relationship problems.......dunno what to do??
25-04-2008, 03:09 PM
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relationship problems.......dunno what to do??
am feeling so down and all over the place at the mo! my girlfriend of nearly two years is giving me sooo much shit at the moment that it is breaking my heart! just seem to argue over stupid things and it ends up in her leaving or not talking to me! i cant get her to open up or talk to me! i love her dearly but i'm thinking of ending it but its ripping me apart as i dont know what i would do without her! one minute im like "fuck her i dont need her" the next im like "god i miss her" what am i gonna do? 
25-04-2008, 03:14 PM
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express your concerns to her and tell her your thoughts about where your at etc. If she loves you she'll understand and you's can work at it and if she gives you more grief i'd tell her to sling her hook!!!!
You'll be right mate, it hurts for a while but it goes away.
You'll be right mate, it hurts for a while but it goes away.
25-04-2008, 03:18 PM
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25-04-2008, 03:28 PM
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As said just put it all out there then at least you know you're doing your part. Its damaging just grinding on when its like this....
If she still can't get her head straight get a clean break then let her do the legwork, if she doesn't your better off IMO.
Hope you sort it
If she still can't get her head straight get a clean break then let her do the legwork, if she doesn't your better off IMO.
Hope you sort it
25-04-2008, 03:32 PM
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If you left I guarantee you she will come begging you. She will then realise your not a fucking joke and need to be treated and taken seriously. There's a good chance she will go and find someone else but it wont last long. When you end it the key is to make her think you are allot happier without her. Do not end it and then go begging because all you will do is end up with the same situation only worse because she knows when you end it again you're not going to do it for good.
Make her feel as though getting another chance with you is like winning the Lottery, make her sweat, cry and feel like shit as it sounds as if she deserves it. Don't do it over night neither, maybe go into another relationship or let her know you have found someone. If you dump her and you are back together tomorrow she won't take you seriously. Remember, she will try and play with your head and tell you she has found someone when she probably hasn't. Wish her the best of luck, tell her your happy for her. Never, and I mean NEVER let her think you are jealous even though you probably will be.
And last but not least, if she doesn't come back realising she made a mistake being such a TWAT then she isn't worth worrying over and I advise you to move on. Easier said than done, allot easier but it'll all be worth it. You can't live your life with a diseased women.
The problem you have is she doesn't have any respect for you or she wouldn't be causing these arguments in the first place. If you do what I said above and then make her beg you for another chance, she will show you allot of respect.
Benni.
Make her feel as though getting another chance with you is like winning the Lottery, make her sweat, cry and feel like shit as it sounds as if she deserves it. Don't do it over night neither, maybe go into another relationship or let her know you have found someone. If you dump her and you are back together tomorrow she won't take you seriously. Remember, she will try and play with your head and tell you she has found someone when she probably hasn't. Wish her the best of luck, tell her your happy for her. Never, and I mean NEVER let her think you are jealous even though you probably will be.
And last but not least, if she doesn't come back realising she made a mistake being such a TWAT then she isn't worth worrying over and I advise you to move on. Easier said than done, allot easier but it'll all be worth it. You can't live your life with a diseased women.
The problem you have is she doesn't have any respect for you or she wouldn't be causing these arguments in the first place. If you do what I said above and then make her beg you for another chance, she will show you allot of respect.
Benni.
25-04-2008, 03:35 PM
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As said just put it all out there then at least you know you're doing your part. Its damaging just grinding on when its like this....
If she still can't get her head straight get a clean break then let her do the legwork, if she doesn't your better off IMO.
Hope you sort it
If she still can't get her head straight get a clean break then let her do the legwork, if she doesn't your better off IMO.
Hope you sort it
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25-04-2008, 03:36 PM
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Be a man and go pull another one just kidding i couldnt live without my misses.You cant have a relationship like that arguing all the time thoe.Try give it another go mate and ask her to put some effort into it as well as you.
25-04-2008, 03:41 PM
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If you left I guarantee you she will come begging you. She will then realise your not a fucking joke and need to be treated and taken seriously. There's a good chance she will go and find someone else but it wont last long. When you end it the key is to make her think you are allot happier without her. Do not end it and then go begging because all you will do is end up with the same situation only worse because she knows when you end it again you're not going to do it for good.
Make her feel as though getting another chance with you is like winning the Lottery, make her sweat, cry and feel like shit as it sounds as if she deserves it. Don't do it over night neither, maybe go into another relationship or let her know you have found someone. If you dump her and you are back together tomorrow she won't take you seriously. Remember, she will try and play with your head and tell you she has found someone when she probably hasn't. Wish her the best of luck, tell her your happy for her. Never, and I mean NEVER let her think you are jealous even though you probably will be.
And last but not least, if she doesn't come back realising she made a mistake being such a TWAT then she isn't worth worrying over and I advise you to move on. Easier said than done, allot easier but it'll all be worth it. You can't live your life with a diseased women.
The problem you have is she doesn't have any respect for you or she wouldn't be causing these arguments in the first place. If you do what I said above and then make her beg you for another chance, she will show you allot of respect.
Benni.
