealing with someone who started on me than walk away like a mug

Alan_D

It's the way you post Ginge: comes across like some kind of dick waving contest.

Ginge !

i rember at watford there was a bloke having a row with hes bird, my mate goes over to hes bird whos crying,, its a stupid thing to do as you KNOW whats gonna happen next,,, anyway i seen the bloke walking towards my mate, i get in hes way to stop a row ( aint gonna happen though), he throws for me and i arm lock him,, ive got him facing bending down and im just about to kick him in the head when i "think" " this aint even my row,,,,, hes having a barney with hes missus" so let him go and turn round,,,theres about 7 coppers standing behind me who,, well i guess was waiting for me to kick him before nicking me,,, anyway my mate was the one who i was pissed off with not the bloke who cant control hes drink with the missus

though, the reason why i dont get involved in domestics was last time i broke up a argument i got a punch in the face of the blokes BIRD and got nicked for fighting in leciester square

Ginge !

its the way its choose to be read it, its not a dick waving contest at all

i personally aint sure if i have a issue with anger, as i aint angry unless provoked/ someone attacks at me, though words may seem minor to some, i take insults really personally, though when i reflect afterwards i realise i made a bad situation alot worse but if i didnt react i would be angry about it the whole day and worry i may take it out on someone else

at work ive had to tell people and one time i remember is someone saying something like" mate stop being a cunt" or general comment like that as if im stressed/under presure i might not understand you having a wind up/joke which they understand, in return ive learned to ahve a little more paitence with people,,,, well learning

Kevin Sharp

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Ginge...spitting in someones face all because they were more cautious pulling out of a junction than you thought they should be

dirty bastard

Turbosystems

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Ginge when you came across this biker were you driving your subaru ImSPITZA

AGAR-COSWORTH

Im not a violent person, but I'd go ape shit if someone ever did that to me - nothing worse IMHO than getting spat on.

Mr RS500

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I had anger managment

seriously , and all it did was make me as arsey as hell every time i went ,lol