My ex texted me last night and we got talking again. I haven't spoke to her for a while, cause she started going out with this bloke, and it seemed the chance to get back with her had gone.

Well this morning she told me she's pregnant, and that the scumbag has fooked off as a result.

I'm still fond of her and this feels like a big kick in the balls to be honest. I'm just not sure how I feel about the whole thing.

Feel like I need to see her to make sure she's ok but beyond that I have no idea.

It just feels weird, you know?

Dunno why I'm telling you lot, but it helps to write it down.

 

not been funny Jay - but fuck her off as you will only be lumbered with some other scummers brat - she is only coming back to you as she sees you as a soft touch who will carry the burden for her.

if you really must see her, then do so as a friend only, and make it clear that you want nothing more


thats the way i'd do it anyway, and i suppose been gay i don't have these problems

 

tbh mate sounds like cause shes got dumped and is now facing being pregnant alone and she knows your still fond that you will come back to her and raise the kid with her? sorry to be harsh but it happend to a mate of mine a couple of months ago

 

LOL can't say I hadn't wondered about this to be perfectly honest. She's not been talking about getting back with me or anything and she's getting loads of support from her family. She said her mum is going to give up work to look after it during the day so that she can keep her job.

 

dont be a mug mate

 

You don't want no wench with baggage!

 

Jay, stay the fook away mate. This has more warnings written on it than a barrel of radioactive waste, and its likely to have a similar effect on your life if you fook about with it!!

 

Walk away.... she is using you.

 

Nuclear


Take heed Jay - its in your best interests chap

 

Is she keeping it and if so why??

 

pmsl @stu

 

WTF is it with some fuckin women!
Think they can fuck you off start seeing someone else & then when that fucks up they think can just walk back into your life like everything's fine!!




Stay the fuck away mate!

 

micro wave family as was said hard to do it but walk away

you will end up the loser in the end

sorry

 

isn't that the way it is aj and always has been
some stay a week some a year some 15 years women have the need to have babies in the end no matter how long it lasts it rarely lasts

 

What he said!

 

Aye, I won't be getting lumbered with no kiddie. It's just a bit hard to take, that's all. I'd like to see her but it would deffo only be as a mate just now.

My passion for fast cars is gonna leave me even more skint than I am anyway, so any woman that manages to get any money out of me will be a miracle worker or a debt collector

 

stay a way u have been warned by everyone

 

the women you want is one that is already self sufficient good job carear house etc etc

 

Jay - when she rings up next, just tell her the foloowing..........

 

If all else fails and your hard up, she will just take your fast car and leave you in teh gutter...

 

change your phone number problem solved

 

Or even....

 

flawless but few and far between

the word user comes to mind fresh dad

it seems your still sweet on her ive been there matey

sack it while its early days HONESTLY

THATS THE BEST THING IVE POSTED HERE IN 2 YEARS

well apart from tiffany and simona

 

get really drunk tonight and text her all the abuse you can,,, pass the phone around the pub and let everyone have a go

 

Is there any chance this woman is just feeling down,and needs someone she knows is friendly to talk to?

or do we just presume she is a money grabbing witch

 

they do exist mike found one in the end took him 35 years lol

 

it's the same thing bud lol

 

 

Not on my watch!!

The hard part is that I genuinely care about her. We went out for almost a year and only split cause I moved away to uni at the time. It's not as clear cut as she fooked me off and now is running back cause she's pregnant.

I know how it looks tho. I still think I need to see she's ok, because that's just the kind of guy I am.

 

hes on dial up i sent that ages ago

 

Lets have teh whole story then Jay, sounded to me like she fooked you off, got another guy, screwed him, got preggers, he darted for cover, she phoned Jay......

 

 

 

 

Dont do it Jay

 

That's what i thought

 

DogSmoke

get on msn with your real mates and ask STU to delete this thread...

just a idea matey but i would walk away

 

Agreed, don't do it

 

Same old story.

Bird dumps someone for someone she thinks is better, other bloke gets her up the duff and runs for it, other bird goes to the backup plan, backup plan takes her back as hes still loved up and thinks she is too.

Then a few years down the line it happens all over again.

And then in 20years Jay has 5 different stepchildren of all kind sof colours

Dont go there mate

 

Quick !! Put this on !!




Al.........