right me and bird have been together bout 2 years now.

we split up couple of months ago always arguing and shit, andway back togther now and getting on really well.

but during the time we were split up she got some blokes number, he tried ringing her one night we were together and she totally denied knowing him, then it was oh yeah some bloke i met

she said shed delete his number which i thought she did, but without me knowing all shes done is just stick him under some birds name.

am i being totally paranoid or is this out of order would she still be txing him

she lied bout ever knowing him and now shes lied bout deleting his number thats what bothers me

cheers!

 

what ever happened when you split imo shouldnt really count but if she's hanging on to his number personally i'd send her up the road

 

had pretty much the same thing happen with my mrs minus we had been togethor 4 yrs we got back togethor and she had been txtin someone the same under a birds name i found out she burst into tears we split up again then she went weird and wouldnt leave me alone realised what she had done and wanted us back togethor i gave it another chance and we have been 100% perfect for the last 2 months now

id say give it another chance ask her outright or at worst do a bit of undercover work and find out who it is mighjt be hard but worth it in the end it will tell ya either way if you are just parraniod!!!!

 

yeah and me, she obviously got his number for reason and then hid it, if nothin going on she would have deleted it

 

cheers lads,

i would just come out and say it but i feel really sad cos i had to check his number which was under call register then checked it through the phone book

thing is i feel bit of a hipocrit cos if i met some bird i wouldnt delete her number but i def wouldnt tx her.

just wondering weather its worth having another argument and maybe split up for good just cos i dont like being taken for a mug

thanks again for replys

 

its hypocritical yea but id still have a right go at her

shed not keep his number if wasnt interested, must be dead interested to still keep it under another name once u told her to delete it.

im a right cheating unfaithful cunt, but if i was cheated on id still go mad, as im sure she would if she caught you out even if she was.

birds with blokes are usually easier than single ones imho, lol, and what they all do is put your name under a girls one in their fone, fuck i do same on my own fone.

i was busted for nailing a mate of a mates mrs (if you follow me) by my mate, who saw texts on her fone from a "stephany" but he recognised my number

Didnt say owt apart from "fair play, id do her myself if i had the chance"

I think the moral of the story is girls are hos given half a chance and a decent temptation, dont trust em as far as you can throw em

 

thing is she really dont seem like that sort of person, thats whats really bothering me, i know when i go out next pull couple of birds ill feel alot better and you feel in control of the relationship but what sort of relationship is that!

 

trust me, the "dont seem like that sort of person" are usualy the ones, its really suprising.

the ones that DO seem that sort of people are usualy just the ones who jus are blatant, the ones that dont, well they just sly...

this one bird who was someone i knows mrs, everyone wanted her, but she jus didnt seem remotley interested in anyone but her bloke, nobody thought shed cheat. what people didnt know is when it was jus me n her, she was REALLY dirty. not long after i nailed her, and a few days later on the sat night my mate comes up to me with the "youl NEVER guess what i did the other night" and i was like "youl never guess what i did either!" and lo and behold, he said what id never guess, and yup, hed shagged her too
Neither of us had any idea about the other person, and like everyone else, was shocked she was cheating at all as seemed like the LAST person who would, and belive me, im far less nieve about these things than most.
Tis a fucked up world mate.

I know exactly what you saying about pulling other birds makes you feel better tho

The way i see it is like this, i trust no bird, and cant be trusted either. Wont stop me being with them, wont stop me having a good time with em, treating em same as i would if was faithful, wont stop me loving them.
I just keep the 2 things (ie girlfriend and sluts) totaly seperate in my mind and my life, and make sure all the other birds know this is no relationship, 1girlfriend and 100 hos, quality, but 2 girlfriends is a BAD idea (and cant see how you can love 2 of em either myself).

Its not ideal, but works perfectly on the lines of "what they dont know cant hurt em" esp that the odds are theyl do the same to you at some point.

IMO only birds that dont ever cheat is ones that would never get the oppertunity to, ie if they totaly iscolated from the world (almost impossible, no matter where they live), or shes pulled miles out of her league and will never have anyone anywhere near as good interested in her as shes a monster (birds dont get on an ugly geezer if they was with someone decent, theyd cheat with as good or better).
I think a lot of blokes you see with mingers are with em as they know its secure, fook that, id rather be single or take the risk of the mint piece rather than that, seems fookin stupid.

As you can see, me no trust

 

lol m8 im the same with my mrs now!!!

