he needs behavioural management lessons because apparently he finds it difficult to manage his anger and aggresion when he gets upset or angry

all this because he headbutts things, he'll grab soemthing and bang his head against it, if there is nothing close, then he goes to the floor and bashes his head on the carpet

still, he's only 20 months old so he's got ages to get sorted

anyone else got any children that are little bruce banners

 

ours just fookin scream at eachover

 

he always comes a cropped though
he'll bang his head too hard, then find something softer and bang it on that

little shit

i'm just scared that being on the list of nutters will stop him finding a place in a school

 

na he will grow out of it

 

next thing you know he'll be taking steroids and fighting people dressed in a nappy

 

out with other kids you'd imagine he's be beating them to fuck, but he's brilliant with other kids

it's only when he's on his own that he plays up

and if you try and stop him he headbutts us in the face

 

Maybe change his Diet?

 

if you go around elbow dropping him and throwing him out of the ring, hardly surprising he has a temper is it...

 

3 of my brothers had ADHD very violent and pain in the arses, always come in handy when you need them though

 

20 months too.

he might grow out of it hopefully.

 

his diet basicly consists of eating what we eat stu, with some milk first thing in the morning and last thing at night
so if we eat toast, he gets some toast, if we eat egg he gets egg, if it's dhal and roti then that's fine with him too
he used to go crazy if we didn't give him yoghurt, he used to eat 2 or 3 cartons in a sitting (the little 50ml pots of petit filous or munch bunch) and when he'd had enough he'd stop

now he tends to eat a lot less requently, i don't know if it's his stomach growing and being able to store more food or what, they are only theories and we can't really be sure, but over the past few weeks he suddenly changed what he likes to eat and what he hates
yesterday he didn't let anything touch his mouth, but given a wiff of chocolatre and he was all greedy gums
he wouldn't drink anything but a waft of fizzy coke under his nose and he was struggling to get to it

after his nut allergy scare on friday he was fine on saturday and then he was up all night puking on sunday, then he was fine sunday afternoon but sunday night again he was puking and freaking out
and he's not had anything different to what he normally has so we are stumped

the only thing i can think of is that he used to fly backwards on the bed when he was a lot smaller so perhaps he gets a buzz from freefalling?
i know that when he's excisted he either shakes his head really violently from side to side or runs around in circles until he's so dizzy he can't stand up straight

but no one can explain why he does it, so perhaps tying a pillow to his head is the simplest solution

we think the alergic reaction has come from a little bit of indian sweet he had but we had to take a list of all the ingrediants to the docrot and he's said go to a specialist hospital to get him tested, he's given us a referal but not a date as yet

and he goes to anger management calsses on a teusday now i used to get a slap when i played up, he's getting all sorts of special treats and cudles and shit, i think i was born 30 years to early

kids eh, who'd have em if they knew they were going to be this much trouble

 

in all seriousness.. Hope all gets sorted..!

 

Do a little research into Caffeine, MSG, Gluten, sugar and Dairy intolerance pal. You may be surprised. I know a little bit about these things and the doctors couldnt fix me either, they insisted i was in perfect health even when i couldnt keep my legs still or get more than 1hrs sleep a night. Nicole's issues were very different, but again, Doctors found her to be in normal health, even after having to administer Morphine to unlock her frozen muscles.

There once was a time when i would have thumped someone rather than waste time talking to them mate. My problem was caffeine and, to a lesser extent, Pork. There are a LOT of kids with similar problems and often you will see a pattern once you look for it. Mine was approx 30mins after eating or drinking. Some things, like MSG can take over a day to affect your brain, so its often real hard to spot the cause.

Hyperactivity and excessive emotion are BIG clues to these kinds of intollerances bsing at the root of teh problem. There is a LOT of stuff on TV about it now, hidden away on teh living and health channels normally. It can be VERY intersting to watch.

Just look at the new Yob culture and ask yourself, what the fook has changed so much in the last 5 years that we are now a country ruled by gangs of aggressive kids? What has changed so much? Education? Maybe? Parents? Perhaps? FOOD? Definately!! We are a nation of overweight fast food addicts who eat food FULL of chemicals that fook with our brains.

Best of luck pal. You will need it if he isnt fixed before he gets big enough to hurt people.

 

Nail.Head. Too many people don't understand what processed means, and what goes into processed food to make up the numbers, and keep it from going off.

The best food to eat is the stuff you know where it came from (butchers, veg market, bakers etc).

If you fancy another conspiracy, try googling aspartame. Then try finding a fruit squash without it.

 

What says the butcher, market stall etc wil be 100% just because you "think" they are better they might be more dodgy than the rest .

If you think its food related just try to simplify diet and go out from there see if get any better. What goes into food is always on the label

 

I still walk around headbutting thing for fun and im 18..

Nothing wrong with him

 

He's great im sure he'll grow out of this stage !!

I was mega hyper when i was growing up and luckily grew out of it (kinda !!)