Make her feel as though getting another chance with you is like winning the Lottery, make her sweat, cry and feel like shit as it sounds as if she deserves it. Don't do it over night neither, maybe go into another relationship or let her know you have found someone. If you dump her and you are back together tomorrow she won't take you seriously. Remember, she will try and play with your head and tell you she has found someone when she probably hasn't. Wish her the best of luck, tell her your happy for her. Never, and I mean NEVER let her think you are jealous even though you probably will be.
And last but not least, if she doesn't come back realising she made a mistake being such a TWAT then she isn't worth worrying over and I advise you to move on. Easier said than done, allot easier but it'll all be worth it. You can't live your life with a diseased women.
The problem you have is she doesn't have any respect for you or she wouldn't be causing these arguments in the first place. If you do what I said above and then make her beg you for another chance, she will show you allot of respect.
Benni.
25-04-2008, 03:42 PM
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Don't go running, she is the one who walked out. All her friends will be assuring her you will come running so don't do it. If you do she will just keep taking the piss out of you. Believe me I've been in the exact situation for 3 months long. My friends kept telling me not to go running and I kept doing things like, going in her shop for a can of Coke, Driving past her bus stop and so on... She loved it. Then I stopped and before I knew it she was on the phone crying. Telling me how her new boyfriend was not as nice as me, not as funny, and so on... I still haven't taken her back and I doubt I will but it's a nice posistion to be in.
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25-04-2008, 03:42 PM
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fuck her off mate she cant really be bothered about your feelings if she's constantly
making you feel like shit,
a broken heart will mend and the best way to
fix it, is to have a good few nights with your mates out on the pull again.
making you feel like shit,
a broken heart will mend and the best way to
fix it, is to have a good few nights with your mates out on the pull again.
25-04-2008, 03:43 PM
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25-04-2008, 03:44 PM
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I had the same problem,feckin snakes with tits they are.if she doesnt come back then shes not worth havin mate trust me,been there and got the t shirt a few times.
25-04-2008, 03:45 PM
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Then she will slip back to her old ways again, I think you should move. It's much, much easier said than done if you Love her though.
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25-04-2008, 03:45 PM
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Don't go running, she is the one who walked out. All her friends will be assuring her you will come running so don't do it. If you do she will just keep taking the piss out of you. Believe me I've been in the exact situation for 3 months long. My friends kept telling me not to go running and I kept doing things like, going in her shop for a can of Coke, Driving past her bus stop and so on... She loved it. Then I stopped and before I knew it she was on the phone crying. Telling me how her new boyfriend was not as nice as me, not as funny, and so on... I still haven't taken her back and I doubt I will but it's a nice posistion to be in.
Benni.
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25-04-2008, 03:46 PM
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Or I might have to sling my hook!!!
25-04-2008, 03:47 PM
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25-04-2008, 03:48 PM
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25-04-2008, 03:50 PM
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i know its so shit i hate that feeling! need to be around people to keep me happy! aint got the internet at my house! i'm round my parents now using web and writing on ere!
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25-04-2008, 03:52 PM
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25-04-2008, 03:55 PM
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You won't miss her once you have someone else. Unless of course you really do love her but if you did I have a feeling you would miss her all the time. Have a wank, and then tell us if you miss her. I think it was Stavros that told me this on this forum ages ago and it was the best advise anyone has ever given me. It sounds stupid and dirty, but it works.
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25-04-2008, 03:57 PM
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The more you dwell on it the worse you'll feel then you'll look like a miserable git!! Best thing to do is put a time limit on your problem. Try and sort it out in this time limit, if you can't crack it then you have to walk away.
Far too much time is spent these days on worthless relationships we are only on this planet for such a short length of time, might as well be happy or you'll look back and regret all the time you wasted
Far too much time is spent these days on worthless relationships we are only on this planet for such a short length of time, might as well be happy or you'll look back and regret all the time you wasted
25-04-2008, 03:58 PM
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The more you dwell on it the worse you'll feel then you'll look like a miserable git!! Best thing to do is put a time limit on your problem. Try and sort it out in this time limit, if you can't crack it then you have to walk away.
Far too much time is spent these days on worthless relationships we are only on this planet for such a short length of time, might as well be happy or you'll look back and regret all the time you wasted
Far too much time is spent these days on worthless relationships we are only on this planet for such a short length of time, might as well be happy or you'll look back and regret all the time you wasted
25-04-2008, 03:58 PM
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25-04-2008, 04:01 PM
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seriously i dont wanna hear it! this is hard enough as it is! if she was she'd be gone in 2 seconds flat and i'd make it my mission in life to fuck all her mates, her sister, her mum! just to make her feel as miserable she is making me feel! i really hope that aint the case!
25-04-2008, 04:03 PM
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yeap i agree shes playing about but dosn't have the guts to dump you. she wants to cause arguments so she has a reason to end it, or even better you end it, i bet she will all a suddenly have a new fella too. best bet is shag her mum or sister, or mate, dump her, atleast then you have something to laugh about.
25-04-2008, 04:05 PM
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25-04-2008, 04:07 PM
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yeap i agree shes playing about but dosn't have the guts to dump you. she wants to cause arguments so she has a reason to end it, or even better you end it, i bet she will all a suddenly have a new fella too. best bet is shag her mum or sister, or mate, dump her, atleast then you have something to laugh about.