Feeling pretty shell shocked this morning....
30-03-2006, 07:37 AM
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Feeling pretty shell shocked this morning....
My ex texted me last night and we got talking again. I haven't spoke to her for a while, cause she started going out with this bloke, and it seemed the chance to get back with her had gone.
Well this morning she told me she's pregnant, and that the scumbag has fooked off as a result.
I'm still fond of her and this feels like a big kick in the balls to be honest. I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing.
Feel like I need to see her to make sure she's ok but beyond that I have no idea.
It just feels weird, you know?
Dunno why I'm telling you lot,
but it helps to write it down.
Well this morning she told me she's pregnant, and that the scumbag has fooked off as a result.
I'm still fond of her and this feels like a big kick in the balls to be honest. I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing.
Feel like I need to see her to make sure she's ok but beyond that I have no idea.
It just feels weird, you know?
Dunno why I'm telling you lot,
but it helps to write it down.
30-03-2006, 07:39 AM
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not been funny Jay - but fuck her off as you will only be lumbered with some other scummers brat - she is only coming back to you as she sees you as a soft touch who will carry the burden for her.
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
thats the way i'd do it anyway, and i suppose been gay i don't have these problems
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
thats the way i'd do it anyway, and i suppose been gay i don't have these problems
30-03-2006, 07:40 AM
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tbh mate sounds like cause shes got dumped and is now facing being pregnant alone and she knows your still fond that you will come back to her and raise the kid with her? sorry to be harsh but it happend to a mate of mine a couple of months ago
30-03-2006, 07:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Graceland
not been funny Jay - but fuck her off as you will only be lumbered with some other scummers brat - she is only coming back to you as she sees you as a soft touch who will carry the burden for her.
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
thats the way i'd do it anyway, and i suppose been gay i don't have these problems
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
thats the way i'd do it anyway, and i suppose been gay i don't have these problems
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30-03-2006, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Jay, stay the fook away mate. This has more warning written on it than radioactive waste, and its likel;y to have a similar effect on your life if you fook about with it!! 
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Take heed Jay - its in your best interests chap
30-03-2006, 07:52 AM
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WTF is it with some fuckin women!
Think they can fuck you off start seeing someone else & then when that fucks up they think can just walk back into your life like everything's fine!!
Stay the fuck away mate!
Think they can fuck you off start seeing someone else & then when that fucks up they think can just walk back into your life like everything's fine!!
Stay the fuck away mate!
hard to do it but walk away
30-03-2006, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Graceland
not been funny Jay - but fuck her off as you will only be lumbered with some other scummers brat - she is only coming back to you as she sees you as a soft touch who will carry the burden for her.
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more
30-03-2006, 07:56 AM
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Aye, I won't be getting lumbered with no kiddie. It's just a bit hard to take, that's all. I'd like to see her but it would deffo only be as a mate just now.
My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector
My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector
30-03-2006, 08:02 AM
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My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector
30-03-2006, 08:06 AM
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the women you want is one that is already self sufficient good job carear house etc etc
flawless but few and far between 
the word user comes to mind fresh dad
it seems your still sweet on her ive been there matey
sack it while its early days HONESTLY
THATS THE BEST THING IVE POSTED HERE IN 2 YEARS
well apart from tiffany and simona
30-03-2006, 08:08 AM
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Is there any chance this woman is just feeling down,and needs someone she knows is friendly to talk to?
or do we just presume she is a money grabbing witch
or do we just presume she is a money grabbing witch
30-03-2006, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Originally Posted by DogSmoke
My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector
Not on my watch!!
The hard part is that I genuinely care about her. We went out for almost a year and only split cause I moved away to uni at the time. It's not as clear cut as she fooked me off and now is running back cause she's pregnant.
I know how it looks tho. I still think I need to see she's ok, because that's just the kind of guy I am.
30-03-2006, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Originally Posted by DogSmoke
My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector
Not on my watch!!
The hard part is that I genuinely care about her. We went out for almost a year and only split cause I moved away to uni at the time. It's not as clear cut as she fooked me off and now is running back cause she's pregnant.
I know how it looks tho. I still think I need to see she's ok, because that's just the kind of guy I am.
30-03-2006, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu @ M Developments
Lets have the whole story then Jay, sounded to me like she fooked you off, got another guy, screwed him, got preggers, he darted for cover, she phoned Jay......
30-03-2006, 08:21 AM
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Same old story.
Bird dumps someone for someone she thinks is better, other bloke gets her up the duff and runs for it, other bird goes to the backup plan, backup plan takes her back as hes still loved up and thinks she is too.
Then a few years down the line it happens all over again.
And then in 20years Jay has 5 different stepchildren of all kind sof colours
Dont go there mate
Bird dumps someone for someone she thinks is better, other bloke gets her up the duff and runs for it, other bird goes to the backup plan, backup plan takes her back as hes still loved up and thinks she is too.
Then a few years down the line it happens all over again.
And then in 20years Jay has 5 different stepchildren of all kind sof colours
Dont go there mate