 

little zidane pmsl
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theres a program on just now about the children with adht just now.
think there must have been lots of folk at school with me that had that but they never realsised what it was

 

Not because "I think" ( ) , because if I ask them for more information, ie where it comes from, they can actually tell me, where as the muppet in Tescos won't have a clue were it's from or how it's been produced.

 

Hopefully it won't get this bad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P39b7v1wzfg

"THE FAMILY THAT I LIVE FOR ONLY BREATHES THE AIR THAT SMELLS OF COMBAT!!!!"


"SHOULD I GO TO AFRICA AN D LET THEM TRAMPLE ME WITH RAMPAGING ELEPHANTS!?!?!?!?!?"

 

he's from an indian family and he's allergic to nuts....thats gonna be fun

as for the head banging he'll prob grow out of it....he's just attention seeking i'd guess

 

ADHD

Not to be taken lightly if diagnosed with it....

 

I didnt and i'm 23 and still the same

Ojk, I was like that as a child, and as Stu has said it was mainly down to my diet.

Its shocking what foods have E Numbers and other shite in them, and what they can do to ppl's behaviour! Quite a few E Numbers are banned in Norway, Finland etc - makes you think, how bad they really must be to be banned from countrys.

 

For fucks sake, every kid who plays up has got ADHD nowadays.

The drug companies are making a fuckin fortune off it, granted, some kids probably do have the said condition but it just seems like a general cop out easy fix to diagnose every kid who fucks about and gets in trouble as having behavioural problems which require medicating

bollocks!

 

Good job you're not a doctor then with how little you know.....

 

No, i leave things like that to you. As you seem to be qualified in most things apparently

 

dont all kids do this at sum point?

play with him more he will soon stop it

 

My cereal is now all over the keyboard

 

My daughter used to do exactly the same thing!! Would bang her head when she couldnt get her own way!! Shes 2 now and long grown out of it!!

 

tbh i think everyone goes through it, i went through it a couple years ago, when i got pissed off i would punch something, anything, fckud all my knuckles up, i only stoped recently mind you, after i left my x girlfriend

 

too many people quick to say adhd when in reality the answer is a lot simpler







pay him some attention
this is all it is with most kids i should know have 4 of the blighters and no its not a dig just some advice
most of the time its just a cry for some attention !!!

 

i didnt want attention..i just wanted to break things to release anger


Dojj is this your son ..

 

Graham S1

Because he tells you, you still think its 100%? SO if George Bush said everying was 100% legit you would belive him? Just as another side of coin


Not saying it is bad, just wouldnt say it was amazing either. All food from super markets have hats in them on the back by law! Not much other stuff goes into it.... honest

 

Considering I've know HER since school.. then YES. And she can go into great detail, about where they were raised, what they were fed etc, etc. Would your average supermarket know that?

Anyway that's not the point.... even buying stuff from the supermarket counters, and making it yourself, is still infinitely better than buying anything in a packet.

When you open a packed meal/pizza/fizzy drink etc, you haven't got the foggiest what chemicals went into it, preservatives etc.

 

what do you live on rice and water?

 

he's reduced himself to eating nothing now
only drinks
everything else he vomits out, or attempts to vomit out

once we've got him better again and got his alergy thing sorted then we'll try giving him different foods etc to change his temper

we all play with him, give him loads of attention (it's pretty diffuclt to ignore him as he's always doing something stupid it's always a life or death situation with him because he'll either make a bolt for the stairs if the gate is open or he'll bounce on the sofa trying to get himself impaled in the cealing ) and he gets all the attention he ever craves, just can't figure out why he's so hell bent on braking his head every once in a while

i can understand when he's frustreated, but thats when he starts throwing toys about the place, but this running aorund being nice and happy to stopping and banging his head on the floor is just crazy

 

What drinks do you give him dojj?

Lots of fruit squashes and fizzy drinks that contain Tartrazine (E102) cause hyperactivity in young childen. My daughter was extremely hyperactive and hardly ever slept, once I cut out the squashes and put her onto pure fruit juices, the change was so noticeable.

Other additives that cause it too are....

Tartrazine (E102): A synthetic yellow azo dye found in fruit squash, fizzy drinks, custard powder, ice cream, sweets, chewing gum, jam and yoghurt. Commonly used in UK but banned in Norway and Austria.

Sunset yellow (E110): Also a synthetic yellow azo dye which must be heat treated. Found in orange jelly and squash, swiss roll, apricot jam, hot chocolate mix, packet soups, canned fish. Banned in Norway and Finland.

Carmoisine (E122): A synthetic red azo dye which must be heat treated. Used in blancmange, marzipan, jams, sweets, brown sauce, yoghurts, jellies and cheesecake mixes. Banned in Japan, Norway, Sweden and the US.

Ponceau 4R (E124): Also known as Cochineal Red, a synthetic red azo dye used in dessert toppings, jelly, salami, seafood dressings, tinned strawberries and fruit pie fillings. Banned in Norway and the US.

 

yeah, my brother used to go nuts, like REALLY angry, whenever he had E102.

So what reasons do Norway and Austria have for banning it out of interest?