how do i stop it keep starting up as soon as there is a internet connection? i want it to open when i want not when it feels like it.

 

uncheck the start up box so it doesnt start as soon as you open windows

 

Tools>options>connections, the startup box is in there

While your at it click on "sharing" in the white box click on the text once, then click on remove, then uncheck the box that says "share my completed downloads", click on apply then ok.

That makes it so that your not sharing anything, which isnt advisable