Originally Posted by
James90RS
I'd say there is an underlying problem, this is why she's behaving like it, not just cos shes a "naughty child" or whatever!
Just gotta try and work out/get out of her what the problem is!

I don't agree, lot's of kids go through stages and there never always a cause of it, it's part of pushing boundries imo, learning etc
Don't always go looking for an underlying issue as there may not be one, physco analysing everything a child does isn't healthy for them or the parent.
If it doesn't work try something else, most kids arent damion no matter how much we think they are.
And if I can only offer one tip that works for me, do not shout, I try to never shout, as said my daughters 11 and sons 5, both of them have only ever heard me shout a couple of times cause we all have done it at some point when returning home from work tired etc but it just isnt worth it, doesnt get you anywhere.