how do you get to do a private match ?

i want to chin my mate but when we click on private match it keeps coming up with a notice saying unable to connect to host

any ideas??

i can go on normal online play but cannot invite a friend or accept invitations???

thanks

 

its normally an isp problem,when they are busy it doesnt work at all for me, try it at about 11.30 at night when the net is quieter,works for me,


also,if your wirelessly connected , try a cable connection,as this can help too