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Old 13-11-2008, 08:55 PM
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anyway i have arrange a date with this bird, were gona go to the cinema next wednesday. Thats fair do;s but probably won;t get to chat much when a films on.

So seems we might meet tomorrow night and i was thinking of some ideas, we're both early 20's. Thought about just a drink and a chat but we'll probably do that before cinema night, if we have a second date that is! Have also thought about a laser quest game, bowling etc. Not sure i fancy having a meal sat opposite her as a first date, watch me eating and all that.

just after some ideas really, cheers
Old 13-11-2008, 08:58 PM
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dont do it there evil

go for a drink at least couple hrs before the film at least you can have a chat etc and then dropping her off or how ever you part (hopefully her legs) then say your speak to her soon. then leaves her on the edge of does he or dont he wanna see me again

but as for meeting up before then... defo go for a drink just dont get battered....make sure she does
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bolwing is good as its easy to talk to each other when doing something together and breaks the ice lol
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Diamonds there with crackin advise as usual!!!
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An informal meal is the best way of getting to know her.

And I don't mean McDonalds.
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A drink to break the ice, deffo. You cant beat a good old chit chat.
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Originally Posted by rssteve
anyway i have arrange a date with this bird, were gona go to the cinema next wednesday. Thats fair do;s but probably won;t get to chat much when a films on.

So seems we might meet tomorrow night and i was thinking of some ideas, we're both early 20's. Thought about just a drink and a chat but we'll probably do that before cinema night, if we have a second date that is! Have also thought about a laser quest game, bowling etc. Not sure i fancy having a meal sat opposite her as a first date, watch me eating and all that.

just after some ideas really, cheers
You sound like the woman! Not wanting her to see you eat etc!

Can keep it casual if you think it'd be easier - a pizza/simple pub grub, or do lunch if thats possible? If you want to be a bit flash, book a nice place with a good reputation, you cant go wrong with a meal, if its shit, you can talk about it, if its good you can talk about it, win win situation.

My opinion anyway, first date should always involve food and/or drink.

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Old 13-11-2008, 09:05 PM
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why bother? you dont even need to leave your home to have a date these days....

https://passionford.com/forum/general-car-related-discussion/269089-get-a-life-its-the-fooking-internet.html


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Bowling is a fab idea!

Or how about meeting up during the day and going to a zoo?

SHopping?
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burger king, and a shag in the car
Old 13-11-2008, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Shorty
A drink to break the ice, deffo. You cant beat a good old chit chat.

fuck me Dave, i thought you were a teenager not an old cunt LOL!
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Originally Posted by Sidewayz
why bother? you dont even need to leave your home to have a date these days....

https://passionford.com/forum/showthread.php?t=269089



You've just given me an idea......
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Originally Posted by maria
Or how about meeting up during the day and going to a zoo?

SHopping?

how old are you? thats something my mum would of done in 1870
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take her out in my transit connect she will be yours for the taking
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a shag is the best way to get to know her .if shes good have a second date ,if shes shit tell her to fuck off
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think bowling b the best 1 or you could go 2 london if near you and go round a few sights( not best weather i know!)
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well i think you could go to the cinema earlier - then go out for drinks etc cause then you'll both have the film at least to talk about - shared experience to start with can't be a bad thing - enjoy whatever you do!
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Originally Posted by maria
Bowling is a fab idea!

Or how about meeting up during the day and going to a zoo?

SHopping?

i hate shopping lol, and theres no zoos near, also if she sees me in the daylight she might see how ugly i am.

seriously tho she worked in a shop i used to go in most nights, and recently i've been chatting on msn to her. I like the bowling idea as people have said, atleast it isn;t 100% talking to each other.
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paddy. lol
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But why dont you want to 100% talk to each other? You dont know each other so should have LOADS to talk about!

Nice swanky bar, few drinks and a chat etc....fuck the cinema...why go and be quiet at the side of someone who you are supposed to be getting to know! lol
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get her wasted and smash her back doors in . (this might be why ive not been on a date in a while )
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Originally Posted by Diamonds
how old are you? thats something my mum would of done in 1870

Christ how old is your mum Rob?!
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FFS Paddy!

And Diamonds - i am 27 years old! Nothing wrong with going to a zoo!
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Originally Posted by Paddy







sorry but that, for me, is post of the year, possibly century
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Originally Posted by maria
Bowling is a fab idea!

Or how about meeting up during the day and going to a zoo?

SHopping?

ah ha, you must have a copy of my hand book, lol

Guys, please note this is a female saying its a good idea, generaly girls know what girls like!!
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Laser Quest... the fucking Zapp Zone?!

Running around in the dark, smashing her with the butt of your gun when she's at the 'energiser' to reload... before squeezing off a few rapids to her plastic waistcoat as she lies on the ground recovering from your ambush... before tearing off to your base...

Hahaha, sorry mate, the mental image of that had me in tears!!


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Originally Posted by maria
FFS Paddy!

And Diamonds - i am 27 years old! Nothing wrong with going to a zoo!

your 28 according to Redline LOL!
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i was nice too a girl on a first date now im fucking stuck with her 25 years later
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Sidewayz - I KNOW!!! I cant believe theyre making me old before my time!

Well, im nearly 28... in 3 weeks!
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I shit you not, my first date with the current future ex Mrs Paddy was at a pantomime and it was brilliant. Everyone was shouting out stuff like "He's behind you" and she never realised they were shouting it at her and meant it was me with some choloroform on a handkerchief.

Seriously though, normal women love all that Christmassy stuff. Take her to see the lights or something? It's cold, you can offer her your coat/scarf/arm to warm her up and biggidy BAM! Push her in a hedge and demand sex with menaces whilst singing Carols.
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Ignore that... make it 4 weeks!
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Originally Posted by maria
FFS Paddy!

And Diamonds - i am 27 years old! Nothing wrong with going to a zoo!

jesus, going to a zoo with you would be a nightmare, you would name everything
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Originally Posted by BillyCabrio
Christ how old is your mum Rob?!
im thinking of putting her on the antiques road show lol...well she looks it (she dont really she looks pretty good for 138)

Originally Posted by maria

And Diamonds - i am 27 years old! Nothing wrong with going to a zoo!
ok its cause i wanna go

Originally Posted by Sidewayz
your 28 according to Redline LOL!
ooooh typical dorris lying about her age
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Jtech -

Diamonds -
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Originally Posted by Sidewayz
fuck me Dave, i thought you were a teenager not an old cunt LOL!
PMSL! I think its a good one though, a couple of bevvies and who knows where u'll end up! Lol.

Couple of drinks will calm the nerves aswell.
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take her for a meal on a boat if poss, as its dark this time of year women, nice lighting and the river thames seems to be a winner all the time

its relaxed and different but still able to chat AND they still wont know everything about you

fancy meals is bollox imo as you waste the cash and the bird either thinks " wheres he gonna take me next " or just aint interested anyway

somewhere that money cant be judged is a safe bet

the queen mary on the embankment is always a winner i heard oh and the chill from water is a good reason for a cuddle too
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Originally Posted by Paddy
biggidy BAM! Push her in a hedge and demand sex with menaces whilst singing Carols.

this guy's class!lol
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ice skating.... its comedy all round really and making a girl laugh is a great way to start things... even if you may lose a finger or two if you can't skate lol
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Originally Posted by Paddy
I shit you not, my first date with the current future ex Mrs Paddy was at a pantomime and it was brilliant. Everyone was shouting out stuff like "He's behind you" and she never realised they were shouting it at her and meant it was me with some choloroform on a handkerchief.




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