 

steve makes alot of sence, its a fact the birds cheat on there blokes more than blokes cheat on there birds

just they know how to keep secrets and most blokes will ALWAYS stab ya in the back for a bit of pussy



soooooooooo many times if had mates who have been all loved up, spent all there time with there love of there life, go to mothercare on saturdays to look for baby ideas and all other bollox then find there bird is giving it away


hard but true

good lcuk mate and i advise you do not what you think you should do, but do what you would advise ya best mate to do in that situation




oh and alot of people feel stupid and feel they wanna fight for "there girl" ect


same as ya see birds who do that, its a low morale thing, think no fooker loves ya and then ya send time trying to keep the bird



when the best situation for ya self to cut the stress ect is drop the bitch and get on woth ya life as theres a man shortage in this country at the moment, look at the stats and its christmas time too

get a new year and new thoughts, stress aint worth it and if she is trying to play ya then ya best off fucking her off and save the overall heart ache

good luck

 

oi....your the man tell the bitch straight!

 

in experiance women tend to jump from one right to another, she prob did bang someone else but end of day you two had split so she wasnt doin fook all wrong


your with her now thats what matters, shit like that eats ya up inside and ruins relationships


GET OVER IT

 

MAYBE she's kept the number so that she knows to ignore it when it shows up on Caller ID? Changing the name to a girls name so as not to worry you, if and when this guy tries to contact her again?

The way you gotta look at it is this, the chances are she's doing it to protect you and to avoid a jealous argument. If you're jealous anyway, she's already won.

Unless her names Claire and she's from Southampton, then she's been getting it from me for years, boyfriend or not

 

thanks for replys lads.

anyway after i originally posted msg bout 1 last night, she was upstairs asleep. went up there just asked her straight out and she still tried lying. in the end SHE started crying saying how ive got these girls numbers why shouldnt she keep one.

made me feel bit stupid because she was saying why ruin relationship over some boy she spoke to once in the pub and that was it, i dont think anything did happen cos i read one of his msgs without her knowing , seemed like a right dick!

need to start making her more jelous again, she used to be so possesive it werent funny!

and where the fucks this man shortage all the places i go anyone would think girls were banned!

thanks again for advice ! feel alot better !

 

You know what... i think she maybe keeping it for another reason...

He obviously has her number and he is obviously texting her for her to be texting back...

Maybe he is texting her and she wants to keep his number so the texter has an identity and she knows who it is, rather than keep asking 'Who's this?'

She just has it under a different name, so u dont go mad i reckon....

She has just got back with you... she obviously wants you...!!!

 

bull crap!....its a proven fact women want more than they have! same as men really!

if she was keeping it to remeber the number all she would have to do is memorize the last 4 digits!

(know from experiance) the reason for it being on a girls name is so if it beeps/vibrates/whatever and you look over and it says tina rather than (big dick harry) you wont get hufty!

like ya said she tried lying again!!! as for you have girls numbers on ya phone.....do you txt/ring them regular?

 

It's funny how that old chestnut always pop's up, how does she know you've got loads of girls numbers on ya phone ? She been checking it ??

My ex bird used to do it constantly, always going through the phone book, who's this, who's that Why's she texting you blah blah

 

fuck that m8 , show her the hairy side of your hand and get something else to poke on .

how can you have a relationship with someone if you dont trust them , let alone loving someone you dont trust

when the right one comes along you will never have any doubts and the feeling you get inside will be greater than anything you thought possible

 

Just ask her out right.
If she cant be honest then send her down the road.
If you really want the truth I find the best way is to really piss them off. My mrs always tells the truth when I'm a arse to her.

 

Sounds to me like she's keeping her options open, and if he was just a mate then she'd have no reason to hide his number!

sling her

 

Never a truer word spoken!

 

agree with everything ste has said on this thread!!

ive just been through all this hiding phone numbers... finding her spare phone sh:t she's comfortably binned now!!

i let it go for ages - but it was begining to take the pi55 and she got complacent about it... to the point where her point of arguement was "you cant tell me who i can and who i cant speak to"......... binned!

she played the "im a nice girl" line... and at the time I believed that.... but shes gone bad now, and turned into likesome cruise ho. ffs i put up with a year of misery - cos i thought she was a nice girl and worth hanging onto.... wrong uns!!

fook em!!! bring on the ho's where you know where you stand!! onwards and upwards!!

 

bollox - you will get more than insecure as youve pulled yourself something worthwhile who 'seems' to be all that youre after.... you fall head over... you have a relationship for a few years... she gets complacent... gets twitchy feet.... wont make the jump without setting up an exit plan first.... and then you REALLY find out what they're like!!

