ideas for first date?
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#47
i think ill update this thread if things progress. Anyway i texted her earlier to check we were going to meet, but she said she had things to do, that she was sorry and felt bad, and would make it up to me. So for now we're back to next wednesday.
#53
Paddy you the man
My perfic date that, and she wont remember that you shot your load on the second pump
#54
all this depends on who u are and who she is and what both of you like etc.
Date at the zoo is a good one if the weather is good, It is basically going for a walk and chat together with stuff to point at and comment on. Worked well for me in the past.
I always choose, drink first about 7pm ish, dinner booked at 8:30pm, somewhere nice but not really "expensive" maybe £50 for the two of you.
Doing somethere where you both don't need to realise u have nothing in common can be a help, but she isn't going to be much of girl for u if u cannot spend a few hours chatting. Cinema is a later date when u both know each other and u get a drink before hand, sit close in the cinema, see where it goes from there.
Good luck
RW
Date at the zoo is a good one if the weather is good, It is basically going for a walk and chat together with stuff to point at and comment on. Worked well for me in the past.
I always choose, drink first about 7pm ish, dinner booked at 8:30pm, somewhere nice but not really "expensive" maybe £50 for the two of you.
Doing somethere where you both don't need to realise u have nothing in common can be a help, but she isn't going to be much of girl for u if u cannot spend a few hours chatting. Cinema is a later date when u both know each other and u get a drink before hand, sit close in the cinema, see where it goes from there.
Good luck
RW
#56
ok, another update guys. She texted me earlier about 7pm and asked if i wanted to do something, didn't have much time so agreed to go for a drink in town. I picked her up about 8, all went well and got a little kiss when i dropped her off home.
#57
Laser Quest... the fucking Zapp Zone?!
Running around in the dark, smashing her with the butt of your gun when she's at the 'energiser' to reload... before squeezing off a few rapids to her plastic waistcoat as she lies on the ground recovering from your ambush... before tearing off to your base...
Hahaha, sorry mate, the mental image of that had me in tears!!
Cheers,
Grant
Running around in the dark, smashing her with the butt of your gun when she's at the 'energiser' to reload... before squeezing off a few rapids to her plastic waistcoat as she lies on the ground recovering from your ambush... before tearing off to your base...
Hahaha, sorry mate, the mental image of that had me in tears!!
Cheers,
Grant
you two fellas just made me chuckle. and i dont usually laugh at peoples posts
brilliant
#58
Just a word of advice, if your driving an ESCOS make sure that your fuse box works properly, or you could end up in a service station for about 6 hours while waiting for the AA to come and tow you home!!
Seriously that's what happened to me and Scott on our second date and we're married now LOL!!
Seriously that's what happened to me and Scott on our second date and we're married now LOL!!
#59
My first date with my missus was to meet at the meeting place statue at ST. Pancras station. It's a big massive statue of a couple hugging.
We then went to London Zoo, had a nice meal and just generally traped round London. I had an ace day.
Few months after we took the Eurostar and stayed in Lille for a few days.
We then went to London Zoo, had a nice meal and just generally traped round London. I had an ace day.
Few months after we took the Eurostar and stayed in Lille for a few days.
#60
Right, what a conversation i have just had with her. Anyways we were chatting for a while, and basically she brought up what do you what from "this". I said well not sure just see where it goes, if we get on we get on, if not we don't, no harm either way is there? So i already know she is due to go to uni next september, and moved away for good, but seen as thats 10 months away i had thought in my head if we work out then im sure it be ok, either i'd moved or she not go etc, and if we didn;t then it don;t matter etc. after all decisions in life can change, especially if you was to fall in love. Then i said well what do you want, baring in mind we have only been out for a drink and barely know each other. She replyed with something alone the lines of well seen as im going to uni i don't want nothing serious, then mentioned maby a casual fuck buddy! between all this she mention her ex partner and how shes not sure what she wants and not known her sexuality, then tells me how her ex was female. Now without trying to sound too upfront, i sort of said well if we did get on and fell in love how would you feel then, and would you want to end it when you went away etc. She said she had a strong mind and wouldn't let it happen. Now i don;t know what to do, i think shes a nice girl and would be happy to be her fuck buddy, but am abit worried i would fall for her then just be fucked off when she moves away. Now most men probably think this is a cracking deal to be offered, but should i waste 10 months of my life on this, when i could be looking for a future partner? or should i be the fuck buddy but still look for a future partner, only problem is im sure the future partner would find out about my fuck buddy and it would not look good for me.
#62
Would the next 10 months really be a 'waste' if they are filled with fun, frolics and experiences that you may not have nad anyway?? Yeah, you may fall for her (and vice versa) but don't deny yourself some good times for something that might not happen - nothing wrong with a bit of 'right here right now'! Just be honest with her, ask her to do the same - and enjoy!!
#63
#64
Do something different.................. Get her to come to yours, she will think WTF he just wants a shag, then say to her, "lets make a cake". Tellin ya, get the flour and egss out and you will have a laugh................. So different from the normal, it has an unreal reaction.
#65
Would the next 10 months really be a 'waste' if they are filled with fun, frolics and experiences that you may not have nad anyway?? Yeah, you may fall for her (and vice versa) but don't deny yourself some good times for something that might not happen - nothing wrong with a bit of 'right here right now'! Just be honest with her, ask her to do the same - and enjoy!!
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