Attn Charlie Chalk/Radders....
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"We lend where others won't, low interest rates, anyone accepted, pay back when it suits you!!"
LOL. No, seriously, I'm surprised at Radders. I'm sure he'll be along soon to clear this one up, I've given him a nudge on MSN.
"We lend where others won't, low interest rates, anyone accepted, pay back when it suits you!!"
LOL. No, seriously, I'm surprised at Radders. I'm sure he'll be along soon to clear this one up, I've given him a nudge on MSN.
the git wont lend me any
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I used to borrow money off of friends/family and it's not good as it can cause problems now i won't do it anymore nomatter how tempting some of the offers might be.
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From what I understand Rad is skint at the moment (hence not going out having "Fun"
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Not taking any sides hereat all... just a shame its come to this really.
Maybe Radders will reply once he is back frm Ibiza
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Not taking any sides hereat all... just a shame its come to this really.
Maybe Radders will reply once he is back frm Ibiza
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Maybe not, and im in danger of doing something I pride myself on not doing, so i will bow out and just continue taking the piss, rather than pointing the finger of blame. though it does sound like he hasnt spoken to Lee about it lately and told him that he is having trouble paying back, or to try and come to a new arrangement?
Its funny what happens when you actually talk to people.
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not true, chip has lent me money before and im sure he would not think twice about lending me money again.
friends dont take liberties, the wrong frends do !!!
and 30k thats just silly not lending the money if someone is properly in the shit thats understandable
expecting it back in 6 weeks is silly thou
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Without know the circumstances its hard to comment, but personally I disagree potentially, lending someone money doesnt change the underlying fact they have none, it just puts it off for a while, sometimes that might be useful, but often it might actually just make things worse!
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perhaps you're a better mate to chip than others are to other people, but in my experience, friends think that they can take liberties because they're friends, and believe that your friendship gives you a right not to pay back etc.
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Its mates you dont want to be lending money to, not friends IMHO
Thing is though, im sure Porkie felt the same way about this fella, as I do with trusting you.
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Im sure Rad will sort it, dont like the idea of posting about it on here and letting the whole of PF know about it.
Looks like everyone now knows his business now. Oh well its done now and all down to rad to sort it.
Looks like everyone now knows his business now. Oh well its done now and all down to rad to sort it.
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If he has been out on the piss or powder even once since that post it takes the piss IMHO, paying Lee back should be a priority WAY in front of going out partying.
Still, two sides to every story, and personally I hope Radders hasnt mugged Lee off like Lee thinks he has, as like you I would have considered Radders someone who wouldnt do that.
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Without know the circumstances its hard to comment, but personally I disagree potentially, lending someone money doesnt change the underlying fact they have none, it just puts it off for a while, sometimes that might be useful, but often it might actually just make things worse!
Chip you said yourself you don't know the circumstances! I've lent someone else on here over Ł30k before... and got it back and he gave me a nice thank you on top as well!!! and I know that if I EVER needed him or I was in the shit he would be there for me like a fooking SHOT!
I'm not going to go into them either but I didn't do it flippently!!!
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Which I am NOT, I can assure you!!!
I'm NOT a mug... AT ALL.... hence me chasing Radders up now!
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Thats where this device called a "telephone" comes into play - generally if you pick it up and dial the number of your creditor, they are often pretty reasonable about stuff if you can provide a valid reason of why said funds arent so forth coming, but only if its a mate - loan sharks / banks etc dont take so kindly to none payment, but then why should Lee?
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Without know the circumstances its hard to comment, but personally I disagree potentially, lending someone money doesnt change the underlying fact they have none, it just puts it off for a while, sometimes that might be useful, but often it might actually just make things worse!
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I paid the mortgage of a friend of mine for about 3 months because he was made redundant and had just lobbed out a load of money on some PRINCE/PRINS course or something.
I wouldn't do that with just anyone [he's a black belt plus that 1st Down, Dan whatever in Choi Kwan Do - so it's not as if I could get it back by force
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Makes me laugh people mentioning Lee's good nature! I tried to help out with his request for Guitar Hero stuff and he just got annoyed at my inneptitude
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Chip you said yourself you don't know the circumstances! I've lent someone else on here over Ł30k before... and got it back and he gave me a nice thank you on top as well!!! and I know that if I EVER needed him or I was in the shit he would be there for me like a fooking SHOT!
Im sure someone in your line of work understand the value of an investment can go down as well as up, and would consider the implications fully.
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there is however a difference in circumstance, now the money ive borrowed from you has always been to pay for a toy or something for the toy.
for instance if i need new tyres for a track day, but dont have the money this month.
i will have the money next month and the month after but not this one, now i know ppl say not to borrow money for things you dont need but imo thats a different circumstance its more like a wage advance.
the problem is and where the difference is i was never ever struggling for money (just getting it that month)
when you lend someone 30k they are broke, infact there more than broke that 30k is going to pay off alot of depts, if your in that situation the money aint coming in, thats why i think getting it back in 6 weeks is never going to happen. or is quite likey it aint 30k is alot to get payed and pay out when you have no money
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there is however a difference in circumstance, now the money ive borrowed from you has always been to pay for a toy or something for the toy.
for instance if i need new tyres for a track day, but dont have the money this month.
i will have the money next month and the month after but not this one, now i know ppl say not to borrow money for things you dont need but imo thats a different circumstance its more like a wage advance.
the problem is and where the difference is i was never ever struggling for money (just getting it that month)
when you lend someone 30k they are broke, infact there more than broke that 30k is going to pay off alot of depts, if your in that situation the money aint coming in, thats why i think getting it back in 6 weeks is never going to happen. or is quite likey it aint 30k is alot to get payed and pay out when you have no money
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but if worked last time....
I asked time and time again on PM... nothing.
Posted up publically and within days I got some money!!!!
I have left it again another 2 months and not had a SINGLE apology or ANY idea why he hasn't paid...
and then I hear he is out on the razz ALOT from someone...
SO what am I supposed to do?
This worked before.... and I bet it works again.
I don't give a fcuk that people now know his business!!!
If I knocked someone for 9 months I think this is getting off lightly!!!!!!!
and I know people are sticking up for radders as he seems a top top bloke!! and I thought he was as well!!!
THATS WHY I HELPED HIM OUT!!! seems I was wrong...
Face it Dave... proper people don't mug others off.
Would you?
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9 FUCKING MONTHS DAVE!!!!
HELLO????
do you really think this is the FIRST STEP I took?
you know me? do you think I am some sort of cnut that likes upsetting people????
FAR FAR FAR from it! I would do ANYTHING do help someone or stop them from getting upset...
BUT I DON'T LIKE HAVING THE PISS TAKEN OUT OF ME!!!
Pretty gutted you are looking at it like this to be honest Dave... its making me feel bad about it...
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Yes l understand he owes you money and im sure he will sort it
I dont lend money in the 1st place regardless, its the route to all evil.
I have text Rad and when l speak to him later l will ask him that all l can do
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So what have I done wrong
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AND I repeat what I said earlier
but if worked last time....
I asked time and time again on PM... nothing.
Posted up publically and within days I got some money!!!!
I have left it again another 2 months and not had a SINGLE apology or ANY idea why he hasn't paid...
and then I hear he is out on the razz ALOT from someone...