Serious question about sex after marrage..
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Serious question about sex after marrage..
I know a few blokes that are married, and I'd say over half of them all go on about how the lack of sex is and how it is a 'treat' , since they got married?!
I know Rab brags about not getting it much too now he's married, Infact I bet he puts in paper work to go away with work, just so he can wank, or have some bumfun with the new boy?!
But why?
When I've had a girlfriend, we can't do nothing else but fuck, and if/when I get married, I won't be changing that...
Am I missing something?
PS: Rab, no offence, I just know you go on about it LOL
I know Rab brags about not getting it much too now he's married, Infact I bet he puts in paper work to go away with work, just so he can wank, or have some bumfun with the new boy?!
But why?
When I've had a girlfriend, we can't do nothing else but fuck, and if/when I get married, I won't be changing that...
Am I missing something?
PS: Rab, no offence, I just know you go on about it LOL
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I swear to god it's like a light switch mate. I used to get it ALL the time. It was great!!! I mean HOT HOT. Now it's still very good. But this year (2008) she's let me pump her 3 times
Apparently asking her just makes it worse
I swear to god it's like a light switch mate. I used to get it ALL the time. It was great!!! I mean HOT HOT. Now it's still very good. But this year (2008) she's let me pump her 3 times
Apparently asking her just makes it worse
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3 times? ... Mate, seriously, somthing is badly wrong there ... Classic sign of playing away or somthing similar... Get talking to her, the longer you leave it the worst it will get.
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She was pregnant from october 07-june 08 so nothing during those months.
She just doesn't want to any more
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We still make the effort and are 'touchy-feely' on a daily basis, which helps. Even though having a child around can make it more tricky, we still make sure we get our time and we get dressed up and go out as often as possible too.
I'm not kidding, I'd say we have it 3-4 times a week, sometimes every day.
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Mate, its one thing I've believed in for years. You have to work on it, but it's certainly paid for us. I think alot of people just get 'comfortable' and I won't let us get like that.
We still make the effort and are 'touchy-feely' on a daily basis, which helps. Even though having a child around can make it more tricky, we still make sure we get our time and we get dressed up and go out as often as possible too.
I'm not kidding, I'd say we have it 3-4 times a week, sometimes every day.
We still make the effort and are 'touchy-feely' on a daily basis, which helps. Even though having a child around can make it more tricky, we still make sure we get our time and we get dressed up and go out as often as possible too.
I'm not kidding, I'd say we have it 3-4 times a week, sometimes every day.
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I've nearly had sex every day this week, nearly on monday, nearly on tuesday..
SO close last night but stevenebm couldn't get me drunk enough, oh did he try though.
SO close last night but stevenebm couldn't get me drunk enough, oh did he try though.
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as the famous saying goes... "When the river runs red, take the dirt track instead"
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we have been married 14years
we fuck(each other) 4 to 5 times a week, even before swinging we were doing the same.
we are just sexualy(sp) compatable we both love sex.
but I feel some people start enjoying the newnes of sex with each other and then cannot be arse with it anymore.
we fuck(each other) 4 to 5 times a week, even before swinging we were doing the same.
we are just sexualy(sp) compatable we both love sex.
but I feel some people start enjoying the newnes of sex with each other and then cannot be arse with it anymore.
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Don't reckon it's marriage that turns women off sex, but with marriage often come kids, and that's a definite passion killer. Having kids totally removes spontaneity from the relationship - Especially if you don't have any folks or friends who can babysit for you!
Don't reckon it's marriage that turns women off sex, but with marriage often come kids, and that's a definite passion killer. Having kids totally removes spontaneity from the relationship - Especially if you don't have any folks or friends who can babysit for you!
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Don't reckon it's marriage that turns women off sex, but with marriage often come kids, and that's a definite passion killer. Having kids totally removes spontaneity from the relationship - Especially if you don't have any folks or friends who can babysit for you!
Don't reckon it's marriage that turns women off sex, but with marriage often come kids, and that's a definite passion killer. Having kids totally removes spontaneity from the relationship - Especially if you don't have any folks or friends who can babysit for you!
Bang on,
we had to find time, as we are over sexed lol, but kids kill things
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Yeah was going to say kids are the real passion killer!
Have a baby then you'll soon know what lack of sex is!
People always said it to me (as we were always at it too) but I just thought nah, we'll be still going for it.. fook it's hard to get the chance to do it. All I ever considered was the repair time needed for the mrs but the little thing takes over your life for a while and he just seems to wake up the moment you even lay a finger on eachother.. it takes frustration to a whole new level (especially if you were always at it before like me)
Have a baby then you'll soon know what lack of sex is!
People always said it to me (as we were always at it too) but I just thought nah, we'll be still going for it.. fook it's hard to get the chance to do it. All I ever considered was the repair time needed for the mrs but the little thing takes over your life for a while and he just seems to wake up the moment you even lay a finger on eachother.. it takes frustration to a whole new level (especially if you were always at it before like me)
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i think tbh that it isn't always marriage that gets in the way it is life , me and the wife have been together 13 years now and married for 3, and the sex is as great as ever but, we both work long hours so we are always knackered and normally just cuddle up but when we do it is mindblowing!!, when we go on holiday we are at it like a couple teenagers (i'm28 she's 27) I think being relaxed with no stress of home or job is a great tool in getting the spark back but like chrisian said you have to work at it and it is all about foreplay to get in the mood