Right gents - dilemma ! *SORTED* !!!
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Right gents - dilemma ! *SORTED* !!!
Mate of mine met and married a bird years back, and took on her four year old daughter as his own. Brought her up, she calls him dad, he adopted her legally and all the rest of it.
He moved down Hampshire way a while ago, daughter went etc. She moved back up here about a year ago as she was bored down there, and wanted to go to college up here. She moved in with her nan (my mates mum) who also happens to be my mum and dad's next door neighbour. Still with me so far ?
Right, here's the problem. The little daughter is now nearly 18, grown up and won't exactly break her nose if she falls over if you get my drift. Not my type at all, but I seem to be hers and it's plainly obvious she wants some Mr S1 lovin' Now, even if I did fancy her she is totally out of bounds - the problems it would cause would be unreal, both with my mate but also my family and bearing in mind my m&d and my mates mum live next door to one another....she needs to be told that she's persona non grata on that front, but I need to be careful because of the close proximity of everyone and everything and her dad is one of my best mates. Help ! Whats the best way to handle this one !
I'm looking for sensible answers, not 'smash her pasty in and tell her to keep quiet' type responses so if that's all you've got to offer move onto the next post please.
Ta !
He moved down Hampshire way a while ago, daughter went etc. She moved back up here about a year ago as she was bored down there, and wanted to go to college up here. She moved in with her nan (my mates mum) who also happens to be my mum and dad's next door neighbour. Still with me so far ?
Right, here's the problem. The little daughter is now nearly 18, grown up and won't exactly break her nose if she falls over if you get my drift. Not my type at all, but I seem to be hers and it's plainly obvious she wants some Mr S1 lovin' Now, even if I did fancy her she is totally out of bounds - the problems it would cause would be unreal, both with my mate but also my family and bearing in mind my m&d and my mates mum live next door to one another....she needs to be told that she's persona non grata on that front, but I need to be careful because of the close proximity of everyone and everything and her dad is one of my best mates. Help ! Whats the best way to handle this one !
I'm looking for sensible answers, not 'smash her pasty in and tell her to keep quiet' type responses so if that's all you've got to offer move onto the next post please.
Ta !
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Well you're either going to be a greedy bastard and go help yourself to her and get into shit.
Or you are going to be trying SOOO hard not to think about her and eventually you will drive yourself insane and she will no doubt be provoking you and you are going to end up doing it and getting yourself into shit.
Conclusion: either way, you're in shit
Or you are going to be trying SOOO hard not to think about her and eventually you will drive yourself insane and she will no doubt be provoking you and you are going to end up doing it and getting yourself into shit.
Conclusion: either way, you're in shit
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Your clearly semi-gay for even needing to THINK what to do.
That or your just trying to show off.
Or she has big tits but munted.
Bum her.
Hope this helps.
Stavros, king of morality and goodness.
That or your just trying to show off.
Or she has big tits but munted.
Bum her.
Hope this helps.
Stavros, king of morality and goodness.
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oh dear you so posted in the wrong place didnt you...
but you know the thought is there and you have probably allready thought aout it.. alot.. there is no dilemma you just need to to the animal thing.
get it out of the system for the both of you.
but you know the thought is there and you have probably allready thought aout it.. alot.. there is no dilemma you just need to to the animal thing.
get it out of the system for the both of you.
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oh i see, so i guess you got the whole peedo quilt feeling as u knew her for years, even tho shes legal now days?
prob best to just ignore it, carry on as normal, she'll get bored eventually.
that is tho, and i have to say it sounds like you may have from ur replies?
you have given some sort of responce like i dirty perverted look, or you have txted her etc. in this case your buggered!
prob best to just ignore it, carry on as normal, she'll get bored eventually.
that is tho, and i have to say it sounds like you may have from ur replies?
you have given some sort of responce like i dirty perverted look, or you have txted her etc. in this case your buggered!
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oh i see, so i guess you got the whole peedo quilt feeling as u knew her for years, even tho shes legal now days?
prob best to just ignore it, carry on as normal, she'll get bored eventually.
that is tho, and i have to say it sounds like you may have from ur replies?
you have given some sort of responce like i dirty perverted look, or you have txted her etc. in this case your buggered!
prob best to just ignore it, carry on as normal, she'll get bored eventually.
that is tho, and i have to say it sounds like you may have from ur replies?
you have given some sort of responce like i dirty perverted look, or you have txted her etc. in this case your buggered!
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or make a joke of it to you mate, just word it carefull. you dont wana go calling his little girl an up for it slapper.
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sometimes you can't help how you feel and even if you say it's a no go nicely, she might not get the message and ignore it