big_wig_074

got a pm earlier this week from doddsy saying he definitely wanted my zvh bottom end thats for sale,ok i said,no problem.then he wanted to meet in birmingham as he is in blackpool and im in wales so its a long way,i said i had NO money and if i was to meet him i would be paying for the petrol with a cheque as i really cant afford it,but with the cash from the sale i could sort it out,we eventually agreed to meet in gloucester as birmingham was miles further away from me.anyway,he said he would be in gloucester at 1 for definite,would definitely have the bottom end and he'd call when near to confirm directions. so,i trusted him,payed by cheque for petrol and promptly drove 120 odd miles to gloucester.i got there at 10 to 1,waited a bit........quarter past 1 came and went,i called my brother to see if he had pm'd me to say he couldnt come,or if he had actually said he was leaving blackpool at 1,not getting to glos at 1,but no,neither was the case,he should have been at gloucester for 1pm. i waited,waited some more,then finally at 2 oclock i left.i went to cheltenham(only a few miles away)to meet steve(itsmeagain) to show him the new motor.i kept my phone on me in case he called,and its now 10 past 5 and he STILL hasnt called not even to say sorry,i couldnt make it etc etc...NOTHING! and to top it all off my heater matrix blew this morning,and my clutch cable JUST broke as i pulled into my driveway.
so thanks!im now out of pocket for the petrol,ill get a letter from the bank asking why im over my overdraft,ill get charged for that too,i will have driven 250miles more than i wanted to(was going to stay at home and have a free weekend as im skint) and i now have to drive back home (100+miles) without a fucking clutch,youre my fucking hero!

Physio

Firstly - who's Doddsy?

&

Secondly - Doddsy .... (whoever you are)

Not good mate you dont need to be messed about like that, it dont take a min to call & tell someone you cant make it or you've changed your mind!

Anonymous

thats fucking shit that

Eagle

iTrader: (2)

thats a bit off .. hope there is a good reason for it ...

Nick80

wat a priiiiick

digita1dragon

Fookin timewasters


Just so out of order leaving you out of pocket like that.

POPEYE

crack his skull

Charlie Chalk

iTrader: (1)

C*nt

adamS2RST

Assume you have his number? Did you try calling him ?

big_wig_074

no,i gave him MY numberthen didnt get a reply with his number,but thought he would be there anyway. i REALLY trusted the members of this board,thought it would be worth my while,now im screwed,great!even if he had called at 1 and said sorry i dont need/want it,cant make it,etc etc....that would be ok,but no contact at all! im fuming!

adamS2RST

Well tbh, driving all that way without a contact number was a bit silly imo! - Not having a dig at you, the blokes clearly a c*ck for not calling let alone not turning up! - But there may also be other reasons behind it, emergency perhaps? I'm sure you'll find out.

big_wig_074

my message stating i had no cash etc

Sent :: Message
From: big_wig_074
To: doddsy
Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 5:39 pm
Subject: Re: zvh bottom end
birmingham?jesus! thats about 3 hours away!im properly skint at the mo so you'd have to deffo be having it as ill have to write a cheque for fuel!



his reply saying he would deffo be there!


right then gloucester it is then you'll have to send me some details on were abouts in gloucester i can meet ya coz never bean there before and i will be there that is a promise
the bottom end that i want off ya is it the one that fiesta frenzy built??

Mr S1

iTrader: (2)

Give the bloke the benefit of the doubt until you hear from him.............you never know what could have happened. If just a no-show then do your bollocks but wait until then first chap

big_wig_074

unless hes in hospital theres no need,he could have called or pm'd me anytime,i could have been at home nice and warm and not even worse off than i started! im sorry but i just dont buy the whole "sorry i was (insert horific accident or family member dying) and couldnt get through to you" line,it seems to always happen during the EXACT time transactions are going to take place!

Mr S1

iTrader: (2)

I don't disagree with you mate, would be very convenient but at least hear what the guy has to say...............it may be a plausible excuse. If it isn't then by all means do your bollocks - I would !!!!!!

