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Not being funny. But why spend all that money going to Amsterdam for 4? weeks.
Why not just pay a Prostitute over here?
Surely he must know that at 26+ its not worth waiting for "the one" Might as well shag some random girl. Just to get the monkey off his back. That'll probably give him more confidence to start with.
I wonder what exactly the trauma in his earlier years was though. Strikes me (half arsed watching) that hes got some issues. Prbably through putting loads of pressure on himself when interacting with the other sex. Maybe hes just Gay and so fearful of what his family will think? I dunno.
Originally Posted by Dannn
Because he needs more than just a shag from a Prostitute....!
Oh, I get what you mean. Ideally you loose your virginity to a person you've been "in love" with for a while. And its a great experience for both people and it brings you together in a emotional double orgasm.
Or not.
Im sure (hope) Im not alone in saying my 1st time was utter shite. I remember thinking. Is that it? And she wasnt my GF either.
I think the guy on the TV, (assuming he wants to have relationships) has put so much pressure on himself. i.e Any girl he meets will HAVE to lead to sex in the end. That he stunts him socially. So maybe just having basic sex will help him realise that its not jsut about sex its about the other aspects of a relationship. And thats what he needs to work at. If he gets a long termer then it will flow naturally.
I wonder what exactly the trauma in his earlier years was though. Strikes me (half arsed watching) that hes got some issues. Prbably through putting loads of pressure on himself when interacting with the other sex. Maybe hes just Gay and so fearful of what his family will think? I dunno.
Originally Posted by Dannn
Because he needs more than just a shag from a Prostitute....!
Oh, I get what you mean. Ideally you loose your virginity to a person you've been "in love" with for a while. And its a great experience for both people and it brings you together in a emotional double orgasm.
Or not.
Im sure (hope) Im not alone in saying my 1st time was utter shite. I remember thinking. Is that it? And she wasnt my GF either.
I think the guy on the TV, (assuming he wants to have relationships) has put so much pressure on himself. i.e Any girl he meets will HAVE to lead to sex in the end. That he stunts him socially. So maybe just having basic sex will help him realise that its not jsut about sex its about the other aspects of a relationship. And thats what he needs to work at. If he gets a long termer then it will flow naturally.
Or maybe Im way off.
The sex or getting a woman is not his main problem. Its quite clear he has a massive self esteem problem which probably started when he used to get bullied at school. Feel sorry for the bloke - he does not come across as stupid etc yet he delivers newspapers for a living !
If his problem is related to low self confidence. Then this programme is not the best thing for him. For every person watching feeling sorry for him. They'll be 10 ridiculing him for being "different"
Needs some more help in that rather than relationships IMO
He needs to get out to a club, get pissed and talk to some girls
That work for you does it?
I bet the girls love some sweating drunk bloke telling them "I luuuuuurrrrrrrveeeeeee yoooooo" or "Alright darlink, grab yer coat you've pulled. Buuurrrrrpppp!"
Think about it though, if you aren't to popular at school and don't have to many friends, you may not get the chance to get out and meet a bird in your teens.
Before you know it your in your early twenties and most people you meet have, so would imagine it becomes embarrasing to admit to it, making you feel worse and so makes it harder to have confidence around the opposite sex.
Thank fook i lost my to an ex when I was 16, I was shit, she knew no better