found out last night that my old lady who i have been with for 10 years has been shagging some bloke from work, this has been going on for years, i am so fucking angry, i have been knicking my pan in working offshore and thats all the thanks i get, i have the blokes name and mobile number and i think he is in the colchester area, when i get my hands on him it will not be pretty.
hope you all have a better day than i will

 

have you spoke to her about it yet? normally best before you go bulldozing in there!

 

sorry to hear that.

 

Thats not good Bob, sorry to hear that mate

 

gutted for you bob mate

 

Ouch, a proper wounder m8

 

i have found birthday cards etc from the bloke, if i was sobber i would be in the car and off to find the fucker but i will bid my time, if any one wants to ring him and his number is 07879440786 i think he works for the woolwich

 

Sorry to hear that mate

 

That's not nice news, gutted for you

 

Genuinely Sorry to hear this Bob.. been there done that, its fooking painfull

 

really sorry 2 hear this

 

sorry to here that m8

but ya cant just blame the guy it takes 2 as thay say

 

really really sorry to hear that geeza.

i would probably take that number off the net, cos if someone rings him and says " your gunna get murdered" he's probably gunna reasile whats happened and who's gunna do it and go in to hiding. this way he'll never see it coming

then until you feel he has been beaten enuff for that day then repeat every day until you've had enuff

hope you get things sorted and start to feel better soon.

matt

 

sorry to hear that...

Must be soooo tempting to just go beat the foook out of him, then have words with the misses

 

sorry to here that geezer imo theres only 1 way to handle it

 

Dont forget this chap may not Know Bob exists peeps...
We dont know enough of teh story to suggest decapitation and suffering yet..... I had a pal in a similar situatio, a Fisherman, and his missus had told her fella they were divorced..... therefore IMO not his fault, painfull as it is for my pal

 

Gutted for you mate never been in that situation before luckily but I can imagine how bad you must feel.

Stu makes a valid point about this other guy possibly not knowing you exist, personally if it happened to me I don't think I'd be really angry with the man involved unless he was a mate, it'd be the girl I'd be angry at

 

Id want more proof than a couple of birthday cars before i risked a 20 stretch inside over it.

Personally if i was in your position, id just chuck her out and go and fuck someone half my age to cheer myself up again.

No point risking ending up in clink over some slag who was obviously never who you thought she was anyway.

 

PS

I agree with those above, the bloke has done fuck all to you, he doesnt even know you, its not his fault you bird is a slag, he is just taking advantage of the fact same as any of us would if some bird offered it up to us on a plate, wether she had a bloke or not

 

PS

If you ARE going to go round there and give him a proper kicking then obviously there is a risk (you dont know if he has heart problems etc) that the guy may die, it happens sometimes even when you dont intend it to.

This thread would turn the offence you are guilty of into premeditated, which is a lot longer stretch inside, so you may want to get admin to remove it.

 

ive been on the other side of this mate

i was shafting a bird and i didint know she had a bloke !

ive also had this done to me

i actually found my stinking ex in bed with a jamaican imigrant

damn those black blokes and there massive penis's

 

 

he knows the score regarding who she was with etc, in one of the cards he even offered to pay the kennel fees for our dog for fucks sake so he knew what the situation was

 

well then go bash the living shit out of him immediately

 

when i find him i will

 

Sorry to hear about that Bob. Gutted for you mate, been there & it aint nice

 

Bob, fucking shit news mate tell her to do one and never come back. make sure she gets fuck all of what you paid for too


fuckin worst nightmare mate

 

2 options, let all your stress out on them and possibly come off worse or just walk away with a comment and hold your head up high.

Have you got children? If so you have to protect them or if they are old enough you can all stand together.

Sorry to hear the bad news though and we are all here to make you smile again.

 

 

thank fuck its her kids and not mine, i just feel so hacked off knowing shes been shacking this wanker while ive been ofshore earning the cash to pay for the house etc, i really am at the end of my tether, but the bottle of bushmills is helping just now, anyone want a lodger and a dog ?

 

I would sell all her stuff and all mine, hide the cash away, and play dumb.

This thread couldn't come at a worse time, just started living together with the missus

 

 

Kick her out of the house.

Revenge is also good without even touching the guy, just play with his head like, ring up the local Mortuary and ask then to pick a body up from his address, I had that done to me and my trowsers filled up with the brown stuff when the undertaker bloke said he had come for me.
Interflora deliver nice flowers, better when they have ANOTHER womans name at the bottom

 

Revenge is sweet and healthy!!!!! Sell he stuff on E-bay and then go to the pub on the money you got or if enough go on holiday.

 

Trouble is, if you send flowers like that, its harrasment, and you can get done for it.

If you and 5 mates in balaclavas beat him until he no longer moves, and you are smart about it, no one ever knows.

Id sooner get away with giving him a kicking than get locked up for sending him flowers!

 

Does she know that you know yet?

If not, im sure there is a LOT of fun to be had

 

What a fooking wounder pal
I was once in a very similar situation, but thje kids are both mine. Its taken years to come to an ammicable agreement and now the eldest girl lives with me. You have to be carefull here pal, play your cards carefully or you can lose everything you own as she has kids and youve made her "accustomed to a lifestyle" It can be grim pal and a GBH story will not give the judge any sympathy for your plight if this twat appears in court on crutches and makes you look a Bad tempered Hooligan....

Please take care Bob... see through the pain and calculate your moves pal.

 

If you and 5 mates in balaclavas beat him until he no longer moves, and you are smart about it, no one ever knows.

think thats the best way 2 go about it myself just make sure you have a good alabye ps sorry about the spelling

 

For an alabi, get 3 birds round to a mates place and get him to video you banging the fuck out of them in full view of the clock, set 3 hours forward, then go beat him up, then pop back to his place and set the clocks back to normal.

when the old bill arrive, he can claim you have been there all night and you'll have some lovely evidence of you getting your end away for them to show the mrs and her new bloke in court

 

you dodgy geezer lol