EIL132

Bit silly tbh, guys only posted 3 times on the board. Still a nightmare tho.

Stoo

Gutted mate! Been had a few times like that myself,now if someone wants something,they can come and get it!

Doubt you'll hear from him mate.Chin up and (try) to forget about it

big_wig_074

yeah,from now on unless i actually know someone,they can come get the stuff themselves.
tbh it shouldnt matter how many posts a person has,if i JUST joined here now and said id have something,id bloody have it,low posting numbers isnt a get out clause,its manners to inform people of things,i get enough of being pissed about without prior info at work,dont need it on weekends and interfeering with my finances which im trying to sort!

stevenebm

iTrader: (6)

dodsy should be banned for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

G2 FSR

Im hoping for doddsy sake he has a genuine excuse. Dont need people like that on here

big_wig_074

if its genuine i will make a VERY public apology,if not ill stay pissed off.

Carlsworth

eh....

you ASSUMED,.........?????

timrud

If its not a genuine excuse the man is a grade-A nobber

big_wig_074

yes i fucking assumed!i had been pm'ing him all week,we had arranged exactly where and when to meet,he had been getting back to me,was interested in a few other bits,he said he would definitely be there!what should i have done?stayed at home then see if he called?then say"sorry im in wales itll take me 2 hours to get there,didnt want to leave till you called!"

Carlsworth

yes,......
if it was me, and was soooooo skint, i would have waited till he phoned,.....at least then you have his phone number,.....ahh fuck it, i cant be arsed,....you ve been fucked, and its shit,....

big_wig_074

its called punctuality and manners.i said i would be there at 1,i was there early.i didnt know if he had any credit left etc...therefore i showed incase he had lost his phone or couldnt contact me but was still making the long journey!,i gave him precise and easy instructions via pm so he could have got there easily.therefore i wasnt worried if he couldnt call for directions due to something happening. goes to show that being a man of my word doesnt always help!even when im going well out of my way to help others i get stiffed.

Carlsworth

thats why its best not to just trust someone that is registered on here for 2 mins, and that you havent even spoken to,....

like i say,.....its shit what has happened, and you seem so pissed off about it that nothing anyone says will be noted as constructive critisism just taken as "having a go",.....but, there are do's and dont's when dealing with people over the interent,.....

like the time i met that dominatrix,.........

big_wig_074

i apologise for my strong remarks,but some people do my nut,cant beleive this has happened.i would NOT have minded had he called or contacted me in another way and simply said he couldnt make it.even after my drive to gloucester,but to ignore me and simply not bother is rude.

Stavros

At least you got a free large bacon quarter pounder meal at mc donalds and some gaffa tape

What a nob end tho, 120miles...

JezSierra

what a bell end,he should have a damn gd reason for letting you down mate

SPADGE

Unless i had the money up front or at least enough to cover my time and costs i wouldn't have traveled beyond my front door mate! This guy has very little to lose by letting you down as you don't know him from Adam and you don't even have his phone number to call and give him grief
It is shit when things like that happen but just call it a lesson and remember to only trust people whom you know or know of unless they put their money where their mouth is.

Cowboi

what an idiot, it takes 30 seconds to make a call.

he should never of said 100% he'd have it if he wernt 100%.

i bet he would kick off big time if someone did the same to him though.
i wish people would treat people how they would like 2 be treated.

OldDan

He owes money to a best mate of mine..

Recently we all went over the Amsterdam, doddsy said he was coming all along then pulled out at the last minute. He still owes one of the lads 80quid, who is not best pleased.. It was also looking that at the last minute I was paying the room over there for two people too, but luckily we got it changed..

Not a good way to go about really..

t4p

yup... tis true what the young one says, the guy didn't answer his phone for ages and only posted he wasn't coming last minute.


as for having his telephone number....

Doddsy (ste) can be found on 07944 339 682 (withhold ur number or he doesn't tend to answer)