.....but like the murphys!!

PS - i saw my an ex up town last night.... I woulda dropped anyone i was with to go back with her (and i was one who finished it... ) she told me she's single.... dunno how much water you can get to flow under the bridge?!!

 

i presume you mean "everything" and "said"

and thanks, i agree with myself too, i consider myself to be an expert

you mentioned somthing i forgot to say too...

girls 99% of the time make an exit plan from their current bloke...

it might not be a new "boyfriend" but it will at least be some bloke to "see" (ie get nailed by), and usually they start "seeing" them way before they finished the last one.

You know, you dont sell the old car without taking the new one for a test drive do ya...

 

lol - yeah it shoulda said that!! i should try typing with my eyes open!! but went out last night and im fooked! lol

thing thats happened with my last two girlfriends is they kinda fook off their friends and cant be arsed... they then kinda attach onto my friends... then they get scared to fook they got no real friends.... set up an exit plan... this exit plan i figure whats goign on... it stresses the relationship out.... fooks up... and then I fook em off!

their life is obviously going to be hell for the next few months without me like!! lol and there's always me laying on the guilt trip about everything they seem to have to tell me about 'meeting' new people.... im like... cant believe you did that you supposed be nice girl etc.... it makes me pmsl!! ah well they shoulda been nicer and then i wouldnt be as vindictive!! lol


ive found that once the seed of doubt has been sown... it doesnt matter how you try to dig it up and replant it under a rock... the little fooking weed is gonna keep creeping out!!

have your fun with her... make your own exit plan. once its set up... screw her for all she's worth.. if she continues to take it then readdress the situation!! if she buckles and goes into wont do fook all mode.... walk!

 

Steve, your spot on m8! Do you wanna be me mentor and agony uncle

 

 

Never met you steve, but fcukin hell you make me laugh!!

 

Well i dont want anything more or less than i have... i have got everything i want from carlRsT...

 

Was in a similar situation about 6 months back.

It went from her sending him texts to sending pictures of her tits!

Then she went on holiday and cheated on me!

Good thing I hack her MSN and laptop to record MSN convo's... Anyone who read the ones I put up on the net will konw jsut how gutted I mustve been

So I sent her packing! (still gotta work with her. its hard - especailly as everyday I gotta hear about her new fireman bloke)

What im trying to say is mate one thing can lead to another... be careful

 

totaly agree! but then it could just be the type of women we go for...

 

i decided if your birds gonna cheat on you there gonna do it no point in ruining yourself with worrying.

My ex left me for her boss and i never knew it was coming

my relationships after that were shit as i just couldnt trust anyone


my mrs allways gets ex nobheads txting her pictures of there feble little cocks etc but dont worry about it. She sleeps in my bed at the end of the day and worships me

she came back to you and if your getting on well leave it at that if she starts taking the piss and u catch her lieing or sommit then confront her i wouldnt wind yourself up about it.

 

Too fuckin true

 

Gutted for you pal.. honestly

 

then you shared pics of her tits with me

 

yeah been getting on really well since, just like when we first started going out, hopefully should be ok now!

and as you said if shes gonna cheat then why worry bout it.

cheers lads!

 

It wasnt cause you couldnt trust anyone, i mean FFS you walked in on the one looking like she filming a scene from BlacksOnBlondes.

Did your mistrust force her to go get the biggun off someone else?

No.

Jus was given half a chance and the temptation.

 

I was kind and foolishly let her see an ex bf. Didn't really realise at the time that they did have a thing, but she said they were just friends.

4 months after this conversation, me lending her my new car etc (as she said she had no friends locally) she was on the phone to a friend. I listened in and heard "I think i'm gonna dump dave (me) this week".

I thought everything was ok and trusted her entirely, but i was wrong. Any conflict is a no no. If she really wants to be with you, she'd be happy to delete the number.......and you delete yours as well. That way you both don't have an exit plan...so it looks a lot more serious.

I've moved on gladly (and for the better i hope although still in the early stages) although i still work with my ex. Heard that her job has changed for the worse and got to move house. I ended up buying her out of the house and kept the cossie

 

This thread is useless without pics

 

i aint read all the replys so someones probably already said it but i see it as if shes changed the name then shes being deseatful (sorry cant spell) and being dishonest.and there really aint room for that in a proper relationship.surly there is no good explanation with out more lies.I am however a synic.hope you sort it out